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LadyNTrainer -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/13/2010 12:14:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: JhonDean
I made no comment in reference to my standards; my comment referenced your arrogance. Men sculpt their bodies and groom themselves based on their own preferences and that has nothing to do with you.
The men I personally own sculpt their bodies and groom themselves to please me, because I own them. That's part of my criteria for being in a D/s relationship. As a human being, let alone a dominant, I have the right to set personal standards for deciding who I want to date, play with or collar. A man who is willing to work hard to sculpt and groom to please me meets those standards. One who isn't, doesn't.
I don't date men who do not feel highly motivated to be pleasing and attractive for me. Duuh, I'm a dominant, and this is my kink. Nor do I want someone in my life who does not willingly choose to join me in workouts and exercise and healthy eating, because those things are an integral part of how I live. Someone who wasn't comfortable with those things simply would not fit well into my life. For starters, we could never eat together, because I refuse to watch someone snack on a cheeseburger while I pop another can of tuna or a whey protein shake. That is really no fun at all, so I only date other conscientious eaters and exercisers who make healthy choices.
I respect the choices that other adults make for their personal lives, and I expect my own choices to be respected also. What other people do is entirely their own business. You can bugger off and do something totally different if you want to. I don't care. But you aren't allowed to call it arrogance unless you believe nobody should have any personal standards or requirements for dating. That isn't even true of vanilla women, let alone dominant women.
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