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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/28/2010 3:39:21 PM

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You might also want to be prepared for your response.

The first time i was face slapped was in punishment. Is amazing the amount of damage that can be done leaving very little in the way of marks. i had the tiniest of black and blues, most people missed it. but i also had a concussion and headaches lasting a couple of weeks.

The next time i was with a Dominant that started to slap my face, 2 years later, as soon as i saw the hand go out i rolled into fetal position and started rocking myself. i still react instinctively and quickly to shield myself if i even think he might slap my face.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/28/2010 5:23:24 PM

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You might also want to be prepared for your response. Mine was to completely shut down and we never got over that as a couple. The next person that tried that ended up with a black eye.

thank god for you

- i always feel like the odd one out in these face slapping things - my instant reaction is anger - though i do remember a really hot session when a guy slapped my face, i went phucking bolistic, he held me down and well......... , long story short - it ended well

- but face slapping is a big no no for me - just huge instant rage button

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/28/2010 5:29:25 PM

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Yep Yep ... I slap my bitch whenever... no discussion

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Yes that. Today I was 25 minutes late for golf, he stood up from the table and greeted me with a kiss (we were with several business associates) then he said he would like to talk to me for a bief minute. We walked to the side of the clubhouse and he leaned in and *whack* out of nowhere. Then he said "learn to be more punctual" gave me another open mouthed kiss, a swat on the ass, and then we golfed. I was so fucking turned on all day I couldn't focus on anything. I love love love getting slapped, anytime, in any context. It makes me swoon instantly.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/28/2010 10:39:33 PM

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Now we know why you like to golf. It's not the gin and tonic after all.

*slut*

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/29/2010 4:26:59 AM

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Face slapping has and is not in my current tool bag for BDSM activities. I usually use a loose handed back hand slap (short swing and very fact) delivered to the carotid arterial area of the neck which, if the neck is extended, creates a short synapse with a dislocation of balance or even dropping the person. It is used in a security situation before some fool gets too violent and allows me to restrain some fool from doing damage to persons or property. very handy if you don't have a baton with you or are in civies. I teach this to security offers as one of the defence techniques. Not something I would consider for rough play though. I've only been slapped once in my adult life because I tore a new arsehole in her boyfriend and outed him as a lying, cheating, thieving, coward he was and still is. Unfortunately for her I automatically responded with a closed fist strike to her nose, the result was her nose rather flattened and lots of blood. This thread has brought enlightenment in something I have never considered and now would have to think long and hard about using face slapping.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 5:23:53 AM

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I think you need to be more sensitive to his needs. It's hard for a man to realsie how hard he is hitting a woman. So try this, you both need to be naked and you must kneel quietly between his legs while he stands over you.
Then in exact proportion to how much force your worshipful master slaps your face. you slap his bollocks. He'll thank you for it.
After all, we've all got to learn.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 5:24:44 AM

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LOL....I'm guessing that will go over really well......................

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 5:27:21 AM

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At least I left out the two half bricks and the blindfold

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 5:28:55 AM

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 6:26:14 AM

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Now we know why you like to golf. It's not the gin and tonic after all.

*slut*

lol! It's the combination. He's playing in a tournament today so I am not golfing, I am babysitting the puppy :) No slapping for me, but lots of sloppy lab love.

. Gin and Tonics later I hope!

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/30/2010 5:20:41 PM

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Jaw and cheek - use fingers as said rather than palm as said.

I use it as a way of making my partners come by gradual training - wonderful when they finally do - excellent and very very hot.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 5/31/2010 8:19:57 PM

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My Dominant enjoyed slapping my face but he didn't know his own strength. My head would pound for days sometimes & I'd have headaches...need to.see my chiropractor. Finally, I told him how much it was affecting me negatively...he listened-stopped. He enjoyed it so much that I wish I could've given him the pleasure and was very grateful he did stop. If he didn't do it so hard I would like it bit he's all or nothing so he quit.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 10:00:11 AM

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3 bitches countem 3 bitches in this thread I wanna have a serious FuckFest with in this thread cuz their words are so HOT! In no particular order lally well just cuz she is lally. That vixenous bitch anne88. That slut wandersalone she actually wrote 2 smoking HOT posts in the past week. I'd hurtem all so good

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 10:03:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

I think you need to be more sensitive to his needs. It's hard for a man to realsie how hard he is hitting a woman. So try this, you both need to be naked and you must kneel quietly between his legs while he stands over you.
Then in exact proportion to how much force your worshipful master slaps your face. you slap his bollocks. He'll thank you for it.
After all, we've all got to learn.

i love it!!!!!!

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 10:14:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

I think you need to be more sensitive to his needs. It's hard for a man to realsie how hard he is hitting a woman. So try this, you both need to be naked and you must kneel quietly between his legs while he stands over you.
Then in exact proportion to how much force your worshipful master slaps your face. you slap his bollocks. He'll thank you for it.
After all, we've all got to learn.

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

3 bitches countem 3 bitches in this thread I wanna have a serious FuckFest with in this thread cuz their words are so HOT! In no particular order lally well just cuz she is lally. That vixenous bitch anne88. That slut wandersalone she actually wrote 2 smoking HOT posts in the past week. I'd hurtem all so good

BadOne

Hey BadOne...since you really are a nice guy and don't want to seriously hurt your chosen 3, you have no objections to me making them aware of Reynalds method of slap assessment, do you?

Um...do you?

Helloooooooooooooooo?

Reynard said you would be very thankful.

Just so you know...I am not feeling the thankfulness here, BadOne. Not at all...

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 11:06:56 AM

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I see how you roll holly! you miserable slut... I leave you off my "ToDo" list and you get all evil on me.. Mister Man Don't care how many emails you send secretly begging me I REFUSE to have SLAP SEX with you. Furthermore you cloud the issue with some made up post bout who knows what.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 12:13:13 PM

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See I have now read all the safety stuff and bruise fairly easily but I can honestly say I have never had any problems. I adore being slapped, I can remember when my 'uber-scary' ex wouldn't do it until I begged him for like half an hour, he whacked me no face cradling just a slap, it stung, it was lush. To be fair that was not the first time I was slapped across the face, I think the reason I love it to be pretty hard is because the first guy who tried hit me like a tap...much as for some the idea may be enough I want stinging eyes and a pulsing cheek. I guess though its always good to be aware of the safety stuff.

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 12:51:28 PM

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3 bitches countem 3 bitches in this thread I wanna have a serious FuckFest with in this thread cuz their words are so HOT! In no particular order lally well just cuz she is lally. That vixenous bitch anne88. That slut wandersalone she actually wrote 2 smoking HOT posts in the past week. I'd hurtem all so good

BadOne

Vixenous bitch? Damn. That's hot. *Offers cheek to BadOne for some serious slapping, either cheek of course*

. Oh, and of course a good fuckfest is always a bonus. ;)

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 1:27:45 PM

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I always smile when I look at a freshly scalded circular teabag.

so ..................... when you scald a circular teabag, does it do better???

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RE: Face Slapping Help? - 6/1/2010 2:14:19 PM

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I see how you roll holly! you miserable slut... I leave you off my "ToDo" list and you get all evil on me.. Mister Man Don't care how many emails you send secretly begging me I REFUSE to have SLAP SEX with you. Furthermore you cloud the issue with some made up post bout who knows what.

BadOne

phooey!

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