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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 4:05:50 PM   
Phoenixandnika


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If someone that does not contact you adds you to their favorites and doesnt even after a period of time are the admirers or something else?
 
How is that any different than falling a stranger keeping track of when they come and go yet they have no idea who you are?
 
Are people who add you to their favorites welcomed by you with open arms and are they blocked?
 
~curiously~
 
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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 4:20:52 PM   
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Hmmm... I guess I better reevaluate my favorites list. I put people on there who have nice photos and good journals. It doesn’t say I am going to contact them, if they wanted to contact me they are more than welcome. I am pretty specific on my profile. Therefore as opposed to making someone feel awkward I leave it for them to read my profile and decide for themselves if I am way too far from their comfort zone to contact me. I do not put them there to stalk or other such things. Slaverosebeauty is my favorite girl on the site; I like to be able to check her journals and such as time goes on. The easiest way for me to do that is by having her in my favorites. Others have updates in their profiles and pictures that I like to view. Hellslilangel is another who has an array of artistic pics that is very worthwhile to look at. Kajiraamani has incredible pics and her Master, I assume, is a hell of a photographer with a good eye and a lovely model.

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 4:39:32 PM   
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This posting is tooo tooo funny!  I'm amazed sometimes how often we tend to want to complicate things.  It seems fairly simple to me but I guess the question is on more than one someone's mind.  So, here goes.

I use the favorites to remember my favorites as I go through the site.  Doesn't matter if they're a favorite due to a post, their profile, there particular looks or other.  They're just a "Favorite" because I see them as such.  Doesn't mean I will or won't contact them they're just a favorite at the time I select them.

As for the admirers, I have a few, about 15 and that number fluctuates.  Some have contacted me before I became part of their favorites list.  Some have not contacted me at all.  I do go and check out their profile if I haven't had any contact from them but since I'm not a mind reader (yet...tee hee hee) and don't know why they've marked me as their favorite, I just enjoy the fact that they took the time to mark me as a favorite.  I'm flattered and of course it strokes the ego.  I am, after all, human and a woman.  Hot lating woman to be exact...lol!



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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 5:37:06 PM   
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i think i've heard from maybe 4 of the ppl on my admirers list and i have 3 ppl on my favorites. i use the favorites basically to easily message and follow posts on here. *smiles*

i don't see how someone having you on thier favorites list can be a problem *shrugss* not like they are sending icky creepy messages or anything. If they did you'd just block them. As for monitoring your comings and goings... no different then noticing when your neightbour is home or not.

just my thoughts on it.

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 5:46:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha
...sending icky creepy messages...


Yes. This would be how to get blocked and ratted out to the CM administrators for vulgarity by Chaingang. Creepy to me is any kind of online cyber shit or unsolicited nude photos of a particularly bold nature - or both! If other people like that, cool - seems like an insane waste of time to me.




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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/15/2006 6:44:32 PM   
akisha


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. Creepy to me is any kind of online cyber shit or unsolicited nude photos of a particularly bold nature -

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LOL i opened my messages once and had a rather umm up in your face picture of a much older males genitalia.  This is not the kind of first introduction that works for me. Don't get me wrong i like older men, but not the age of my grandfather (when thinking about a sexual relationship)
and a nice note goes a lot farther then what i got. *shudders*  Then again i don't care if it was Mel Gibson, if that was all i was sent i'd be turned off.  

mmmm much more of a tummy kinda girl anyway. yes i admit i have a belly button fetish *giggles*

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 7:40:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv

This posting is tooo tooo funny!  I'm amazed sometimes how often we tend to want to complicate things.  It seems fairly simple to me but I guess the question is on more than one someone's mind. 




At least, with this post, some people discovered that they have a "favourite" and "admirers" list on the side of their window... ;-)

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 7:44:56 AM   
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I've never check my admirers button until just now.

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 8:11:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chaingang
Lately I am keeping track of the "dead dom syndrome." I also find what people say about their dead dom interesting.


I and my former master used to find the "dead sub" syndrome online far more hilarious and widespread.  Then I almost died. Then he did die.  I think I lost a bit of shallowness and callousness thanks to those two experiences. On contact sites, I don't say anything in particular about my master, why should I?  I just let people know he's recently dead (almost 1.5 years but often it feels like yesterday) so they know going in what a mess they're liable to be dealing with. :(

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 8:42:49 AM   
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I use it simply for myself. I have very few people on it. The ones on it are men I find extremely dominant, sexy, hotter than hell and would beg to meet and probably beg the collar of were I not already owned.

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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 9:15:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

I think I just figured out a few more uses for the "Favorite" function. 

Put YOURSELF on your OWN favorites list!

This first gives you the feeling of being desired, because then you have someone who has placed you on their Admirers list.
You can send yourself emails, even!  And get that "New Message" rush, any time you need it!
Second, it allows you to go immediately to your own profile without clicking and scrolling through the "Edit Profile" and the "View Profile"
Finally, its a nice color contrast to see that pretty blue over on your Favorites list, with all those pink colored subs.

This cracked me up FirmhandKY! (I just did it, too. lol! As good to me as eating a yummy chocolate chip cookie with hot cocoa on a chilly day).I am brand new here and spend more time reading message boards simply to see what people have to say (I like people and just am curious what they think).

Until yesterday when I saw this thread, I knew there were people who had shown up on my list of Admireds, but it had never occurred to me to habitually put 'em on a Favorites list or not. If I don't or didn't put them on a Favorites list -  does that mean I am not still reading what they have to say on these boards, or somehow don't Admire them? Not necessarily.

If I do note them as a Favorite does that mean I am a potential "stalker" (love that term, lol)? Not really (to me). It just may mean I like the way they write or think they've said something that one time or other stikes me as insightful or useful to me in my own life (for whatever reason).

I've been on CM less than 2 weeks and spend more time some days than others reading the message boards (maybe some days some topics strike me as more interesting for one reason or another).

There are so many people here and I don't read all the threads every day - am sure there are many I miss where someone is, as we speak (despite the time laspse), saying insightful and wonderful things. So it doesn't make sense (for me) to jump to a conclusion that because someone is on a Favorites list that it means anything - in general- other than that person said something inspiring or insightful that another person liked.

It also doesn't make sense to me to think people who probably do say insightful and wonderful things should get their feelings hurt because they haven't shown up on someone's Favorites list. Maybe a person they Admire just not in the habit of using the Favorites feature to show up on other's Admireds lists; for whatever reason, it's "not the way they do things".

* Although it is nice to know that's why some people may do it
Maybe in some cases, for some people, I suppose it might end up meaning "more".
(Realize I might be stating the obvious).

So - another case of whether somone on another's Favorites or Admireds list being "definitive bit not necessary"? In terms of "meaning something" in a general sense?

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 4/18/2006 10:08:03 AM >


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RE: Favourite users and Admirers - 4/18/2006 9:37:03 AM   
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I add people to my favorite's list if I find their posts on the forum exceptionally interesting. And I add local folks. And I add people that I kind of want to contact, but they haven't really provided much in their profile, so I mark them and check back later in case they revamp.

But mainly just people whose posts on the forums catch my attention.

I'm always flattered when I see I have a new admirer. When I see someone has added me, I immediately go check out their profile. Unfortunately, I'm usually disappointed, but that's another thread... lol.

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