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IronBear -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 2:25:37 AM)
Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice. All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons to help them remain in reality.

lally2 -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 5:01:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice. All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons to help them remain in reality. go on then [:)] - put youres on and get neets to take a pic - i promise we wont laugh [8D]

masterlink65 -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 5:15:45 AM)
self confidence and self control are most important. if you do not have confidence how can you lead others? if you do not have self control, how can you have control of others? your slave, sub, bitch, boi, whatever you call it, that person relies on you for leadership, guidance, support. a master has a great responsibility to his/her slave(s). another important thing is to realize, with heavy discipline of this lifestyle, there has to be equal compensation of praise when a slave does its job properly. when problems arise, confront them ASAP. i also never beat my slaves when i am angry. your slave is your property to use as you choose. just remember the fine line that is walked, between property and person. the slave is still human. and has basic human needs. there is alot more to it than being able to tie a knot, or being able to beat or spank someone

IronBear -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 7:27:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice. All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons to help them remain in reality. go on then [:)] - put youres on and get neets to take a pic - i promise we wont laugh [8D] Nay sweetest lass, that is for your eyes only, face to face.... [;)][:D]

Musicmystery -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 8:15:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dananddawn If you had a brief encounter with a person who was new to the lifestyle but on the path of being a Master, what one piece of advice would you be sure you mentioned? Be patient and realistic.

Chicagobaby -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/16/2010 11:46:00 PM)
You need to learn who you are and don't be what someone else wants you to be.

MasterGreg43 -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/19/2010 4:00:15 AM)
Lady Pact u are so correct wow u go girl that was on point very much so

MasterGreg43 -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/19/2010 4:04:19 AM)
the one thing for sure u should always be truthful, if u dont know something dont fake it, and dont be ashame to ask another top for information that will help u learn more of ur craft, yes being a Dom and in control of other lifeforms is a craft. Dominant leader top your craft, push to be the best so other would bring same energy to lifestyle on a positive tip!

sweetgirlserves -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/19/2010 9:35:56 PM)
A new dom/Master needs good advice from subs/slaves. For example, ... Don't go on a lifestyle message board as a dominant and type 'u' for the word 'you'.

GregoryMK -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/20/2010 1:28:03 AM)
Pay attention to everything. Pay attention to how you present yourself. Pay attention to others in the scene.lifestyle whatever. Pay attention to your sub/slave/bottom. Pay attention to that little voice inside telling you to do or not do something. Pay attention to everything, then act on what you have learned.

NorthernGent -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (6/20/2010 8:19:42 AM)
Well....I wouldn't go along with: "be yourself"....no use in being yourself if it isn't doesn't offer very much.... I would say: say what you mean and mean what you say....which includes being fair.....and sometimes having to be cruel to be kind.

MasterMagnus321 -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (8/2/2010 7:18:56 PM)
Show your sub/slave a very clear, very well-defined target, and then DON'T MOVE IT! Structure, consistency and discipline. Voilà!

ForgetMeKnots -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (8/2/2010 10:35:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dananddawn If you had a brief encounter with a person who was new to the lifestyle but on the path of being a Master, what one piece of advice would you be sure you mentioned? ~FR~ Have an open mind and seek out teachers in the community. The REAL LIFE community. No one knows it all, and knowing that you don't know it all is half the battle.

ranja -> RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs (8/4/2010 11:56:44 AM)
get intimately acquainted with a sub ETA and buy a flogger

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