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Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 9:43:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Actually, she is looking for a sponser to fly her out for this weekend but I will be busy with my woman and just don't have time for her, tempting though she may be. Here's your chance to try poly! sighs wistfully Ish doesn't want me. I'm too old, vanilla, and married for her. Us nice guys always finish last (this is where I'd normally pout, but I've been informed that true doms don't pout, they scowl pensively). Those are strong accusations that aren't even true. You're a year younger than my previous owner. You're not even half as vanilla as you claim to be. And the only thing the married thing would be an issue against is if I'm unable to secure myself a green card visa. However, that still leaves the small technicallity of the fact that I'm already taken though. Good thing he insists on me being the absolute slut that I am, so... well, I'm being a good girl here. [:D]

Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 9:44:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael quote: ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan Throws a few bags of froze peas on the floor. Clears Throat... You worthless excuse for a cum dumpster, if by the time we are done my cum is drying on your lips, it will be because I feel sorry for you. I expect you where you belong, on your knees, mouth open wide, and awaiting to be used in any way I see fit. Now get on your fucking knees and beg me to fuck your face hole like the common whore you are. Thank You Thank you, I'd like to thank God and the Academy....... Impressive! Get on your fucking knees you pathetic excuse for a whore, open your filthly little mouth and dream, dream that you might be worthy of tasting my cock, all while knowing this is as close as you will get because your pathetic mouth isn't worthy of gracing my beautiful cock. Get down low and know the only way you will ever taste my cock, let alone my cum is to lick it off the floor after it drips out of a far more worthy woman's cunt or ass. You guys are getting me all worked up... no fair, I'm almost out of batteries...

Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 11:55:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth So the 'game' me and my boys played was to walk down the boardwalk and ask directly to get laid. 'Style' was up to you, however you had to ask directly; and not using any 'politically correct' (word wasn't invented yet) word usage. Meaning, you couldn't say you wanted to "make love" or ask if they wanted to have "sex". You had to say something like; "Damn - you are HOT! How about we go under the boardwalk and fuck?!" (We had to go under the boardwalk or her place, because my grand-mom was 'babysitting' me and my cousin Steve.) I've actually done something similar once and the results shocked me back in those days. I was cough much younger and much more naive back then than I am these days crosses fingers and this nice man I was talking to online told me to dress like my usually sparkly self and go out and get laid because I clearly needed a good fuck. The only stipulation was that this time, I was not to use any of my female charm to entice a man to want me, instead, I was to go to a bar, walk straight up to the first guy I liked and open conversation by asking him: "Hi, I'm really horny, please take me home and fuck me". I chuckled at the assignment, really, what did I have to worry about? I was used to having my way with men... The results really don't surprise me as much now, and they probably wont shock anybody here. I did what I was told, walked up to the first guy in sight and politely asked him to fuck my brain out and... he turned me down. I was shocked, humiliated, confused I couldn't really understand what had happened. A man told me "no" when I offered him sex... that... well, had never happened before. I got rather annoyed and decided that the guy was an idiot, or an asshole, or better yet... gay and I optimistic tried again with another guy... And I got turned down again... And again... And again... I lost count of how many times I asked, but it was surely over 30, and by the time I actually did find somebody who took me up on my offer, I was deeply humiliated, humbled and confused. I fucked him in robot-mode, and really couldn't remember all that much about it, not even the next day... but my mind kept dwelling on the process leading up to it for weeks. It was a valuable lesson, hard as it was to learn. I can't even imagine now ever having being so naive that I expected the results to be any differently.

Kana -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 12:37:16 PM)
Teach you to hang out with blind folks Ish!

WestBaySlave -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 12:58:25 PM)
At this point, I don't think there are enough knees to go around on this thread. Perhaps each dom can make do with one knee each?

Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 1:54:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana Teach you to hang out with blind folks Ish! Yeah, I wish. It taught me that looks don't necessarily always work if not accompanied with the right attitude... And that guys are all talk when it comes to how they wish women would behave, but when they are put on the same spot that women so often are put on, they are as aversive, shy and timid about it as we are...

Mercnbeth -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 2:12:16 PM)
quote: ...walked up to the first guy in sight and politely asked him to fuck my brain out Ish, From the perspective of NEVER submitting the only appropriate response I can think of in that situation would be; "On your knees, bitch!" [sm=crop.gif] for a little warm up! I appreciate and enjoy a sincere begging female, but anything I agree to participate will always be on my terms! [sm=lol.gif]

Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 2:25:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ...walked up to the first guy in sight and politely asked him to fuck my brain out Ish, From the perspective of NEVER submitting the only appropriate response I can think of in that situation would be; "On your knees, bitch!" [sm=crop.gif] for a little warm up! I appreciate and enjoy a sincere begging female, but anything I agree to participate will always be on my terms! [sm=lol.gif] I can appreciate that, and could even back then... which is why I made no demands that they'd fuck me, I asked... politely. A response like that would have been welcomed, especially from a man who would actually have been able to deal with the response I would have given him by dropping on the floor in a public bar, kneeling with my knees as wide as I had been taught to do, in a skirt that already covered my ass only in the most questionable of ways. [:D] To bad Cali was a little to far for me that night to be considered a target location for barhopping, that could have been a really pleasant night. [sm=modxiiswatching.gif]

BigDaddy723 -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 3:43:32 PM)
Does anyone else have any opnions or theories or ideas, I would love to hear from some of you subs out there about your theories or ideas?

ElanSubdued -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 4:59:32 PM)
Ishtarr, quote: Yeah, I wish. It taught me that looks don't necessarily always work if not accompanied with the right attitude... And that guys are all talk when it comes to how they wish women would behave, but when they are put on the same spot that women so often are put on, they are as aversive, shy and timid about it as we are. You're painting with a very broad brush. I'll offer another hypothesis. It's possible that, as hard as this may be to fathom, some guys are more selective than just wanting hot tits, cunt, and ass to fuck. Rapport is a big part of the equation. Mutual respect. A desire to build something slowly that is long lasting. A desire for intellectual and emotional attraction, in addition to physical attraction. These are reasons a man might turn down such an offer. Oh, and the obvious one: a quick fuck with the wrong woman = nasty disease and possibly death. Yeah. Not such a great offer when you think with wider parameters in mind. Elan.

ElanSubdued -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 5:22:35 PM)
BigDaddy723, quote: BigDaddy723: Alright so in a slightly different direction, and a 2 part question. It seems that there is a consensus that it works on naive and unfamiliar subs. Why do you think that is? Is it that they are just that eager to prove that they are submissive, and if so, how would you educate them? ElanSubdued: This answers part 1 of your question. As for part 2, sometimes you can't take responsibility for educating people. People must take initiative for their own learning. To support this, attending BDSM events and seminars together is one way. Reading and sharing together is another. BigDaddy723: Elan, the quote didn't really answer Why it works and only confirmed what seems to be the truth already. Oops! I almost missed your post. This thread grew another two pages by the time I came back. :-) Clarifying my answer: The reason why it works is the submissives are naive and unfamiliar with BDSM, or they are in a mood to be objectified and degraded, or... There are a myriad reasons. The situation I'll focus on is the one where a submissive knowingly enters into a situation they otherwise would not when framed in a vanilla context. This is very common for those lacking experience. A new submissive wants to taste and experiment with the fantasies that have been playing inside their head and they finally find a partner with whom to do this. Just finding someone "accepting" can be a euphoric release in itself. The euphoria often causes the inexperienced (and, for that matter, the experienced) to make poor choices. A good question submissives should ask themselves is "removing BDSM, do I feel safe with/attracted to this partner"? When I first started out, often the only criteria I used when selecting a dominant partner was that they claimed to be dominant! This haze disappeared after I gained experience and learned more about what I wanted in a partner and about what constitutes a quality partner to me. Elan.

Ishtarr -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 5:32:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued You're painting with a very broad brush. I'll offer another hypothesis. It's possible that, as hard as this may be to fathom, some guys are more selective than just wanting hot tits, cunt, and ass to fuck. Rapport is a big part of the equation. Mutual respect. A desire to build something slowly that is long lasting. A desire for intellectual and emotional attraction, in addition to physical attraction. These are reasons a man might turn down such an offer. Oh, and the obvious one: a quick fuck with the wrong woman = nasty disease and possibly death. Yeah. Not such a great offer when you think with wider parameters in mind. Obviously... And sarcasm doesn't always translate well to the written word. I agree that there was more going on than my statement implied, yet at the same time, if I would have gone to that bar, sat down with a drink and waited not even 2 minutes, I'd have had several guys hitting on me. I'll grant you that not all guys would like an easy girl for the reasons you described, yet at the same time, the complaining that so often goes on in male circles about women being too hard to get, and the desire so often expressed that they would wish it to be as easy as just openly stating their intention to the first hot woman in sight proved to be all bullshit and bluff when actually faced with this opportunity. I will also add that, while this was a vanilla bar, this wasn't your typical vanilla bar, but instead, an establishment well known as a place to go looking for casual sex. Like I said, it was an interesting experience being on the "asshole/cold-hearted/I-don't-even-care-what-your-name-is/hunter" side of things for a change, but yet, not an experience I'm very eager to repeat.

xXsoumisXx -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/23/2010 9:30:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir This whole thread is simply making me laugh my ass off because I'm thinking of this video. Omg, that is soooo funny!!!;)

WyldHrt -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 2:10:11 AM)
Dunno, just tried the "on your knees, bitch" cmail with a Dom, and he answered! Ok, we know each other and he was laughing his ass off at me, but still. [:D][:D][:D]

crazyml -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 3:49:30 AM)
She'd read the Patience "Mind control thread", dammit. I was powerless. sheesh [Ed for typo]

BentUnit -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 4:08:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml She'd read the Patience "Mind control thread", dammit. I was powerless. sheesh [Ed for typo] You shameless Hussy!

ElanSubdued -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 11:19:28 AM)
crazyml, quote: She'd read the Patience "Mind control thread", dammit. I was powerless. (snip) Well, and it is WyldHrt you're talking about. She has super secret (and not so secret) charms no dom/domme can refuse. Even we s-types are powerless. E.

ElanSubdued -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 11:41:01 AM)
Ishtarr, quote: And sarcasm doesn't always translate well to the written word. Oops. Sorry if I missed the sarcasm in your words. :-) Re-reading my reply to you now, it does come across more harshly than I intended. quote: I agree that there was more going on than my statement implied, yet at the same time, if I would have gone to that bar, sat down with a drink and waited not even 2 minutes, I'd have had several guys hitting on me. Quite possibly. It's not unusual that guys are on the prowl at pickup bars. Similarly though, I've been in clubs where is it quite amusing to watch women as they come in the door. They do the "room scan" and you can see them marking suitable prey/mating material. quote: I'll grant you that not all guys would like an easy girl for the reasons you described, yet at the same time, the complaining that so often goes on in male circles about women being too hard to get, and the desire so often expressed that they would wish it to be as easy as just openly stating their intention to the first hot woman in sight proved to be all bullshit and bluff when actually faced with this opportunity. I'll concede this, although I don't think a lot of men, when saying they wish things could be more open, mean walking up to a woman with a "do you wanna' fuck" line. Much of the time, I think men are confused by contradictions. For example, a woman walks into a bar wearing a "look at me" outfit, but God help the guys who look, if they get caught looking. quote: Like I said, it was an interesting experience being on the "asshole/cold-hearted/I-don't-even-care-what-your-name-is/hunter" side of things for a change, but yet, not an experience I'm very eager to repeat. I can see why you wouldn't want to repeat this experience. There are lots of men who don't seek out women using the "asshole/cold-hearted/I-don't-even-care-what-your-name-is/hunter" approach. However, if you go to a watering hole known to be home to this kind of wildlife, you'll likely run into them (or they into you). It works both ways, too. This is why a lot or people (men and women alike) dislike pickup bars of this sort. Elan.

ShaharThorne -> RE: On your knees, bitch! (6/24/2010 11:48:12 AM)
Without reading the entire thread, if someone says to get on my knees, I just block and not read the email. I got too any medical problems that comes first aand forsmuch in my life and I will ask if he is willing to lift me up after a 'session'. Now...time to be a real bitch...where is my crop....

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