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waterdance -> RE: Insomnia... (4/13/2006 11:16:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: ladychatterley

Someone is sort of mentoring me; he said I should stop--I need to be prepared to have someone control when I have orgasms and have the control to give that over to someone else.  It is a pretty regular thing for me, so ...

I think your mentor needs a newsflash:

Some doms don't care about subs orgasms
Some doms enjoy their subs having lots of orgasms
Some doms enjoy knowing their sub can orgasm and get good nights sleep

If you choose to get involved with a dominant who will not only control your orgasms, but also DENY them, then THEY can be the ones to help find a new and non-drug way to deal with the unfortunate consequences.  That's what training was invented for.

Until then, do what works best for you.  Denying yourself something that is not only very pleasurable, very healthy, but ALSO a great routine that helps you get good rest just because some possible future hypothetical dom MIGHT want to cnotrol your orgasms is ridiculous.


Yeah that.. [:D]



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Insomnia... (4/13/2006 8:46:03 PM)

To the OP...well I have many methods of getting some sleep..as LA said masturbation,having a fan run ( the low hum helps..white noise thing),having TV on with the flickering lights and on a kind of low hum..closing my eyes and fantasizing a kind of building a story in my mind with me of course the focal point..:0)..of course in the fantasy thing I sometimes tend to focus on some inconsequential thing and replay it in my mind to the point that I must bore myself to sleep..grin...anyway those are just a few things...be well... Tempting



Arpig -> RE: Insomnia... (4/13/2006 9:54:02 PM)

I agree with LA on this, whoever is mentoring you is doing a crap job of it. denying yourself orgasms for no reason other than you will be used to not cumming in case somebody down the road wants to limit your orgasms is ridiculous. I can tell you that I for one wouldn't consider that a good trait in a submissive at all, if I am going to deny a submissive orgasms for any reason, then I want the submissive to damned well not be used to it...what's the point of that?
I like my submissive to have lots of orgasms, orgasms at unexpected times, in embarassing ways, in large exhausting numbers, or just plain cum because she is pretty and delightful when she does, and because I like doing it. To appeal to me, I would rather know that you regularly mastrubated every night than that you didn't..
And as for insommnia...sorry I have suffered from it for 30-odd years and have never found anything that works reliably for any length of time.



Maam4slavegirl -> RE: Insomnia... (4/15/2006 12:12:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkcravings

Have you tried meditation and yoga?  A nice warm bath before it filled with lavish scented bubbles and meditation has always worked for me.

dark




I don't do the yoga, but love to meditate in a lavender bubble bath on the nights that I can't sleep. Takes about an hour after that to be sleepy for me.
 
P.S.,
I agree 100% with Lucky on her views in regards to the orgasm denial bull someone is spouting to you. If when you do belong to the one that you seek then see what they feel is right with them, not one who is just mentoring you.
Good luck.



babysburnin -> RE: Insomnia... (4/15/2006 12:36:16 AM)

"I suggest abusing prescription medication.  It has it's down side, what with the cost and side effects and dependance and difficulty obtaining in vat size quantities.  But at least you won't be masturbating."


I am cracking up!!!



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