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playfulotter -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/29/2010 10:33:58 PM)

Any type of threesome..but all I have done is with two males (twice)..but it was way in the past....everything else I think I would do again...



Ligeia72 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/29/2010 10:41:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: playfulotter

Any type of threesome..but all I have done is with two males (twice)..but it was way in the past....everything else I think I would do again...


Ditto. Although I haven't ruled out the possibility entirely this is something I would be reluctant to repeat due to a negative experience. Whilst it was fun at the time, the emotional fallout afterwards on the part of one of the participants ended up costing me a close friendship, and her a relationship. I'd definitely be concerned about something like that happening again, even with just casual play partners. Especially considering at the time we had all taken pains to openly communicate what each of us expected from the experience, and what our limits/boundaries/thoughts, etc were on what was going to happen. It seemed evident beforehand that we were all on the same page, and then things went pear shaped after the fact.



monochromaniac -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (6/30/2010 1:24:59 PM)

Things I never want to do again:
-Rape play. Tried it so many times with different people and every time ended up having a panic attack, I'm pretty sure it's not gonna work out at all >.<
-Agree to be tied up while my family are in the house. Awwkward.
-Be naive and let people take advantage of me because I didn't learn enough about BDSM before agreeing to meet up with a dom irl



BoundDragon -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/24/2010 11:57:54 AM)

I can agree with the majority on a whipped kitty but I reall do enjoy the crop being used on it.... its just the right amount of pain (and keeps me focused)

Anyway... my three

1- I will never think it is possible to deny who I am and stiffle my instincts
2 - I will never test my Sirs patience again or give him smart arsed disrespectful comments
3 - I will always remember not to try and sit up at the same time my Sir is trying to pin me down.... The subsequent headaches take ages to fade  [sm=Groaner.gif]



Zevar -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/24/2010 1:14:01 PM)

MyABC’s of

I never want to:
A. Deny my intense nature for anyone regardless how abusive they verbally become toward myself.
B. Apologize for being naturally dominant yet a gentleman master in all my ways.
C. Miss an opportunity that finds it way onto my path bringing good along with it.
D. Condone discriminatory words to be spoken toward myself or another without having at the least spoken my mind fully, nothing with-held!
E. Become unaware of consciously embracing each moment where joy and laughter dwell.
F. Forget cherishing every moment I intensely shared with my late beloved companion.
G. Deny myself the beauty of Living fully each and every day.
H. Forsake my love as a father toward our (late beloved companion & I) grown daughter.
I. Forget to dance when I am afforded the opportunity to dance.
J. Refuse my love to those whomever I vow a bond of genuine trust with.
K. Forget the less fortunate that I see daily on the streets as I journey about.
L. Be unavailable for a family member OR friend in need.
M. Deny myself the opportunity to follow my spiritual path in dignity and integrity.
N. Forget to live what I speak in a congruent manner.
O. Avoid change when it knocks on my door.
P. Express actions that hurt another without remembering the lesson learned to avoid repeating the same.
Q. Forget to enjoy the power, tranqulity and beauty of the Ocean waters.
R. Miss the beauty that surrounds everywhere.
S. Forget to remember that my weaknesses are only opportunities to become my transformed strengths.
T. Forget to smile even in the face of adversity.
U. Deny myself the opportunity to practice self -examination.
V. Forget that resilience is one of my strengths.
W. Deny what is true within even though there is a level of resistance to the truth.
X. Forget that the to ere is human.
Y. Lose sight of my need for balance in all that I set forth to accomplish.
Z. Forget that my willingness to express compassion when needed will return full circle.



porcelaine -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/24/2010 2:53:05 PM)

I don't ever want to hold on to a situation that is well past its expiration date.

I never want to chase after something that won't meet me half way. If I have to do all of the work it isn't worth the effort.

I'll never allow fear or indifference to hasten my steps or deny an opportunity when it presents itself. Sometimes the unexpected is precisely what you've been looking for all along.

~porcelaine



Chrisincuffs -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/25/2010 1:23:26 AM)

I will never do a Brazilian wax on myself (thats best left to the pros)
I will never get shitbombed the last night on vacation and get on a plane the next morning with the worst hangover of your life
I will never have an arsenal of different sex toys in my carry on bag and forget I had a bottle of hairspray in a side pocket



DragonNphoenix -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/25/2010 3:24:07 AM)

So, I thought I this figured all out.. then I read all the posts, and thought I may have missed a few things I would NEVER want to repeat again.

But, here is my list.
1) I will NEVER be in ANY type of relationship with a man that calls himself a 'good ole boy' or 'redneck' and is Proud of it!
2) I never want to be addicted to any type of drug again, or spend months getting over said addiction.
3) This last March, I got very sick. I spent 6 days in ICU and had 6 LITERS of fluid taken out of my lungs and around my heart. That said.... I Never want to have a Lung Tap EVER Again in my Life. I would deal with almost anything but that.. that was the worst pain my life, worse than child birth.

phe



sexyred1 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/25/2010 7:34:23 PM)

Wow, there are more than a few:

- Never allow someone to treat me disrespectfully
- Never stay in a relationship that is not meeting ALL my needs
- Never justify either of the above
- Never get choked
- Never go through the health scare I went through last year
- Never let someone make me feel badly about myself



porcelaine -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/26/2010 12:29:44 AM)

I will never question my beauty again. I could slap my face for my stupidity.
I will never question why someone isn't interested. If anything I'm wondering what's your problem.
I will never allow anyone to take away my smile, joy, passion, and zest for life and love.
I will never invest in a man that hasn't done the same with me. It's a partnership after all.

I will never forget the power of possibilities. Sometimes endings create the beginning we've been waiting for. (winks at Gorgeous xoxo)

~porcelaine



NuevaVida -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/26/2010 12:11:13 PM)

I never want to think so little of myself again that I don't care who does what to me.

I never want to sacrifice who I am inside, for someone else.

I never want to feel again that love means being shit on - both figuratively and literally.

I never want to forget where I came from and lose appreciation for where I brought myself.

I never want to lose the lesson I learned about compassion (for self).

And yes, possibilities really are endless. :)



ranja -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/26/2010 12:45:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: playfulotter

Any type of threesome..but all I have done is with two males (twice)..but it was way in the past....everything else I think I would do again...


oh especially with two males i would do again... and again... if only i was allowed... fortunately i have a good memory

and i don't want to go without sex again... but who knows... i might tire of it at some point so i am reluctant to say never



Lve -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/26/2010 5:41:04 PM)

I never want to go back to jail.
I never want to see The Dirty Heads again.



sexyred1 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/27/2010 9:20:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

I will never question my beauty again. I could slap my face for my stupidity.
I will never question why someone isn't interested. If anything I'm wondering what's your problem.
I will never allow anyone to take away my smile, joy, passion, and zest for life and love.
I will never invest in a man that hasn't done the same with me. It's a partnership after all.

I will never forget the power of possibilities. Sometimes endings create the beginning we've been waiting for. (winks at Gorgeous xoxo)

~porcelaine



Ditto. [;)]



reynardfox -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/27/2010 4:37:15 PM)

Fist someone in the back of the car.
Tie several girls up after an Indian banquet
Have sex with a woman too drunk to come
allow anyone near my cock with sellotape
set the scene with incense and scented candles for a girl with post nasal drip and asthma
let a girl you have danced with for hours take her shoes off in a confined space
let a girl brush her teeth just before giving you oral sex
ever believe a TV who says it will only be the once AND THEY WON'T TELL.
allow your wife to look through your prospects pics, they look like pol pot planning an execution.
ever believe any woman who says she is cool about other women, unless they have them too.



Violentseternal -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/28/2010 1:32:20 PM)

Not hard limits, but my top three would have to be:
1-Needles, at all for any reason. ever.
2-to be made to drink urine..cant stand it
3-and i would never move back to America!




TwistedHeart74 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (7/28/2010 6:33:19 PM)

I will never again settle.
I will never again allow anyone to belittle and degrade me in such a way that it inflicts damage.
I will never again read a post that says ANYTHING about a warty cock.



Conjurer2c1 -> RE: Things you never wish to do again (8/2/2010 9:37:57 PM)

Yes....I have found a hood placed on a girl..esp a proud girl very effective. Hiding her beauty from her self....making her look at her self in a mirror with the hood on....and tears flowing from her eyes is very effective. With some work she becomes nothing....her self forgotten.....her future forgotten......her self is lost. Very malleable at this point.



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