LostLenore -> RE: Swim suits for the large woman (4/10/2006 10:02:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox i say just swim in a tank and shorts... As for myself, i have sworn not to date or have sex again until i have lost at least 30 lbs.... ~softly smiles~ so swimming is way out of the question for me... No! No! No! Do you realize what a tragic waste of potential joy it is to restrict yourself in this way? Life is short, sweetheart. If you put off doing things until conditions are just right, you may very well end up never doing them at all. I enjoyed sex when I weighed over 350 pounds just as much as when I starved myself down to 128 back in high school. Sure, I felt a little more self-conscious and less athletic at a bigger size, but that didn't keep me from cumming my brains out at every decent opportunity. There's a hushed yet insidious taboo in American culture about overweight people (especially women) expressing their sexuality. Why??? Trust me there are TONS (no pun intended) of fat admirers out there, and many are highly desirable, even by this society's narrow standards. Realizing that BBWs really are beautiful has revolutionized my life. My advice is that you go see that "Fat Girls" movie with Monique because her positive attitude is contagious, buy yourself some lingerie that fits and flatters, then call up an old flame or new spark and set up a seduction that's more about sharing sensations than evaluating appearance. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised to learn that you're the toughest critic of your body, and even your prejudice and insecurities can be overcome
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