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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 2:24:41 PM

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My Mistresses have never kissed me on my feet or even that other place! I'm dissapointed....

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 4:03:12 PM

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Silly boy. It clearly states in Chapter XXII (Part 3, Section iv) of the Domina's Guide to Absolutely Everything that dominas are allowed to kiss their submissive four times per year, no tongues, only on the solstices and the equinoxes.

I would never kiss a woman on her equinox, unless I knew her really well.

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 7:10:59 PM

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I think that kissing is a wonderful way for a dominant Lady to express her dominance.

I recently read some of Akasha's Website (I recommend it) and she put into words how I've always felt about kissing a man.

Own the kisses.

That is what I've always done.

As for the tongue, I'm not big on lots of tongue, at least not in the beginning, and especially not that darting spastic electric eel out of water kind of tongue. Ewww.

No no no....

It needs a slow, smouldering build up, lips brushing against one another, little nips, breathing, more brushing, my hands clenching his neck tie or shirt collar, pulling him to me, essentially, setting the pace, and if he gets too eager, slowing him down, backing away and smiling, leaving him hanging, then slowly starting up again, winding him up like a little toy, building his desire to want to kiss me deeper, but letting him know that he will can't, at least not until I'm ready for him too.

That's how I own the kisses.

Edited to add: this was a fast-reply to the OP and I didn't see that she had written so much on this thread. But of course, I see it in a very similar manner and I'm not surprised ;-)

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 8:13:42 PM

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Interesting. i never really thought about how which side of the kneel one is on could affect the way she kisses.....

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 8:22:51 PM

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sweetsub, when I was 19, I had a boyfriend who wasn't particularly sub (but let me tie him up a lot only because it meant he would get lots of attention). That said, he loved me a lot and indulged me a lot and wanted to please me. Now at the time, I didn't really know what a Domme was. I just remember him asking me once why it was that I always felt I was in charge of of we kissed. I remembered not knowing how to answer him and I shut him up by kissing him. Of course, today I would exactly what to say ;-)

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 8:32:50 PM

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I'm a biter. An assertive tongue is fine and dandy but if I'm really feeling the moment, be it top or bottom, the teeth will come into play. Licking, sucking, nibbling...also fun but nothing beats grabbing a handful of hair (or the back of the head if he's bald, which I like) and holding a man in place while I enjoy a bit of a "snack".

Great...now I have the munchies

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/27/2010 11:44:48 PM

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Silly boy. It clearly states in Chapter XXII (Part 3, Section iv) of the Domina's Guide to Absolutely Everything that dominas are allowed to kiss their submissive four times per year, no tongues, only on the solstices and the equinoxes.

I would never kiss a woman on her equinox, unless I knew her really well.

You know, I just *knew* someone was going to make that joke. Why am I not surprised it was you?

Femdoms are now going to be inundated with mail from subs, asking if they can worship our solstices.

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 3:26:31 PM

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I did think of making that joke myself, V, but - unlike Polite - I'm the sort of person who is both instinctively far too deeply respectful towards all dommes to joke with any of them, and someone who wouldn't want to risk a quip in case it sends a thread off-track.

As for the foregoing comments about kissing - absolutely wonderful. Lots of hair-pulling, tearing, tigerishness and general ravaging. Yes! Bring it on! And the depth of feelings involved. Joking aside, we've seen the D/s equivalent of some of the finest kissing scenes in any classic novel described here. Thank you for those - my head has done some swimming as a result.

But what a sharp divide, eh? Where are the men who'll comment on great kisses they've received from femdoms in the past? What were the details of those kisses, the backgrounds to them - how did they make you feel?

This seems a little pisspoor to me, I must say. Come on, gentlemen, front and centre. Let's be having you!

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 3:59:51 PM

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Last night...in a friend's kitchen...

She looked up into my eyes and they had that mischievous sparkle as I had told her all about this thread. Her hand snaking around the back of my head, my hair tightening on my scalp in response to her grip, my head bent down to hers, my lips guided to where She wanted them. Tongue, teeth and passion in less than 10 seconds and left me breathless!

And then we went into the basement and tried on lingerie for the rest of the evening! Pretty much a perfect 10 day in my book! :P

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 4:13:13 PM

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Last night...in a friend's kitchen...

She looked up into my eyes and they had that mischievous sparkle as I had told her all about this thread. Her hand snaking around the back of my head, my hair tightening on my scalp in response to her grip, my head bent down to hers, my lips guided to where She wanted them. Tongue, teeth and passion in less than 10 seconds and left me breathless!

And then we went into the basement and tried on lingerie for the rest of the evening! Pretty much a perfect 10 day in my book! :P

Now, you see, you spoiled it with that last sentence, Otters. You're not supposed to be able to *remember* what happened immediately after the kiss.

I want the facts. Gimme the facts. Did she bite your lip? Did her little tongue dart in, out, and around, like a small, hungry, serpentine beast searching for your most vulnerable spot?

And why the feck are you posting, anyway? Aren't you supposed to be on your honeymoon, holding your lovely wife up to the moon outside a log cabin on top of one of the Rockies, or whatever it is you Americans generally do after a wedding?

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 4:43:36 PM

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A true English gentleman never kiss and tells, Peon.

Since this is me though..there was this girl from Lawrence Weston.

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 4:47:32 PM

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A true English gentleman

Why do you mention *them*, Manners-do you know any?

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 4:50:24 PM

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A true English gentleman

Why do you mention *them*, Manners-do you know any?

You can be the judge of that VC. I am way too modest to reply.

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:16:57 PM

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A true English gentleman never kiss and tells, Peon.

Since this is me though..there was this girl from Lawrence Weston.

Ah - you see, PS, you're a natural poet. 'The Girl from Lawrence Weston' - I can already hear a merry tune to go with those words . . . .

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:24:33 PM

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Many moons ago Peon. She was a true English rose, but alas we grew but didnt blossom.

I still think of her on the odd occassion, all these years later.

"Grabs hanky"

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:28:08 PM

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"The Girl From Lawrence Weston".... sounds like a story by PG Wodehouse!!

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:31:48 PM

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More like a story from behind the woodhouse......

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:33:35 PM

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Hey, PS . . . we all remember those earliest kisses. Not so sad, mate. All that world of football, punches and catapults, and who can piss up the wall the highest - suddenly, none of it matters any more. It's the start, and no looking back . . . .

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:35:51 PM

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Indeed Peon, I miss the old empire so much.

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RE: Appropriate Kissing Styles for Femdoms. - 5/28/2010 5:51:40 PM

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Fack off, PS. Taking the p*** out of my poetical utterances. You just don't have a beautiful soul, like I do. Git.

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