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Do you believe of love at second sight???


Love on second sight??? Absolutely, I experienced it :o)
  33% (3)
I dated people who I declined at first and would do it again.
  11% (1)
My LTR partner is love at second sight...
  11% (1)
I would date someone I declined at first but would have doubts...
  0% (0)
I am certainly flexible to reconsider someone whom I declined before.
  22% (2)
Loving someone I didn't like at first? Certainly not with me!!!
  11% (1)
I doubt I would give someone a chance at 2nd sight...
  0% (0)
I dated people who I declined at first and would not do it again.
  0% (0)
I never dated someone whom I was not attracted to straightaway...
  11% (1)
I don't think it is wise to give a chance at 2nd sight...
  0% (0)


Total Votes : 9
(last vote on : 6/2/2010 2:44:48 PM)
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Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 5/29/2010 12:51:17 PM   
Phoenixpower


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Status: offline 		I had a discussion at work today with a colleague where we talked about starting to fall in love with someone whom we did not feel attracted to some years ago (eg due to lack of immediate physical attraction, due to a bigger age gap then a person thinks s/he feels comfortable with, etc....)

Therefore I am wondering what the view is from the smarties on here...do you believe on love of second sight (not in general, I mean in relation to yourself)...do you think this could happen or rather not? Did you experience it? etc...multiple answers are allowed...

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 5/29/2010 1:03:56 PM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		My first love was.- so yes.   I smiled so hard it hurt- for weeks.

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 5/29/2010 1:06:13 PM   
myotherself


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From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		Interesting and rather timely question, Phoenix!

I have before dated someone I had previously dated and split from. The second time round it lasted much, much longer and we were happy together for quite some time. This was quite a few years ago, but fast forward to today and...I'm currently doing the exactly the same thing again...and I believe it could really work.

Of course, in both cases we didn't split because we weren't compatible - it was all about other stuff that was going on in our lives (work, families, relocation, that sort of thing).

Sometimes you get caught up in the 'now' stuff, and it's only when you get a chance to reflect that you realise you could do things differently and it may have worked. Not everyone gets a second chance with someone special - you need to grab it when it happens!



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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 5/29/2010 1:32:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		It can definitely happen.

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 5/29/2010 9:06:37 PM   
yourdarkdesire


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Status: offline 		It happens. Although it nearly ruined my marriage. And I lost a good friend out of it.

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 6/2/2010 2:17:42 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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Status: offline 		Thanks for sharing...glad to hear that...

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 6/2/2010 2:40:54 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Some years ago? Sure. People change. Maybe he's matured or you've gotten into shape. But if everything's the same, then I can't see why an attraction would exist where it couldn't before.

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RE: Do you believe of love at second sight??? - 6/2/2010 2:44:33 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Absolutely yes.

Life changes, people change, we change and someone that once was your friend becomes your lover. Life is fantastic like that.

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