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Clothing Restrictions - 5/24/2010 11:45:31 PM

MechaTeddyBear

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Hello to all,

I wanted to find out if anyone has imposed clothing restrictions on their female subs or slaves as a form of control or training. What were the restrictions you imposed?

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 12:04:00 AM

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Ah... clothing restrictions. This is one of my main kinks.

It manifests itself in a whole range of ways - From simply choosing underwear - so she'll be reminded of her role throughout the day, to making her wear something subtle and symbolic, or something unsubtle and symbolic.

So in the past..

I've chosen underwear for my sub.

Insisted a sub wear underwear that is very very girlie and innocent (white cotton), or very very slutty (pvc thong)

Taken a sub to dinner dressed immaculately on the exterior with latex on underneath (I love the shared secret this entails).

Made a sub wear a dress far far too short (I enjoy the element of exhibition)

Oh the list goes on!

For me it's the control.

Once I fedexed a pair of latex knickers to a sub friend at her place of work (it was marked private and confidential), with instructions for her to put the knickers on, and send the pair she had been wearing back to me. Yum.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 12:06:16 AM

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 12:29:50 AM

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I insist on vanilla outer clothing since two nutcases actually turned up outside my home on a busy summer night when all my neighbours were outside and stepped out of the car in full pvc catsuits and heels. My next door has a weak heart and it rocked him.
I dress girls up in the house as maids and young victorian ladies in petticoats and corsets and uniforms, she dresses her males up like either gladiators or poets, with laced shirts and leather jeans.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 12:45:47 AM

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Ive been known to go in her closet point to something pleasing and say wear it.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 12:48:09 AM

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 1:15:11 AM

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As I stated in another thread, when a girl or boy isfirst collared to either myself or the Bruin Cottage, they are required to bed for permission to wear clothes unless their duties require then to be suitably clothed. During this period they will wear a shirik. Both the begging and wearing a shirik together with being required to beg for fluid and/or food and use of the toilet facilities certainly helps to bring home the seriousness of their bondage. This also does two other things, it helps form a bond between us and because of the manner in which I handle this, helps develop trust. I don't use this as a game although I do rather like to see the naked form of both male and female wearing either a chain (my preference) or rope shirik. with rope the harshness of hemp causes an interesting reaction and in cold weather, cold chains against the naked body creates it's own erotic and sensual displays and lets face it a naked girl when the conditions are chilly mostly has two large red flashing lights at the tips of her breasts due to the cold...

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 2:12:54 AM

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I know, I know. [sniff] I feel terrible remorse now.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 4:38:03 AM

DesFIP

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He's been known to pick underwear for me. He's more likely to want me in girly stuff when he has a really messy job scheduled, like pouring concrete. Or on rare occasions to say wear a specific skirt.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 5:03:51 AM

lizi

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My Dom does care about my clothing unless he wants it off- there are only 2 types of clothing to him, those that are on and those that are off.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 7:45:34 AM

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Uh... restrictions? Yeah.. i restrict her to wearing stuff that looks good to me. For me though, this has more to do with just dressing my slave properly (as defined by my tastes) than it does some sort of eroticization of clothing restrictions.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 7:52:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Ah... clothing restrictions. This is one of my main kinks.

Once I fedexed a pair of latex knickers to a sub friend at her place of work (it was marked private and confidential), with instructions for her to put the knickers on, and send the pair she had been wearing back to me. Yum.

Now ML, that was sposed to be our little secret. You naughty man!

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 7:58:53 AM

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i've been restricted to no panties, specific panties, sometimes no bra or a specific bra, sometimes no clothes period when i'm home alone, or only stockings & garters but no tights or pantihose going over you-know-where, or only skirts. And then, i've also been given free rein. All sorts of things.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 8:20:20 AM

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Yes -

No underwear. With few exceptions she hasn't worn panties or bra in seven years. That representation often raises some eyebrows; lets just say some medical conditions are conducive to 'kink'.

Cuffs on wrists and ankles for the same period as 'pajamas'. I think we are on 4th or 5th set.

Although not clothing, I do not allow beth to wear make-up; with rare exceptions, she doesn't wear any. Sometimes she'll put on a 'fashion show' for me to select. A VERY silly game since my favorite part is between outfits and often the process makes us late to whatever event or place she's supposed to be dressing for. beth enjoys her closet full of clothes, 'costumes', and most of all her shoes. When she has to wear clothing - and we live pretty much as nudists - I know she's going to come out of the closet looking HOT! I give her general direction, like 'business slutty' for going to business events, or 'slut casual' for a movie night; but she gets to choose the specific items - sans underwear of course. The only other "restriction" is a collar. she has too many to count, in forms ranging from steel to gold. her neck is never naked, and we do a little ritual where one goes on before the other comes off.

Silly things and 'rituals'; the aspects of 24/7 which are a bit more subtle and missed by the most of the people we come in contact, but fun, and easy to accomplish, reminders which we consider 24/7 foreplay for the relationship dynamic we enjoy.

To me beth is beautiful and sexy in anything she wears, and gets more sexy and beautiful every day! My personal prejudice is that she is most sexy naked but that's frowned upon in public. 'Naked' beneath whatever she's wearing is the next best thing.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 8:33:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Ive been known to go in her closet point to something pleasing and say wear it.

BadOne

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 8:56:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Ah... clothing restrictions. This is one of my main kinks.

Once I fedexed a pair of latex knickers to a sub friend at her place of work (it was marked private and confidential), with instructions for her to put the knickers on, and send the pair she had been wearing back to me. Yum.

Now ML, that was sposed to be our little secret. You naughty man!

Ha! See... I made no mention of you, young lady - Oh no! Tis you who have let the cat out of the bag.

You have been bloody naughty.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 9:22:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: lizi

My Dom does care about my clothing unless he wants it off- there are only 2 types of clothing to him, those that are on and those that are off.

What she said.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 10:06:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Ive been known to go in her closet point to something pleasing and say wear it.

BadOne

Whoa! I hope you are SSC and RACK compliant with all that craziness!

Yep Yep I like living on da edge....

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 10:34:06 AM

Rogue886

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I have a simple set of restrictions for My girls:
No jeans, trousers, shorts or tights. Unless required by their profession.

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RE: Clothing Restrictions - 5/25/2010 10:39:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Yes -

No underwear. With few exceptions she hasn't worn panties or bra in seven years. That representation often raises some eyebrows; lets just say some medical conditions are conducive to 'kink'.

Cuffs on wrists and ankles for the same period as 'pajamas'. I think we are on 4th or 5th set.

Although not clothing, I do not allow beth to wear make-up; with rare exceptions, she doesn't wear any. Sometimes she'll put on a 'fashion show' for me to select. A VERY silly game since my favorite part is between outfits and often the process makes us late to whatever event or place she's supposed to be dressing for. beth enjoys her closet full of clothes, 'costumes', and most of all her shoes. When she has to wear clothing - and we live pretty much as nudists - I know she's going to come out of the closet looking HOT! I give her general direction, like 'business slutty' for going to business events, or 'slut casual' for a movie night; but she gets to choose the specific items - sans underwear of course. The only other "restriction" is a collar. she has too many to count, in forms ranging from steel to gold. her neck is never naked, and we do a little ritual where one goes on before the other comes off.

Silly things and 'rituals'; the aspects of 24/7 which are a bit more subtle and missed by the most of the people we come in contact, but fun, and easy to accomplish, reminders which we consider 24/7 foreplay for the relationship dynamic we enjoy.

To me beth is beautiful and sexy in anything she wears, and gets more sexy and beautiful every day! My personal prejudice is that she is most sexy naked but that's frowned upon in public. 'Naked' beneath whatever she's wearing is the next best thing.

I don't always agree with your posts, but I have to say, I've always admired your relationship. This is a good example of the love and devotion that the two of you express and feel for each other and really pretty damn cool. Thanks for sharing.

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