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dangrousbuty -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 6:46:34 PM)

Well in a BDSM context...
1. I will never try the new bullwhip out as He is walking across room and wrap it around his head and knock his eyeglass lense out[&o]
2. I will never take my collar off at a Biker Gangs house when I was mad at Him and took off for days and lose it.
3. I will never cheat on Him again...
mind you these things were in the very beginning of our relationship and I was very immature and testy not to mention disrespectful. That was 3 years ago..so I feel He forgives me now.[&o]



kiwisub12 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 6:54:54 PM)

I am never going to have a dom who is 11 years older than me again - i never  want another dom who is mine to die!
I will never .......  heck, i don't know - i will love again, i will do things that are silly, i will make mistakes, i will take chances, i will live my life to the full.

and  yes, i don't want to have to look at bent warty penisesssss.[:'(][:@]



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 6:58:28 PM)

I never again want to watch the news and see live footage of my home aired on primetime because someone called the press to tell them about the kinky event that takes place there every year.

I never again want to see a map to my home (and story of the kinky event taking place there) printed on the front page of the newspaper on the one day the paper decided to give away FREE papers to everyone!

I never again want to testify in court on behalf of our BDSM group, in an attempt to defend our rights - but I would still do it again, if I felt it necessary.









Glasgow -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 8:06:33 PM)

Hmmm.

I'm not really sure that I've experienced anything that I would never want to experience again. Things that used to terrify me - like people - now don't bother me at all. A few years ago I would have killed to get out of public school, and now I master people like my dog masters road kill.*

The only one I can really think of is that scene during Return of the King where that huge-ass spider comes out and ties up Frodo. Watched it once, and I will never watch it again. I'm a terrible arachnophobe. I had nightmares about that stupid scene.


*I'm sure this metaphor makes sense. Just don't think about it too hard.



Arpig -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 8:19:31 PM)

My three...
1) Go to jail...it just plain sucks.
2) Go off my meds...it is scary as hell
3) Fall in love...just hurts to much when they walk away.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 9:37:43 PM)

FR-

I never again want to hear my 16 year old son tell me he got his girlfriend pregnant.



Hawkwindblues -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 10:45:33 PM)

As i went to my first public playing sm event i noticed, that when i hear somebody making sounds of discomfort i only think and feel to the point of nausea that somebody is tortured against their will. I tried it 4 more times to be sure and to find out if i can develop some kind of tolerance, but till now no.

Maybe the reason is, that i was never much of a voyeur or an exhibitionist, the way some people are dressed or undressed are sometimes also not to my like liking, but it brings not the same horrible reaction.

The solution is, that i got with M and friends and as soon as things heat up, i leave. Believe me, i heard all possible jokes about it.

I have the same with movies, if i watch a movie, which has very brutal scenes in it, since i can renember i mute it, because the sound makes it to hard to cope.

I can not really say i do not wish again to visit a party, but i am a bit at a loss, how to and if it is really necessary or important for me.



SocratesNot -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/16/2010 11:11:07 PM)

I find this thread one of the most interesting ones lastly.

I never again want to be in a relationship in which I am valued only for my services and not for who I am.



Missykink -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 12:49:26 AM)

I never want to give anyone strap on play again who hasn't been curteous enough to have a good clean out 1st [:'(] bad bad manners

I never want to find myself at a bdsm club again where the demo rope man decides he likes my rope bunny and ignors me and spends the time flirting and messing with my rope bunny while he is meant to be showing me how to do it.  And then have every dodgy bloke in there threaten to tie me down and teach me how much I want to be submissive !!

I never want to take my boy for granted and take advantage of his service by making him run round after me even when we aren't playing.



porcelaine -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 3:24:19 AM)

I never want to...

Hold on to things that are better off released.
Try and convince someone to remain that's already gone.
Justify the hurt I've received.
Deny what I know to be true.

~porcelaine





DomImus -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 7:35:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

I find this thread one of the most interesting ones lastly.

I never again want to be in a relationship in which I am valued only for my services and not for who I am.



I read an interesting quote last night that said words to the effect of "Our true value is measured against that which we are being compared to".



cassandria -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 8:23:17 AM)

I never again want to...

-be desired primarily for the colour of my skin, for what I give sexually, rather than primarily for who I am, within the confines of a committed relationship

-relive some very confused teen years

-be in this vulnerable place in life, searching for my partner in life (Master) knowing he's there somewhere but having to live without him.

Do we have to only choose just three? As i'm thinking on this, there's a lot more...and I really like what porcelaine said...hers all apply for me too...very well thought out.



Missokyst -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 8:34:57 AM)

THIS is the story I want to hear anytime people mention being outted, or the legalities of bdsm, or when people are crowing in superiority about the necessity of being open on being their authentic self.

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I never again want to watch the news and see live footage of my home aired on primetime because someone called the press to tell them about the kinky event that takes place there every year.

I never again want to see a map to my home (and story of the kinky event taking place there) printed on the front page of the newspaper on the one day the paper decided to give away FREE papers to everyone!

I never again want to testify in court on behalf of our BDSM group, in an attempt to defend our rights - but I would still do it again, if I felt it necessary.











Gleegal67 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 9:24:59 AM)

3 things I never wish to happen again...

1. Never allow myself to be used emotionally or financially again because they like to blackmail with suicide threats.
Being used physically...well that's just plain fun! ;)

2. Never to see or experience a needle.
Unless it's really necessary...like saving my life or a another life!

3. Darn....I can't come up with a 3rd...everything else I'm pretty darn groovy with...in life or in the bdsm world!

Since I haven't seen the warty scary cock shot...I can't add that to my list...but my imagination has it pretty darn awful!!!  ewwwwww



VirginPotty -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 10:18:58 AM)


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E - stim. Same as above. 


Sorry, stupid question but what the heck is that? Electrical stimulation is the only thing I can think of[8|]

I never want to receive a reprimand in the form of a gold bordered email.
I never want to lose him as a friend even if the D/s relationship goes South.
I never want to have another cropping on my back.........ouch!



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 12:39:49 PM)

There are a couple of things i would never do again.

1)  i'd never allow a novice to attempt fire play on me for the first time.  i have hairy legs, and it was not a good experience.

2)  i'd never play with someone who was under the influence of drugs or alcohol again.  In particular, i'd never allow myself to be tied up by someone who was under the influence.  It was bad judgment on both of our part, but i got the worst of it.  Let's just say that bondage, drugs, and sharp objects don't go together.  And the embarrassment of having to explain what happened to the doctors and nurses at the hospital is even even worse. 



AlexandraLynch -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 4:28:19 PM)

Try to make a relationship with conditional love work.  Matthew 7:9.
Pretend I'm someone I'm not
Bear a child.  Given that pregnancy makes me insane, no one who loves me wants me to do that either. (grin)




nick24601 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 6:33:32 PM)

been lurking this forum on and off for a while and this thread is both hilarious and has helped me out a bit with where I'm at right now.  So I feel I have to contribute,

1.  Low pull around 1800ft skydiving because setting my emergency alarm to 3000 before ever hearing it was a horrible choice.
2.  give financial control over to someone who doesn't comprehend math
3.  get the name of someone else tattooed on my body



xXsoumisXx -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 7:07:22 PM)

hmmm when tied for the first time, at the first meeting with first "Dom"... don't alllow alll your e-mail passwords to be coerced from you!!
Omg, that ass**** deleted whole folders, sent mean e-mails to other males in my address book, was just an all around jerk!



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/17/2010 7:21:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xXsoumisXx

don't alllow alll your e-mail passwords to be coerced from you!!



Sharing passwords and PIN numbers is a hard limit for me.  i don't trust anybody THAT much.  [;)]



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