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macs -> What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 9:32:51 AM)

What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone??

When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single.

"I'd like to give you a spanking"

does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either.



Lockit -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 10:10:51 AM)

Hey, it doesn't always work when you think the other end either. I guess we have to wait until we find one who thinks the same end we think of.



ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 10:22:04 AM)

I think about what it's like to be around her when she's totally quiet. What kind of personal energy she gives off, what kind of vibe surrounds her. I'm tremendously attracted to calm. 



leadership527 -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:22:47 AM)

For me, the first thing that I think about is whatever it was that attracted me. Invariably this will be something about her personality or intellect or thoughts or feelings. I don't start to think of a woman as a sex object until after I've noticed her as a human.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:28:39 AM)

~FR~
i think about, what would it be like to be with Him long-term, since that's what i'm looking for. Usually it's all about personality and would we click that way. Then, after i've decided i like Him as a person & i think we'd click personality-wise, i start to think about all the delicious kinky things we could do together. But only after i've decided i like Him a lot as a person.

~sweetsub~



JhonDean -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:30:35 AM)

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What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone??

When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single.

"I'd like to give you a spanking"

does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either.


I think about getting into her head, about what else is there beyond the turn of her calf, the heft of her breasts what is she really about. The intrigue that sets her apart, but I am talking about a woman, not an elitist with a whip.



PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:32:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
i think about, what would it be like to be with Him long-term, since that's what i'm looking for. Usually it's all about personality and would we click that way. Then, after i've decided i like Him as a person & i think we'd click personality-wise, i start to think about all the delicious kinky things we could do together. But only after i've decided i like Him a lot as a person.

~sweetsub~


dito.

I am now dating a Poly Dom and am going to meet him for 3 weeks in september despite that poly is actually a hard limit...or should I say it was until now...I suppose...[8|]

However, so far conversations with him are marvellous and I give it a chance and time will tell...

someone who thinks about what to do with me just for sex is not welcomed in my life [8|]



BonesFromAsh -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:44:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: macs

What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone??



I think "Why?".....why am I attracted to this person?  Then I wonder about things like which section of the NY Times he would reach for first, does he walk his talk, will he understand the importance of a lazy morning and a good cup of coffee and can he make a real french omelette...the important things.[;)]

*edited to add.....fuckability (as in model-hot) and thoughts of kinky ideas seem to be low on my list of priorities right now.  That could change but this would be my answer for now.



porcelaine -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 11:48:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: macs

What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone??


What I think and what I'll say are two different things. I'll notice his appearance and say he's hot or fuckable. Anything beyond that without input from him would be a little odd. But I'm happy to perv over his anatomy until it occurs.

~porcelaine



IronBear -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 12:01:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: macs

What is the first thing you think about when you are attracted to someone??

When I see a girl who I'm attracted to, the first thing I think about is spanking her. So that maybe why I'm single.

"I'd like to give you a spanking"

does not seem to work has an opening chat up line either.


First thought is: "Where is my pipe?" I can fiddle enough lighting it and watch her through the smoke screen and none will take any notice especially if it be my old pipe which also sounds like a rotary bilge pump in full cry....



SamanthaQ -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 2:49:47 PM)

I find myself first thinking about whether or not the person is going anywhere with his life. I'm young (23) and many of the guys I meet are aimless and seem to want nothing more than to drink and party. Unfortunately many of these guys are also the best looking. I like nice looking guys when it comes to dating, so sue me. Now, if I am looking at the gentleman from a kink perspective than I think about whether or not he would be fun to control and dominate. Would he passively roll over or would he rebel and try to escape? Assuming I already know he is kinky then I think about just how much experience he has. Guys without experience may not realize just how intense their fantasies can become when they are made real.



DomImus -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 3:13:41 PM)

I don't have a standard first thing. It always varied from one woman to the next.



caelestis -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 3:20:20 PM)

I'll be honest, I'll notice a guy's looks first. Hot guys are hot, and I'm usually physically attracted to more devious looking men. Its just how I am.

Buuut... that being said, I don't let that effect how I talk to a person, I don't "swoon" over looks. Its just a bonus. After that though I want to find out how intelligent they are, then if they have a decent sense of humor, then if they're kinky.



Glasgow -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 3:33:36 PM)

I think about how much money they probably make [8|]



JstAnotherSub -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 5:30:13 PM)

I think, dammit I would love to see his face when he cums.



DarkSteven -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 5:33:30 PM)

I don't know how to phrase this, but I like a woman who is happy, and confident in herself.  Who carries herself cheerfully. If she's flirtatious, so much the better.



xXsoumisXx -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 6:22:14 PM)

If i feel an attraction.. and there is nothing consistant in the types, just a chemistry..
i notice their hands.. and imagine all kinds of things those hands might do to me..;)



itsmeinLV -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 6:29:36 PM)

I think about how attracted I am to this person.  :P



DisenchantedLife -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/17/2010 9:50:14 PM)

I think about my Grandmother and I wonder if I mention I'm dating some one new is she going to get freaky on me again.  Will she be asking how big his penis is and then go on for lengths about her deceased husbands saggy parts?  Than my mind will probably wander to if she's getting laid by her current boyfriend.  It'll continue wandering HOW saggy are parts after 80?

Seriously, I only think that randomly - not every time i see a guy that I am attracted to.  I have no clue as to the answer for this post.  I never just think one thing.  It depends on the guy, the situation, and blah blah blah.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: What is the first thing you think about..... (6/18/2010 2:47:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

I think, dammit I would love to see his face when he cums.
This, but with her and she instead of his and he.

Does that make me shallow?

NB: that's not the *only* thing I think, just the first...



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