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SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: Need some ideas (6/6/2010 9:57:05 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Interesting perspective Peon. I'm not saying that I'm not a little bit selfish, but I wouldn't say it's the core of my dominance or of my sadism.
- LA
In the whole world of BDSM, LA, the one thing I consider I'm an expert on is catching women who are on the cusp of the vanilla and the D/s world. Mind, I'm not talking about women who knew that they were dominant from the time they were in their cradles, but women who realised that they were dominant only when they fully realised that there were submissive males around who actually wanted what they, deep down, had always wanted. And, yes - I still do think that the key thing is that such women learn how to be selfish. Vanilla women don't even know where to start with that, in my experience. They just haven't had the right upbringing for it.
And then she becomes a Domme with experience and she realises it's not all about being selfish ;-)
- LA
re above ...
....i don't think Dommes need to be selfish, but rather finer tuning what i think he is getting at, maybe that La Domme identifies what REALLY pleases her and then makes that/those things a requirement of her relationship with her sub, and works with him to make it as pleasureable as possible and satisfying for him also.....this is different from being selfish= its more like guided pleasing of her with him hopefully on board for his own satisfactions also.
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