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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 2:25:37 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice.

All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons  to help them remain in reality.


< Message edited by IronBear -- 6/16/2010 2:26:46 AM >

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 5:01:07 AM   
lally2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice.

All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons  to help them remain in reality.



go on then  - put youres on and get neets to take a pic - i promise we wont laugh

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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 5:15:45 AM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		self confidence and self control are most important. if you do not have confidence how can you lead others? if you do not have self control, how can you have control of others? your slave, sub, bitch, boi, whatever you call it, that person relies on you for leadership, guidance, support. a master has a great responsibility to his/her slave(s).

another important thing is to realize, with heavy discipline of this lifestyle, there has to be equal compensation of praise when a slave does its job properly. when  problems arise, confront them ASAP. i also never beat my slaves when i am angry.

your slave is your property to use as you choose. just remember the fine line that is walked, between property and person. the slave is still human. and has basic human needs.

there is alot more to it than being able to tie a knot, or being able to beat or spank someone

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 7:27:58 AM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Yee Gods and little fishes, a pantless .. Nay a naked Anteater doth standeth among us mere mortals.... My I suggest O mighty eater of ants, pussies and other things with or live in holes, if leather pants are not forth coming, then spandex or pink and black Lycra pantaloons may suffice.

All Masters or Doms should have at least one pair of pink and black Lycra pantaloons  to help them remain in reality.



go on then  - put youres on and get neets to take a pic - i promise we wont laugh


Nay sweetest lass, that is for your eyes only, face to face.... 


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http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 8:15:27 AM   
Musicmystery


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dananddawn

If you had a brief encounter with a person who was new to the lifestyle but on the path of being a Master, what one piece of advice would you be sure you mentioned?

Be patient and realistic.


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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/16/2010 11:46:00 PM   
Chicagobaby


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Status: offline 		You need to learn who you are and don't be what someone else wants you to be.

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/19/2010 4:00:15 AM   
MasterGreg43


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From: Fla, Ga, NY, NJ, MD, VA, now PA
Status: offline 		Lady Pact u are so correct wow u go girl that was on point very much so

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/19/2010 4:04:19 AM   
MasterGreg43


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From: Fla, Ga, NY, NJ, MD, VA, now PA
Status: offline 		the one thing for sure u should always be truthful, if u dont know something dont fake it, and dont be ashame to ask another top for information that will help u learn more of ur craft, yes being a Dom and in control of other lifeforms is a craft.

Dominant leader top your craft, push to be the best so other would bring same energy to lifestyle on a positive tip!

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/19/2010 9:35:56 PM   
sweetgirlserves


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Status: offline 		A new dom/Master needs good advice from subs/slaves. For example, ... Don't go on a lifestyle message board as a dominant and type 'u' for the word 'you'.





< Message edited by sweetgirlserves -- 6/19/2010 10:21:42 PM >

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/20/2010 1:28:03 AM   
GregoryMK


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Status: offline 		Pay attention to everything.

Pay attention to how you present yourself.
Pay attention to others in the scene.lifestyle whatever.
Pay attention to your sub/slave/bottom.
Pay attention to that little voice inside telling you to do or not do something.

Pay attention to everything, then act on what you have learned.


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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 6/20/2010 8:19:42 AM   
NorthernGent


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Status: offline 		Well....I wouldn't go along with: "be yourself"....no use in being yourself if it isn't doesn't offer very much....

I would say: say what you mean and mean what you say....which includes being fair.....and sometimes having to be cruel to be kind.

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I have the courage to be a coward - but not beyond my limits.

Sooner or later, the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 8/2/2010 7:18:56 PM   
MasterMagnus321


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Status: offline 		Show your sub/slave a very clear, very well-defined target, and then DON'T MOVE IT! Structure, consistency and discipline. Voilà!

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Nothing lasts, and yet nothing passes, either.
And nothing passes just because nothing lasts.
-Philip Roth

~MASTERMAGNUS

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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 8/2/2010 10:35:17 PM   
ForgetMeKnots


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dananddawn

If you had a brief encounter with a person who was new to the lifestyle but on the path of being a Master, what one piece of advice would you be sure you mentioned?


~FR~

Have an open mind and seek out teachers in the community.  The REAL LIFE community. 

No one knows it all, and knowing that you don't know it all is half the battle. 


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BDSM is what two people at the moment decide it should be...
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RE: The one thing a new dom or Master needs - 8/4/2010 11:56:44 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		get intimately acquainted with a sub

ETA and buy a flogger

< Message edited by ranja -- 8/4/2010 11:57:17 AM >

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