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MissFem -> how does it feel..... (9/17/2004 10:23:05 PM)
to be a sub/slave?

stef -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/17/2004 10:59:27 PM)
It feels right. ~stef

Synocense -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/17/2004 11:00:15 PM)
Simply put, for me, it feels.....natural. I have days whenI am ecstatic, days when Im sad, some when I am terrified, but as ironic as it sounds, I always feel free. It is hard to describe. I find my pleasure in pleasing, not only my Master, but people in general. I had to ask myself way in the beginning if this was submissiveness or co-depencency because there were times I would sacrifice and disregard what was best for me, in order to please another. Through a rocky journey that is far from over, I discovered the real me. My owner guides me, directs me and forever has my best interest in mind. Each and every decision he makes is for the best of the relationship, not just what is best for him. It means sometimes he doesnt get what he wants when he wants it. (gasp Could it be true?!) But not because I am not willing to give to him whatever it is, but because for whatever reason he feels the time is not right. I marvel at the intense emotions I have now, not only wanting to share my feelings with him, but being expected to. He won't settle for anything less. Everything I do is with his permission or blessing. I seldom have to stress over making the wrong decision. Where it is most important, he weighs everything, decides what he feels is best, then tells me what to do. To me, this is a slaves freedom. : ) Did this give any insight? Syn

newflowers -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/17/2004 11:09:32 PM)
It feels right, like coming home to a place where you belong, a place wher you fit in and are accepted and accept yourself for what and who you are. Syn, your message is eloquent in its simplicity. newflowers

Synocense -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 3:21:35 AM)
quote: Syn, your message is eloquent in its simplicity. Thank you and I compliment yours. Heres to acceptance! cheers Syn

theroebabe -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 7:58:50 AM)
well i am a service sub and a mashochist. i like to take care of people and things and i get a fix of sorts by hosting dinners and such since i am not with a dom. I do things for others to get my fix fulfilled. It completes me, it makes me happy to sometimes sit at the feet of my master (when i had one lol) and just touch him skin to skin, not doing anything, if he touches my hair well thats the best. It is an internal feeling of satisfaction the same as i get when i find something he may have wanted or has an interest in that would please him. being alone now when i am in lifestyle public events i feel alone and separate from the group although i am surrounding by friends and people who i know and who care about each other. Its a part of who i am that is a need for me. And when that need is met its a most wonderful thing, when its not i feel the piece that is missed.

feline -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 10:57:59 AM)
Natural. Normal. True. Whole. Sound. Comfortable. Right. It feels like being me. [:)] [image]local://upfiles/17000/0D1039730EF44C909243E87CD135987A.gif[/image]

subbiejenn -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 11:14:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissFem to be a sub/slave? It's just me ... I am submissive in everything i do. like many have said it's natural, feels right... i love to please, don't like to take control... ~jenn~

sterlingsweet -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 11:46:42 AM)
To me it felt as if i had been serching my whole life for this missing piece and was having a hard time figuring it out. i was aware of the desires i had to be in relationships where my lover was always a more dominate personality, but it had never been something that was spoken about overtly in any of them. After my last break-up, (and i am sure it was because i and she needed our D/s needs to be met but neither of us knowing there was actually a lifstyle that could embrace and teach us) i started to really look at my past relationships, and did figure out that Dominance was want i needed, i need to be driven as apposed to driving, so to speak. i was neglected as a kid and never was disaplined and i knew i missed out on important lessons and needs being meet. i began to look into disapline and bondage and starting learning more about the lifestyle. That is when i met my mistress on-line. it felt like a huge light was shining on me and i finally understood what i had been missing>>>i live in Minneapolis and she in Chicago>>>>we travel back and forth to see each other, in fact i am here in Chicago right now with her, and it feels right, it feels natural, it feels good, it feels like i have finally come home![sm=kiss.gif]

MissFem -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/18/2004 9:55:20 PM)
I ask because I was getting the same response so i wanted some thing different....thank you all for such wonderful answers[:)]

merrymasochist -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/21/2004 2:40:47 AM)
what's it like? on one side - it's happiness multiplied to the nth degree... it's floating on a cloud of pure oxygen... it's a complete expression of myself with no holds barred... it's where i find joy... on another side - it's something i have to live carefully... it's a driving force in my life that i have to manage and allow for... it's something i have to treat like a condition and find outlets for it, because if i don't, it can cause me make unhealthy decisions... but for all it's good points and not-so-good points, it's who i am and what i am and i wouldn't change a thing... [:)] thank You for Your thought provoking question....

smilezz -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/21/2004 4:57:53 AM)
Actually.....sometimes it's hard as hell. It's not always easy serving, it's not always easy following orders....it's not always easy submitting. Do not get me wrong...it is who i am...i am slave through and through. It's the overwhelming peace i find in who i am that makes me just that.....it's just not always easy. There are just some days you wake up and you don't want to pick up those clothes on the side of the bed...do laundry...dishes..clean the house..and being an organizational cleaning freak...this adds to all kinds of issues chucklez There are even days that i wake up and look at Him after He has given me an order....all i want to say is: are You out of Your fucking mind? Now, i have never said this TO Him (i don't have to, He can read me and knows me better than anyone), sure, i have thought it...but i have never disobeyed His command. That day i may not take the greatest pleasure in following His order............BUT! what i find is, in the end, after it's all done with.....that smile of pride from Him....that knowing look...those words He whispers puts me right back where i belong. So how does it feel to be a slave? It's who i am...it's hard...it's rewarding...there is no other option as far as i am concerned, i am me........ Thorns' slave. beamz proudly gawwwwwwwd i need coffee..... ~smilezz~

IservBlkKingPaPa -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/23/2004 7:39:17 AM)
wow smilezz....were you reading my mind?? lol....i couldn't have said it better myself. i think your post probably captured the feelings of alot of slaves. It was honest and not full of romantic "I'm the best slave BS". Well there is nothing left for me to say on the subject. smilezz said it all. slave viktorya [image]local://upfiles/44917/F8406F5A8F744A1A982B89EFFBCA3239.jpg[/image]

bottominwa -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/24/2004 12:35:37 AM)
This girl would say that belonging to this house at times, literally sucks ass..but that has nothing to do with submission to Him and everything to do with the First wife of the house the U.S. FRIGGIN ARMY! [:@] she thinks that it is easy to pontificate online especially on how great submission is, or rather truly how great slavery is...but the actual practice of it...well it's not always a walk in the park. It's idealistic and often times romanticized how great having no needs and being totally devoted to a house is...but being in the unique situation this girl is...she lives things a little "too real" to that ideal at times for even her tastes. Sometimes it is deafeningly lonely being a slave. Sometimes it can be a constant battle of the soul versus the human being. Human beings want Free Will, especially in this culture and day and age...and as in this house, learning and constantly relearning to give one's free will to another...well it's not romantic. she thinks without question that the vast majority of the same girls who claim to be "owned" online or otherwise if they were put in her predicament, of being alone..with truly no needs met for months on end...well their romanticizes ideal of slavery might "poof" vanish. We are, after all, as Aurelius said "the sum of our trials and perseverance." Now....when He is home...glory be to Master in heaven the world is a fabulous place....and that is a completely different post. sabrina King House of King

jeffman1234 -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/24/2004 1:41:55 AM)
I have gone though some changes in the three months I have been with the couple I am with and I can say the happiest day of my life was when they decided to own me forever! Sometimes I am tired from my job and housework or long to masterbate and not have a chastity on me, but I truly feel loved and cared for and it makes it all worth it.

strongnsubmissiv -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/24/2004 10:20:08 AM)
. Like i've been holding my breath all my life, and finally i've figured out how to exhale.

subheart21503 -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/27/2004 1:46:51 PM)
i can't imagine not being submissive. it just makes sense to me other things do not.

anjelblue69 -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/27/2004 5:39:47 PM)
I have to agree with what everyone has already written here. And add that I am a natural-born caregiver and pleaser. So serving fills me with a sense of contentment and comfort that I don't find anywhere else. I live for being able to devote myself to taking care of someone. And I love having a Dominant/Master who tells me exactly what he wants so that there is no question in my mind that I am doing things right. I have finally found the place where I can feel at peace. anjelblue

addicted2it -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/28/2004 8:58:45 AM)
quote]ORIGINAL: MissFem How does it feel to be a sub/slave? [/quote] MissFem, ma'am: It probably feels just as good to be a sub/slave as it does being a Mistress (each side compliments the other). i guess You could say it has about the same intensity, depending upon O/one's interest and sadistic tendency, and whether O/one is giving or receiving. Having personally experienced both sides of the proverbial coin, i tend much more toward the submissive side. In other words, i get more of a "rush" when someone else is in control, and i love to serve and to please -- especially to someone who i am physically attracted to, and with whom i can connect on other levels as well as the physical. Submissively, philip

kiki blue -> RE: how does it feel..... (9/29/2004 1:58:44 PM)
I don't know what it feels like to be "a sub/slave". I only know what it feels like to be me, because identifying as slave within a D/s relationship is only part of who I am. But by recognising that, and being that, I feel more comfortable being me.

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