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RE: My picture post...prefer to see male or female mode? - 4/12/2006 10:56:16 AM

FLsubmalecd

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This gave me a chuckle! All of the comments were to change the picture to male mode from female mode until I did go change it. Then the last three posts suggest I keep the female picture up. lol
There a re good points made on either position. But my being a cross dresser is in no way a MUST for my submission to a Domme. Yes, I would want to serve her in female mode at times. Maybe as a reward for a good deed done or something. But it is not a must. It is who and what I am and I can't deny that. So with the right Domme, if she chose to never see me dressed in fem mode but at least understood it is part of me, then I think I could even compromise and dress only when she is away from me. But I will not hide that need from her. But ideally, she would at least let me dress when around her even if not while serving her in any way. But she could at least accept that this is part of me. Maybe even use it as punishment. That is, if I did something she was not happy about, she would take away my privelege to dress for a period of time. Kind of reverse forced fem. lol But since I present myself 98% of the time as male, then I agree that the male picture should be the main picture on my profile. But of course if I found a Domme that wanted me dressed around her everyday (not in public), that would be great too. it's just not the main reason I am searching for Domme. Hmm? Did I already say this in an earlier post?
The main thing to me is to please my Mistress in anyway she sees fit...male or female mode.
Then main thing is love, trust, understanding and mutual respect for each other.

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RE: My picture post...prefer to see male or female mode? - 4/12/2006 11:49:58 AM

GoddessDustyGold

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This is what I thought you orignally meant. However, it does seem to emphasize the cross dressing aspect when those are the first words in your profile.
*S* So now that we have your photo straightened out, you probably should so a little work on the written portion!
Well, I just flipped to it and I see you have changed it. Much better, FLsubmalecd. (See? Even your user name indicates a cross dressing proclivity, so you've got it covered!)*Wink*
What I was going to say is that you write so much on the boards, and you are a good writer, yet your profile was bare bones. I am glad to see you changed it and you are begnning to add more.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 4/12/2006 11:50:50 AM >

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RE: My picture post...prefer to see male or female mode? - 4/14/2006 5:16:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz
My personal preference is to see vanilla pics on the front and then kink pics (in your case dressed) behind the main profile picture.

Not only do I want to see the person before I see the kink, but my interest is in people with similar attitudes. Person first, kink second (if that). If you're a transexual that identifies as the gender you are presenting the same rules would apply. You might be 'dressed' on the front page but it would be a vanilla pic of the gender you are presenting, not a pic presenting your 'kink.' You have indicated in your posts, however, that you are not a transexual so a vanilla pic of you as a male would be what I'd want to see on the front of the profile. Frankly, I tend to not notice kink pics as cover pics other than to say "Next!" I liken dressed pics of CDs to genital pics of CBT enthusiasts. I want to see the person before I see their dick.

I feel exactly the same way.
I have entertained getting to know someone with whom my kinks weren't 100% compatible, because they seemed like interesting human beings, and sometimes that has worked...
For some of us, the kink is simply icing on the cake... A solid relationship foundation, albeit, a Dominance/submission based one. M

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