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divi -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/7/2010 7:19:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Your one messed up drunken slut....it would be my pleasure to slap the daylights outta ya! I mean that from the bottom of my heart..

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Aynne thats hot :)

Icarys I bet you hit like a girl lol




SailingBum -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/7/2010 10:14:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You lessen the risk of being hit by a bus by looking before dashing into the street to pick up your ball which rolled out. Since the likelihood of a successful retina reattachment is much lower for those with implants, it isn't something we choose to do. I prefer my dogs to be pets, not service animals. YMMV


It's a safe bet that a pro boxer hits a hellava lot harder than I would or could slap a girl. Yet in the boxing ring you hear about brain swelling, heart swelling, broken bones... ... disfigured nose and ears from repeted trauma.....detached retina not so much.

BadOne




DesFIP -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/7/2010 12:08:54 PM)

Sugar Ray Leonard




SailingBum -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/7/2010 2:46:33 PM)

yep yep 1 out say 15,000 for all detached retinas causes <look it up> car wreck uh 1 in 4 ... I ll take my chances sheesh

BadOne




DesFIP -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/7/2010 7:46:40 PM)

You do what you want. My opthalmic surgeon says it is unlikely that he would be able to reattach the retina if I have any kind of trauma to the eye. Including consensual face slapping or getting hit with a tennis ball. For contact sports, or any other sport where there is a risk I have been suggested to wear protective eyewear. That includes running a snowblower, cutting firewood and so on.

Perhaps you're in perfect health and have no problems that need attention. Good for you. I'm not and for me, with my issues and for anyone who has had cataract surgery and lens implant, this is a very high risk activity.




Deadender -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/27/2010 3:01:59 PM)

Open hand, hard, fast, quick. Stay away from the eyes. Better if done from behind during...sometimes bad for the ears but little blood there. I let my sub know my mood...by the force used...she cries everytime...bite her lips and chin sucking them inside your mouth and bite hard. Only bruised a few times. Make-up helps...sometimes. If lips bruise...pinch with needle. I'm a "white collar" guy. Subs like bruises...it is a souvenir of that last encounter.

My favorite is hair pull and slap accross the lips several times non-stop. The rest is her problem.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/27/2010 4:06:03 PM)

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My favorite is hair pull and slap accross the lips several times non-stop. The rest is her problem.


Charming. [8|]




sexyred1 -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/27/2010 4:12:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Deadender

I'm a "white collar" guy. Subs like bruises...it is a souvenir of that last encounter.

The rest is her problem.


As Sunshine said, charming. I suppose you are ignoring the fact that some of us are
"white collar" women who would not appreciate having bruises on our faces interfering with our business lives.

Some of us do not need bruises as souvenirs, either. We have such hot enounters that leave us sore in other places and we can muse upon those encounters, that do not have to be shared with the world.

Her problem indeed.




Nineveh -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/27/2010 5:06:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DanMiller

Some women expressly do not want it. Some do. I have seen both. To me its
either a hard limit or not. So it depends on you mostly. Personally its not
a big thing with me. I don't feel it adding to my personal D/s perspectives
by way of control. Its probably something a DOM should do sparingly

my 2 cents



I agree with this.  If you do it too often it loses the shock value, which is a big part of the fun of it.




Kana -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/28/2010 4:02:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Deadender

Open hand, hard, fast, quick. Stay away from the eyes. Better if done from behind during...sometimes bad for the ears but little blood there. I let my sub know my mood...by the force used...she cries everytime...bite her lips and chin sucking them inside your mouth and bite hard. Only bruised a few times. Make-up helps...sometimes. If lips bruise...pinch with needle. I'm a "white collar" guy. Subs like bruises...it is a souvenir of that last encounter.

My favorite is hair pull and slap accross the lips several times non-stop. The rest is her problem.


Yeah, this is sheer brilliance...if you are an idiot.
Nothing smarter than grounding the hair, then hard slapping the face-ever hear of whiplash?
And nothing, nothing says I am a total loser better than actually being dumb enough to actually think subs/slaves like face bruises as a "souvenir"-ya know, just toss a lil make up on it-no big deal, might help, might not.

And that bleeding from the ears, no biggee either.

Good thing you're a white collar guy-that makes a big difference.

You sir, are an ass-hat.





Deadender -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/28/2010 11:39:06 PM)

You just can't deal with the "white collar" remark.
The subs (white collar too) asked for it. I delivered. I think I could be a bit hardcore for you...perhaps some of you don't belong here. I think of you as those show wrestlers on TV...just a big show...
There are plenty of other activities like boxing, kickboxing, skydiving, motorcross, etc far more dangerous than I described. You are just a bunch of pussies...I had never posted comments on this site. I just confirmed what I suspected: a lot of blah blah and no action. Why don't you write a BSDM instruction manual-you sound like a bunch of kids out of law school with no real experience.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/29/2010 3:53:14 AM)

All that from a one word response. Wow.

In fact that word... it is appropiate here.

*charming*




Deadender -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/29/2010 10:52:08 PM)

Quiero hacer contigo lo que la primavera hace con los cerezos...




sunshinemiss -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (6/30/2010 3:24:31 AM)

Ok. I hate to admit it, but that is totally hot!

Absolutely fricking hot.



You are like nobody since I love you.
Let me spread you out among yellow garlands.
Who writes your name in letters of smoke among the stars of the south?
Oh let me remember you as you were before you existed.

Suddenly the wind howls and bangs at my shut window.
The sky is a net crammed with shadowy fish.
Here all the winds let go sooner or later, all of them.
The rain takes off her clothes.

The birds go by, fleeing.
The wind. The wind.
I can contend only against the power of men.
The storm whirls dark leaves
and turns loose all the boats that were moored last night to the sky.

You are here. Oh, you do not run away.
You will answer me to the last cry.
Cling to me as though you were frightened.
Even so, at one time a strange shadow ran through your eyes.

Now, now too, little one, you bring me honeysuckle,
and even your breasts smell of it.
While the sad wind goes slaughtering butterflies
I love you, and my happiness bites the plum of your mouth.

How you must have suffered getting accustomed to me,
my savage, solitary soul, my name that sends them all running.
So many times we have seen the morning star burn, kissing our eyes,
and over our heads the gray light unwind in turning fans.

My words rained over you, stroking you.
A long time I have loved the sunned mother-of-pearl of your body.
I go so far as to think that you own the universe.
I will bring you happy flowers from the mountains, bluebells,
dark hazels, and rustic baskets of kisses.
I want
to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees.

Pablo Neruda




LoveAndDS -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (7/2/2010 11:53:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SubmissiveFox

Master has expressed an interest in slapping me hard across the face during sex.

He's never done it before and neither have I. I'm not averse to it though but don't want to go to work with a big black eye or bruised face.

Have any Doms with any experience of this got any advice about how to do this "safely" avoiding serious pain/injury/bruising?

Thanks.


Take it lightly at first so you don't get freaked out in the future.  This is something that really needs time for a sub/slave to get accustomed to. 

In the past I made the mistake of going too hard too early and the fear overshadowed any mutual pleasure that would have come from it.

Like a lot of things in this lifestyle, you both need to take the time you need so your comfortable with what's happening.  Your patience WILL pay off




SouthernSpankin -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (7/3/2010 3:58:20 AM)

Slap yourself in the face. Watch, I'll do it to myself now. *slaps myself over the face at various intensities* Pretty easy stuff. Looking at what I'm doing in the mirror, I'm landing my hand to where only my fingers are hitting my face... right across the cheek. It's pretty easy. I've been slapped once, by a girl that was angry at me, and she did it to me just like I just did it to myself. Seems pretty easy to do in a safe manner.




lalleee -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (8/12/2010 4:57:25 AM)

There is a clear diffrence between slapping and punching, right?




lalleee -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (8/12/2010 4:59:52 AM)

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-This shouldn't have to be mentioned, but this is the net, so make sure she doesn't bruise easily BEFORE you start slapping. You don't want to send her into work manana looking like she fights MMA on her off days.


I wouldn't mind looking like manana or MMA fighter.




texangael -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (8/12/2010 6:32:04 AM)

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you sound like a bunch of kids out of law school with no real experience.
I do not slap my slaves.  The reasoning is simple: if I break the toy, I cannot play with the toy.  I like playing with my toys, so I take care not to break them.




texangael -> RE: Face Slapping Help? (8/12/2010 6:37:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lalleee

There is a clear diffrence between slapping and punching, right?

Only psychologically.  Open hand blows can be quite devastating when delivered properly.  Even a mild slap with the hand slightly cupped that lands on the ear can rupture the ear drum.  A slap that jars the head that whips the head to one side or another can produce trauma to the cervical spine--at that level a slap is not dramatically different from a right cross.

Whether kinky bedroom play or a full fifteen rounds in the squared circle, anything that involves blows to the head carries an elevated level of risk of serious injury.




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