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searching - 6/14/2010 5:36:32 PM   
teachmeinmd


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Status: offline 		Is it always this hard to find compaibility
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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 5:50:42 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 5:51:13 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: teachmeinmd

Is it always this hard to find compaibility


In my experience, yes. But when you do, you realise it was worth the wait.

- LA

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 5:57:22 PM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: teachmeinmd

Is it always this hard to find compaibility


As the commercials state... there are different levels of compatibility. It becomes harder when we insist all of them are met. It also becomes more painful when we compromise too much.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 5:59:01 PM   
InvisibleBlack


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Status: offline 		Actually, it's harder ... you're just getting started.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 6:06:05 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Well, you've been on collarme for two whole days and your profile is absolutely blank.  Did you actually expect to find a compatible Domme without saying anything about yourself, in two days?

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 6:29:54 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		What Dark Steven said.

But good luck with that...


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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 6:43:05 PM   
tazzygirl


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I want it all... i want it now... and i dont want to have to work for it

sound familiar?

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 6:48:41 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		yes it is.

It's not meant to be easy....unless all you're seeking is a beat n fuck and if that's the case just go to your local bar or dungeon. They're a dime a dozen.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 7:20:07 PM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		To the OP - yes, it is, though I second others advice that an empty profile won't help in the search. The right domme will not even know if she is compatible at this point.

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
~ stomps

I want it all... i want it now... and i dont want to have to work for it

sound familiar?


I would gladly put in twelve-hour days at whatever operation you're running that results in the 100% compatible partner at the end.


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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 8:24:30 PM   
LadyCimarron


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Status: offline 		Whether vanilla or lifestyle compatiability is always difficult to find. You are 38 years old, you know that. And if you are a submissive male, you ain't seen nothing yet.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 8:48:17 PM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

To the OP - yes, it is, though I second others advice that an empty profile won't help in the search. The right domme will not even know if she is compatible at this point.

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
As the commercials state... there are different levels of compatibility. It becomes harder when we insist all of them are met. It also becomes more painful when we compromise too much.




I would gladly put in twelve-hour days at whatever operation you're running that results in the 100% compatible partner at the end.




You referred to the wrong quote, so i fixed it for you. Isnt it eharmony that professes 20 something levels of compatibility? i dunno, i just go with my gut instinct.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: searching - 6/14/2010 10:24:48 PM   
WestBaySlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

You referred to the wrong quote, so i fixed it for you. Isnt it eharmony that professes 20 something levels of compatibility? i dunno, i just go with my gut instinct.


No, I was definitely referring to your second quote, and wishing that finding a compatible partner was just amount of effort put into it.

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 12:04:30 AM   
Nineveh


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Status: offline 		yes, sucks doesn't it?

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 4:27:43 AM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
You referred to the wrong quote, so i fixed it for you. Isnt it eharmony that professes 20 something levels of compatibility? i dunno, i just go with my gut instinct.


eHarmony's compatibility questionnaire tries to determine where a potential match rates on no fewer than 29 different personality traits, including kindness, intellect, curiosity, humor, energy level, and sexual passion.

Sounds about right to me.

Bottom line, there are those who settle and those who don't.

- LA

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 5:22:47 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		basically - yes - sorry about that - hang in there.

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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 5:53:32 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		and sometimes, the compatibility isnt even there, depending on how honest the other person is.

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 7:34:30 AM   
Musicmystery


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quote:

your profile is absolutely blank


Bingo.

I get hellos and friend requests from people I haven't seen anywhere, and when I click on their profiles, there's nothing there to see.

I might really like them, but I've nothing to go on.

And I've LONG ago stopped getting into conversations like this:

"Your profile, though, is blank. Fill me in about yourself a bit please?"
"What do you want to know?"

OK--how close is the nearest utility pole, who was your favorite muppet, and what do you think Ed Sullivan would think of the Daily Show?

People don't like to push rope--you have to hold your end.

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 7:36:38 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		He would think it is a really really big show.

Other than that, I'm drawing a blank at the moment.

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 6/15/2010 7:37:01 AM >

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RE: searching - 6/15/2010 8:07:34 AM   
Musicmystery


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Yes, and that swinging arms/hand thing he did..."Got a really big show for you tonight..."

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