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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 9:41:40 PM   
kittensmailbox


Posts: 744
Joined: 1/7/2005
From: Youngstown, Ohio
Status: offline 		i say post EVERYthing you can about this man...

i turned my former boss in for bugging me at work about wanting "favors" from me... and i can not what a power trip it gave me...

at first i was afraid but then i said screw it, i was not in the wrong, he was... He had more to loose then me...

i tell everyone the truth as to why i left my job...

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 9:52:54 PM   
cariad


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From: Calgary, Alberta
Status: offline 		kitten: girl thanks you and also is sorry to hear of what happened to you.

while she can not name names girl will say the dom will not take no for an answer, threatens when confronted with lies, pressures one into making a decision, insists that slaves that are to be his do not speak to other prospective Doms, insists you give your name, phone number and age to him as  well as your passwords to any accounts here or any other site like collarme.


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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 9:57:08 PM   
TxBadMan


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From: Moody, Texas
Status: offline 		Cariad; I mean no disrespect towards you, but you have to take a stand on something like this. From my perspective, there is absolutly no reason why you should be submitting to anything this man wants. Being a slave; Gorean or otherwise, does not mean that YOU have to forsake your own safety and sanity for someone else.

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 10:07:26 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Call the telephone company and report him for harrassment or change your number to an unlisted one that should end the phone calls. As for online put him on ignore, change your email addy and if you go online use a nickname he won't know.
This dude isnt a dominant he is a stalker and there are laws to protect you against this sort of person. Its up to you to make it stop he obviously can't control himself he is getting off on scaring you. Don't empower him anymore and if he threatens to come after you irl  buy a gun and learn how to use it. Then tell him "girl has gun, girl knows how to use gun, girl will shoot dumbass Dom right in the nutsack if he comes near girl."
It worked for me, having a .45 shoved into his gut made him think differently and I was never bothered again.

~Lashra

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 10:09:08 PM   
TxBadMan


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Then tell him "girl has gun, girl knows how to use gun, girl will shoot dumbass Dom right in the nutsack if he comes near girl."

LOL
Exactly

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/8/2006 10:46:58 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

Call the telephone company and report him for harrassment or change your number to an unlisted one that should end the phone calls. As for online put him on ignore, change your email addy and if you go online use a nickname he won't know.
This dude isnt a dominant he is a stalker and there are laws to protect you against this sort of person. Its up to you to make it stop he obviously can't control himself he is getting off on scaring you. Don't empower him anymore and if he threatens to come after you irl  buy a gun and learn how to use it. Then tell him "girl has gun, girl knows how to use gun, girl will shoot dumbass Dom right in the nutsack if he comes near girl."
It worked for me, having a .45 shoved into his gut made him think differently and I was never bothered again.

~Lashra...LOL...ahh Lashra..wayy too funny!.....Tempting

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/9/2006 7:44:27 AM   
kittensmailbox


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From: Youngstown, Ohio
Status: offline 		Change all of your passwords and tell him to kiss your lil subbie ass... REMEMBER... he ONLY Has power when you GIVE it to him...  Without the submission of a person a Dom is just a man without power...

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/9/2006 8:32:38 PM   
cariad


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quote:

Cariad; I mean no disrespect towards you, but you have to take a stand on something like this. From my perspective, there is absolutly no reason why you should be submitting to anything this man wants. Being a slave; Gorean or otherwise, does not mean that YOU have to forsake your own safety and sanity for someone else.


girl has taken a stand, but was concerned that some other slave may get caught up in what he says as he is a smooth talker and that's how he managed to con girl into talking with him :(

alas after teaching him what it would be like not to hear for a while by blowing the whistle in his ear 60 times or there abouts, he has not bothered girl since lol.....although girl likes what another posted about the .45 hehe that would work too although his answer may be the same as it was before "I don't f*cking care what you do."

wouldn't it serve him right if girl did have a .45 and well girl thinks you can all guess where that part is going lol

Blessed Be and thank to all of you for being so supportive.


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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/10/2006 10:26:03 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		It brings up the subject if we are truly a community with responsibilities in this internet setting. There is no clear cut answer. Some get to know each other real time, some form private e-mail groups and communities, etc. while others only know each other superficially. It could be that in private groups, your comments would be appropriate if you are willing to back them up. However, the fact that posts on CM go out to the world can lead to abuse by someone saying something to intentionally harm a reputation due to jealousy or whatever.

I’m still puzzled by you saying you couldn’t take legal action because he is connected politically. If all you meant was because you are Canadian and he is American, I find it hard to see your fears. So for whatever reason you decide that you can’t go to law enforcement, all you can do is tell mutual acquaintances your side. Also, remember that Doms sometimes meet subs that they would like to tell the world about.

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RE: Warning System of Sorts - 4/10/2006 1:04:43 PM   
theGrimReaper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

No, there isn't.  Remember that one person's trash is another's treasure.  Just becaue you think he is not suitable doesn't make him unsuitable.

Knight's kyra
not always teh case, in yahoo chat i encountered one so called dom who exhibited all teh signs of an abusive personnality and was even blackmailing someoen from the chat rooms at the time.
as to how im familiar with teh subect of abuse its from personal experience, i survived an abusive stepmom and am currently raising kids that have been abused by my ex wifes current husband

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