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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I am interested in knowing how REAL women feel about Domming crossdressers and having personal relationships with them.

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I am interested in knowing how REAL women feel about Domming crossdressers and having personal relationships with them.

Depends on the crossdresser.  Ultimately we're still talking about a human being here, so if he looks hot cross dressed and we share a lot of vanilla interests, then abso-fuckin-lutely.  If he's some random perv who is all about his fetish and nothing else, and we have nothing in common and no compatibility or chemistry, then not so much.

Genderbending can be incredibly hot, but I will say that I am totally turned off by the humiliation crossdresser who considers women a lower life form and thinks it is degrading to be dressed like one.  That's a hard limit in my personal life.

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I am interested in knowing how REAL women feel about Domming crossdressers and having personal relationships with them.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


Why don't you state your position as a start?

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I am interested in knowing how REAL women feel about Domming crossdressers and having personal relationships with them.

I got shot down for having an opinion and was accused of  self-promotion.
I was trying to be careful this time.

(in reply to sunshinemiss)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's a fascinating topic how females are still not comfortable giving the power to wear womens clothing to men.

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I got shot down for having an opinion and was accused of  self-promotion.
I was trying to be careful this time.

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I am interested in knowing how REAL women feel about Domming crossdressers and having personal relationships with them.

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but I need to know *why* they are doing it

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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

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but I need to know *why* they are doing it

I don't consider myself a crossdresser, because I don't do it regularly, and now I don't do it at all, but few times I did it (when I was in high school), and when I did it, I wanted to look as gorgeous and sexy as possible. I tried to look exactly as a girl that I would usually fall in love with. And I even tried to emulate some feminine movements, and belly dancing. Doing all of this was incredibly hot, and of course I got hard on. That was the silly part, I looked like a girl, but with an erect dick.

I am also completely disgusted by those who want to crossdress as a form of humiliation. There's absolutely nothing humiliating in being a woman, nor in crossdressing.
Whenever I did crossdressing, I did it in a way to be like a real, desirable, elegant (and even powerful) woman, not some caricature of womanhood.
Yes, power was an important component in my fantasy. I fantasized about being a powerful seductress who easily seduces just with her charms and femininity.
However, there is one thing in crossdressing that was always a constant with me, I never wanted to change my sexual orientation, not even slightly.
This is not homophobia or anything like that, I just never fantasized about guys. Masculinity simply doesn't attract me. If I'm gonna be a woman, I'll be a lesbian.
I don't have anything against those who are bicurious or fantasize about being with guys, this is just not my cup of tea.

Also, those who think that any of genders are lower life form are, in my opinion, idiots. Genders are equal and both of them have some characteristics that the other gender doesn't have, so each gender is superior in some things and should be very respected.
I despise both misogynists and misandrists.
I can tolerate Goreans, as long as they don't insist on women being inferior.
I can tolerate Female Supremacists, as long as they just exalt women, without degrading men or advocating hatred towards men.

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Someone go check the thermostat in Hell because I really enjoyed reading this post from S.Not.

Well done, Sweetheart.

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's a fascinating topic how females are still not comfortable giving the power to wear womens clothing to men.

Most vanillas aren't comfortable with gender transgressive acts; that's why they're vanillas.

I think it's fantastic if a man wants to be pretty in ways that are "supposed" to be feminine, or if a transgendered or genderqueer person decides to express themselves freely and proudly.  That's awesome sauce.  Also, it can be seriously fucking hot.  It does give me the creeps when a misogynistic guy clearly thinks women are a lower life form, sexually active women are the lowest life form of all, and he gets his kicks being degraded by being "forced" to be a mere female.  I honestly don't see how that can be taken as anything but negative and insulting to women.

Crossdressing itself is just fine with me, but I need to know *why* they are doing it, and I need them to take responsibility for doing it.  I don't mind helping, but don't tell me to "force" you to do something you don't have the guts to admit you like doing for its own sake.  If I think the underlying reason he crossdresses is that he's basically stuck in a male dominant mindset (eg, only women are lowly, degraded and submissive, so he has to be made feminine in order to submit), he's permanently off my personal radar.  That is so very not hot to me. 

Now a pretty, genderbending boi who takes the time to look freakin' GOOD in what he puts on, oh hell yeah, give me some of that.  Extra points if he is willing to make out with other pretty bois.  That is seriously hot, and I want some.  I won't be shy about getting me some if it walks within decent propositioning range of me and my pansexual partner, as we tend to have fairly similar tastes in ladyboys.   *wicked evil grin*

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer
Most vanillas aren't comfortable with gender transgressive acts; that's why they're vanillas.

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As if kinky peeps are any better, because they are not.