defiantbadgirl
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ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY Getting wealthy, or even just making more than a survival wage is a matter of attitude, opportunity, and luck. Of the three, attitude is the most important factor. If one has the right attitude, and uses their time and energy to seek ways to improve themselves (and a college education isn't necessary, although it sometimes can be helpful), then they will be prepared, and understand when "opportunity knocks", and they will pretty much make their own luck. Guaranteed? Nope. But it is a guarantee that if someone doesn't have a willing attitude, then they will ignore opportunity, and will almost always have "bad luck". The attitude that will ensure failure is the one that brings out the hatred for people who do better, and succeed. The attitude that will ensure failure is the one where someone cries about how unfair everything is, and can't see the opportunities that they can take advantage of, because they are too busy complaining. I'll just give you some examples that I'm familiar with: I work in a pretty technical field, that involves engineering, politics, and federal regulations. I've trained probably 15 people over the years in how to do the same thing. Or, to be more correct, I've hired at least that many to learn it. I'm willing to pay them for at least 6 months to learn the skills and information to succeed, without expecting that they will contribute to my bottomline. Some didn't even have computer skills, which is absolutely required to succeed. I am willing to teach them that, and even provide the computer equipment for them. What is required to succeed is the attitude and desire to pay close attention, and to learn how to look up, read, and understand the rules, and apply them. It requires the ability to pay attention to details, the ability to think things through, and then apply what they know to a particular situation. Many of the people I've hired simply decide that its "too hard", or they give up after a week or two, because it's "overwhelming". Some just don't want to learn all the stuff. Some are simply unwilling to learn how to think. One young woman who did not have a high school diploma, and not a day of college, and no computer experience took on the challenge about 10 years ago. She had a crackhead for a husband, and two children who she ended up raising on her own. To start, I paid her about $300 a week. Today, still without a high school diploma, or any college, she is working for a Fortune 500 company, doing exactly the same things as I taught her for $45 an hour. Another example is Treasure. Treasure has a GED, and a few hours of college, but worked her way up in the Human Resources field by learning on the job, after hours, getting certifications in the field, and in generally applying herself. She supported her entire family over the last two decades doing so, without assistance from her ex. When we got married, she started learning what I do, in a completely unrelated field. But she had already displayed the right "attitude": failure is simply another lesson on the way to success. Today, even if I were to die, she could continue our business and make at least a 6 figure income. What these two women didn't do was cry about all the opportunity and education that they were missing to "be successful". They didn't waste their energy feeling resentful for the success of others. What they did do was take stock of their own positions, their own abilities, got their attitude straight, and applied themselves. And made their own luck. Final example: Me. I have two college degrees, both in the "soft sciences", in areas that do not apply at all in the field that I've been working on for the last 20 years. (and, btw, I completely paid for my undergraduate degree by working: not a penny from my parents, who were "poor" and unable to help) I further spent over 10 years in the military, also outside of my current field. I became a respected (and well paid) expert in this field, above many people who have dedicated degrees, by learning on my own, by being more committed to understanding it, and in learning how to apply it. Was it easy? Never. How did I get into it? Simple. I had problems that needed solved, and there wasn't anyone that I could turn to, anyone I could pay that would provide the answers to the questions. I saw an opportunity, and became "that person" for others to turn to, and, as a result, am currently in that "top 5%" income category. But ... I don't work "on the clock". I work on vacation, I work during the day, I work at night, I work to resolve my clients problems whenever, and where ever they have them. I've saved some companies millions of dollars, and nowadays they rarely ask "How much?", they simply say "Send us your bill". Hell, I mistakenly overcharged one company $10,000, and when I told them, they said they didn't care (an indication that maybe I'm not charging enough for my services). "Being poor" is simply a temporary condition for people who have the right attitude. Firm I agree that financial success is a matter of attitude, opportunity, and luck. Of those three, attitude is probably the most important. But there's a fourth factor that's even more important - the absence of corporate greed. To see this, one only has to look at the IT and factory workers who lost their jobs to outsourcing. Then there are the employees who have worked at a company for years only to lose their jobs to H1 Visa workers close to retirement age. (Could it be that the company wanted to get out of paying their retirement pensions?) Obviously, those former employees had a good attitude. No company is going to hire someone or keep them for years if they have a bad attitude. Most of these workers not affected by age discrimination are employed. They say they're working twice as hard for much lower wages. Those who are working in a similar field report that they are expected to do the work of three people for a fraction of their former salaries. A good attitude is extremely important to be successful. But in a great attitude vs corporate greed situation, corporate greed wins. So what other than fighting for change will win against corporate greed?
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Only in the United States is the health of the people secondary to making money. If this is what "capitalism" is about, I'll take socialism any day of the week. Collared by MartinSpankalot May 13 2008
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