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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/16/2010 7:53:17 PM   
ThatDaveGuy69


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This place is chock full o' fakes! And the sad part is, no one is even trying to do anything about it.



Feel free to use the autoreport system that was set up specifically to deal with this issue.  The autosystem works when people choose to use it; the sad part is, some people choose not to.




You mods are just SO cute!
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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/16/2010 11:58:32 PM   
Elisabella


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Is there some other things I should be considering to weed out fakes?


You could consider using a real picture of yourself on your profile.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/17/2010 3:43:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		hi. i see by your picture you are in secondlife. join the bdsm forum they ahve some great discussions and most there are genuine and a place to meet others. as to weeding outt he fakes it jsu takes time and experience you will soon get the feel of it here. i met my master in sl and now are living with him. (seek out Persia linette if you wan tto chat in world

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/17/2010 4:31:25 PM   
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Is there some other things I should be considering to weed out fakes?


You could consider using a real picture of yourself on your profile.


I was going to say the same thing as Elisabella...sometimes I consider those who who use computer generated or made up photos as "fake" in a way..it is better not to have one at all......If someone doesn't want to show themself I prefer they say in their profile that and/or say they will send photos after further correspondence warrants it....

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/17/2010 4:35:43 PM   
Elisabella


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I was going to say the same thing as Elisabella...sometimes I consider those who who use computer generated or made up photos as "fake" in a way..it is better not to have one at all......If someone doesn't want to show themself I prefer they say in their profile that and/or say they will send photos after futher correspondence warrants it....


Exactly. It's one thing to put like, a cat picture or a sunset or something else as a placeholder, but if you're a 57 year old woman whose online representation shows a half naked 20 year old cartoon chick with giant breasts, you're probably going to meet more guys who are into fantasizing about 20 year old cartoon chicks than guys who are looking to settle down with a 57 year old woman in meatspace.

If cyber romance is your thing OP, by all means do it and be happy with it, but you might want to stop calling other people "fakes" because they want something different.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/17/2010 5:02:34 PM   
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Exactly. It's one thing to put like, a cat picture or a sunset or something else as a placeholder, but if you're a 57 year old woman whose online representation shows a half naked 20 year old cartoon chick with giant breasts, you're probably going to meet more guys who are into fantasizing about 20 year old cartoon chicks than guys who are looking to settle down with a 57 year old woman in meatspace.
Well, even worse than a generic "cartoon chick". It's a SecondLife photo. I would agree that mixing virtual reality environments into an environment like Collarme isn't the best strategy.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/17/2010 5:45:10 PM   
Elisabella


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Well, even worse than a generic "cartoon chick". It's a SecondLife photo. I would agree that mixing virtual reality environments into an environment like Collarme isn't the best strategy.


Totally. I guess it would be one thing if the avatar was supposed to realistically represent yourself, but if the avatar is 20 years old and 100 lb and the real person is 57 years old and 100 kilo, it might not be that the guys are "fakes" but rather that they were attracted to an online image that didn't match real life.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/18/2010 3:44:38 PM   
housesub4you


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Status: offline 		Well here is part of someones profile information, do you think they are a fake??

Do not waste My time! You will be required to tribute via paypal or Amazon immediately, no if, ands, or buts unless you want to be IGNORED! And you will be expected to give weekly tributes from here on out. And if you don't carry out the other assignments/commands I give...you will be severely punished or dismissed.
But if you are a good little boy, you will be rewarded. You should have no limits for Me unless they are illegal or totally digusting which I understand. And you should be loyal, I know some of you are sluts, but come on! You live for Me now and will serve as My online pet.

So one persons BS is another persons fetish????  No, I think the person who posted this is noting short of a fake.  But she is here and if you choose to send her money, more power to her.  What's the old saying  A fool and their money are soon parted


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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/18/2010 7:05:55 PM   
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Well here is part of someones profile information, do you think they are a fake??

Do not waste My time! You will be required to tribute via paypal or Amazon immediately, no if, ands, or buts unless you want to be IGNORED! And you will be expected to give weekly tributes from here on out. And if you don't carry out the other assignments/commands I give...you will be severely punished or dismissed.
But if you are a good little boy, you will be rewarded. You should have no limits for Me unless they are illegal or totally digusting which I understand. And you should be loyal, I know some of you are sluts, but come on! You live for Me now and will serve as My online pet.

So one persons BS is another persons fetish????  No, I think the person who posted this is noting short of a fake.  But she is here and if you choose to send her money, more power to her.  What's the old saying  A fool and their money are soon parted

Some people are into financial domination and would find that tone and attitude attractive.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/18/2010 7:14:02 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		What's fake about it?  It is clear to me this is a pro for hire.  I don't even see any trickery about it, it is very up front with the terms of agreement.   Just because you want it free does not mean other people will only settle for free. 

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/19/2010 5:27:37 AM   
lilredsubmarine


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Status: offline 		Read this. i've found it to be very informative, educational, and useful, and on more than one level.

Best of luck to you.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/19/2010 8:28:04 AM   
housesub4you


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Status: offline 		Ok Let's say that is true.  In my over 15 years in the lifestyle I have yet to meet or know anyone who are into it.  But for arguments sake, OK

I was sent an email with the information in the post, which happened to also be on their profile.  So what are the chances that a REAL Domme is sending out mass emails demanding that you pay her before she will talk with you.

I have nothing against Pro Dommes, hell I started out in the lifestyle with their services until I met lifestyle Dommes to serve,

For me, I find most of the people I know in the lifestyle and meet in public here on the boards or on other boards, I have yet to meet one of these people demanding money first, on the boards, Have you?

In my opinion, if you ask for money before anything else, you're a fake,  Nowhere in her profile does it state she is a Pro Domme, as most Pro Domme will list such information and ask you to contact them for more information

But to each their own


Of course she could not be a fake, because the profile is no longer active


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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/19/2010 8:48:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Offff course I'd ffffall to my knees and blow Jeffff, immediately upon meeting him. What nonffffakeish ffffemale wouldn't? I ffffind it impossible to ffffathom the notion that the ffffabulously domalicious anteater could be denied. Please say this isn't so!

Offf course there are ffffakes and trolls and spammers ( oh my). This is CM. You deffffinately are NOT in Kansas anymore. Unless, offff course, you ARE in Kansas.

Pfffft. Gotta eat a lota spam, beffffore you ffffind your prince/ss.



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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/22/2010 10:17:04 AM   
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Yes, you should consider that there is no such thing as a fake. There is only that which appeals to you and that which does not.


You got that right. Amen.

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/24/2010 5:38:34 AM   
GMxxx


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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

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ORIGINAL: ThatDaveGuy69
This place is chock full o' fakes! And the sad part is, no one is even trying to do anything about it.



Feel free to use the autoreport system that was set up specifically to deal with this issue.  The autosystem works when people choose to use it; the sad part is, some people choose not to.




Oh no it doesn't !

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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/24/2010 5:46:55 AM   
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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/24/2010 5:51:12 AM   
DarkSteven


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Yes, you should consider that there is no such thing as a fake. There is only that which appeals to you and that which does not.


You got that right. Amen.


I disagree.  There are profiles purporting to be of incredibly beautiful young women that confuse D/s with kinky sex and are deseperate to find their next Master, that are really guys in Nigeria...


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RE: weeding out the fakes - 6/24/2010 6:13:45 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		I agree with DarkSteven. There are fakes and scammers. It's up to you (individually) to weed them out.

There are a few good ones, but most are pretty obvious, and even the good ones are fairly easily outed.

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