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JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 12:54:46 PM)
quote: Fort Myers? Srsly? Wow... I have actually visited there, and gotten to know scene folks from there and Naples. Hm. Now, there was (is?) a ClubFEM chapter in that area that's all fem superiority horse hockey... but hardly an indicator of all the femdoms in Florida. I too have visited Fort Myers and Naples, somehow those areas don’t define how dominance unfolds and there are many femdoms in both areas. It’s kind of like sailing vessels, some are sleek fast and set high in the water while other are clumsy heavy in the beam sluggish and offer only boredom.

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 1:44:30 PM)
quote: Your total ignorance and lack of any real life experience is showing JD... In all of life there are choices and that dispels there is but one certain way. If dominance has defined itself to meet your specifications then the rubber stamp suites you well, but that is not my choice.

SweetDommes -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 1:48:35 PM)
Ah, but you're attempting to stamp everyone with YOUR definitions and views, and anyone who doesn't fit that is arrogent, at best. Perhaps you should think about that before denouncing other people for how they live their version of D/s and BDSM.

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 1:54:18 PM)
I make no attempt at anything, I simply comment. If my comments displease you ignore is but a key stroke away

SweetDommes -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 2:00:23 PM)
I prefer to watch what people like you have to say so that I can refute it as needed ... that way, hopefully new people don't get the wrong ideas about how we are on here. However, when you automatically proclaim that people are arrogent because of how they choose to live D/s - yes, you are attempting to stamp them with your views and values.

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 2:15:03 PM)
You know absolutely nothing of my valuse and rush to judgment. An aragance only a female dominant would cloak herself in.

SweetDommes -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 2:20:44 PM)
I know what you've projected upon the females of this message board - that's all I need to know of your values and views of D/s. You proclaim that all people who do "X" are arrogent; that we're delusional, that we're ... "women so filled with ourselves that we believe ourselves the center of the universe" but that is only your opinion - not that of the general masses, as I'm sure you'll see if you actually pay attention to the message board. But yet, you're not trying to stamp us with your "rubber stamp" of your values? Yeah ... right ... keep telling yourself that.

PeonForHer -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 3:08:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum generalisation is the calling card of inexpirence. Jhon, I don't agree with MissAsylum's statement. I think it's more likely that you've had some experience of the nastier kind and are now wary - too wary - of receiving the same kind of experience again. In my own view, most of the women writing here, at least, are a lot softer than you're able to see, right now.

LilyAnna -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 3:18:27 PM)
If this is someone you are interested in having a d/s relationship with (not just sessions), and you are interested in having more "play sessions" then pro sessions.... i would wait to give her any sort of payment. Then again, if this is a pro domme, who works at a dungeon, has many clients, you book her for a certain amount of time, etc etc..... then i can understand her asking for payment. If it is her job, then she expects to be compensated just like any other job.

MissAsylum -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 3:46:44 PM)
you just proved what i was saying. by having just SOME encounters with the arrogant female dominants(sidebar: arrogance isnt just a trait of the dominants), so therefor, he thinks all of us are because he has no expierence with a nice, down to earth one. sort of like my mum- she divorced my dad and now won't give any decent men a chance because the relationship with my father went sour. she chalks all men up to being worthless, sort of like JD chalks all women dominants up to be arrogant, all because she had a bad expirence with a man, same with JD who had a bad expirence with a domme. everybody here has had a less than desireable encounter, but most of dont think all people of a BDSM orientation are the same way.

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 3:55:02 PM)
quote: I think it's more likely that you've had some experience of the nastier kind and are now wary - too wary - of receiving the same kind of experience again. In my own view, most of the women writing here, at least, are a lot softer than you're able to see, right now. Peon I have read many of your comments, (Tong in cheek and those with depth and insight.) and I respect the skill with which you handle delicate situations and I have seen you do it often. However, I am not the wounded beast and certainly not without a lifetime of experiences at the hand of very skilled dominators. Both men and women of great quality, ethical standards and strength of character but it is true that on this site none of those qualities have evidenced even remotely if one is to judge by the comments, cattiness sarcasm and arrogance plagues this site. Now I recognize there are males who have steeped themselves in a sense of urgency, emergency and ever desperateness, men who will shatter their standards and diminish themselves but there is not force on this planet that will make me join their ranks and therein indeed my comments are not acceptable but most of the comments I read are not acceptable to me either. In closing, thank you for your comment. Jhon Dean

SweetDommes -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 4:09:27 PM)
No one is asking you to change your standards - but you seem to be demanding that others change theirs (by proclaiming that those standards make them arrogent, self-absorbed, etc.) What we are asking you to do, is be tolerant of how others live their D/s. You appear to be completely incapable of that, and in being incapable of it, you give of a strong air of being bitter, jaded, and unpleasant, not to mention being rude and obnoxious.

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 4:18:32 PM)
quote: No one is asking you to change your standards - but you seem to be demanding that others change theirs (by proclaiming that those standards make them arrogent, self-absorbed, etc.) What we are asking you to do, is be tolerant of how others live their D/s. You appear to be completely incapable of that, and in being incapable of it, you give of a strong air of being bitter, jaded, and unpleasant, not to mention being rude and obnoxious Please allow me to once again point you to the ignor feature this site so graciously offers, better yet, I will just take my own advice.

starbucks009 -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 4:21:39 PM)
Id feel suspicious if I were asked for money up front too. Let them carry on in that manner, better to find out from the start what they're about.

Lockit -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 6:39:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JhonDean You know absolutely nothing of my valuse and rush to judgment. An aragance only a female dominant would cloak herself in. I'm afraid you do sound bitter or angry JhonDean. While there may be some sarcasm, judgment, etc. on the mistress board, it isn't isolated to dominant women. If you feel that only dominant women could be arrogant and clock themselves in arrogance, then that isn't realistic or truthful and most likely does come from anger or bitterness. As for Peon... he knows many of us well from outside the board and in-depth discussions. Some of us are tougher than he first thought and some are softer than he first thought. But he got to know us and didn't bash us with his opinion until he actually gave us a chance to prove who we were and we had no problem doing so. I wish you would consider it and also, not clumping us all together.

Andalusite -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 6:45:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JhonDean I make no attempt at anything, I simply comment. If my comments displease you ignore is but a key stroke away I thought they were mildly annoying, but not enough to require blocking you. Since you specifically requested it though, I'll be nice and do as you ask. [;)]

blueeyedbbwsub -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 7:08:30 PM)
The OP's question is answered very simply.... They want money because people are stupid enough to give it to them. Why give up a good thing when there's always a sucker there to send the money? And as an aside, there is a London, Ontario, Canada as well as the much more well-known London, UK. Geography lesson, and I was never good at geography. 'Nuff said. [:)]

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/14/2010 11:21:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JhonDean Thank you fopr your final comment. JhonDean. Honestly...you come in here to point out how presumptuous and arrogant others' statements are...and yet YOU say the above. Did you forget yourself? You didn't begin this thread, subbietom2 did. It's not your place to imply that someone has made their FINAL comment. It's strange how this thread is about Mistresses wanting money/tribute...but some keep focusing on scammers. Apples and oranges, and yet I still manage to feel slightly insulted. By disparaging women at CollarMe, it can encourage males to "balance the scales" and dish out to women what they feel has been earned. Contempt.

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/15/2010 1:16:58 AM)
Drat. I can't edit my last post so I have to do it this way. I typed it all up, meant to hit Ok, and got into a pm with someone for a very long time and my post ended up being several pages late for where it would have been appropriate. Sorry for letting my irritation show earlier, I'm not quite myself today. Distracted. (And giving thanks that my distraction doesn't have any of the attitude problem displayed in this thread or I would have no keen interest in him.)

JhonDean -> RE: Why Do So Many Mistresses Want Money First? (6/15/2010 3:44:05 AM)
quote: I'm afraid you do sound bitter or angry JhonDean. While there may be some sarcasm, judgment, etc. on the mistress board, it isn't isolated to dominant women. If you feel that only dominant women could be arrogant and clock themselves in arrogance, then that isn't realistic or truthful and most likely does come from anger or bitterness. A voice of reason in a wasteland of contempt and frankly from reading your comments I strongly felt from you there would be no less. However, I have nothing to offer the ladies on these boards nor have they anything to offer me.

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