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Silence8 -> RE: An interesting piece of advice - do you agree with it? (5/22/2010 5:16:51 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
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ORIGINAL: Silence8
I personally would recommend against engaging in any kind ofpro-domination (or prostitution, which everyone knows isn't that far off)) because of the mutual objectification that occurs necessarily.
Have you paid for sex or pro domination/submission? Also have you received payment for sex/pro domination/submission? If not, please don't attempt to tell people who have how they MUST feel, because as someone who has some experience of this, you are talking bollocks.
You kidding me?
You don't have to try something to be against it. Yes, even [shudders] generally.
Also, if you look more closely, I'm not telling anyone how they 'MUST feel', which is an obvious diversion from the point of the matter, that it's sensible at times to suggest what should be done despite how one might 'feel'.
Not everything that people want to do or feel they should do should be done or supported or justified or accepted.
This form of 'tolerance' coincides with a world that's ugly, brutally pointless. It's 'pathological', in both senses.
Not only that, people who try to maintain the sort of fantasy that you advocate often will reach a point where their lifelong illusion breaks down, and the result is far more traumatic than if they maintained a more realistic perspective from the beginning.
Yeah, but... sorry for interrupt your politics of convenience.
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