lilredsubmarine
Posts: 62
Joined: 6/17/2010
From: QLD, Australia
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okey dokey, so i've been silently reading these forums for just over a month now and i figured it's about time i started contributing my 5-cents-worth, or at the very least say Hi and introduce myself!! So here goes...
Hi!! 
i'm very very new to all this lovely BDSM stuff, and my primary motivation for being here is to learn from all Y/you charmingly kinky folk  . Unfortunately, certain circumstances prevent me from becoming an active member of my local (real-life) BDSM community, so i hope to find on here the advice, friendship, support, education, and occasional anteater-induced laughs that, as a social critter, i crave.
A quick perusal of my profile will reveal that i am Australian, young (25yo), and Owned. Master is a very valued and trusted friend of mine from whom i kept my secret sub-ness hidden until fairly recently. Oh hell, for years i kept it hidden even from myself  . i was engaged to a vanilla boy until six months ago when we realised that our five-year relationship had run it's course (thank goodness we realised this BEFORE vows were exchanged!!) and we broke it off. i had always known i fancied the idea of a bit of bondage, even a bit of Dominance/submission, but alas my vanilla boy was not a terribly dominant lad and i loved him, so i put those fancies to rest. Vanilla-boy and i broke up, i got used to being "single" again, and through the course of O/our conversations i confessed to Him my secret desire to be Dominated, and bada-bing-bada-boom i am now Collared. 
Bloody hell, Y/you have no idea how friggin lucky i consider myself to a) have realised and accepted my kink so early in life, and b) to have a Master with whom i can embark upon this voyage of discovery. woopwoop!!
Having said that, Master now works interstate, so our face-to-face (skin-to-skin?) contact is limited to once every few months. Thank goodness for mobile phones and the internet!! Still, the long-distance thing is something i struggle with more often than i would like to admit, and i must learn to be more patient than i am (cue all the gen-Y quips....). W/we are not "in love", and O/ours is not destined to be a forever-relationship, but i do love Him and care for Him immensely, and i am thoroughly enjoying the fun along the way  .
Soooooo, in summary, i sincerely hope to get to know Y/you all a lot better, and i really look forward to learning everything Y/you have to teach. Hell, i've learnt so much already just by keeping my ears (eyes?) open and my mouth (fingers?) shut that i feel i already owe Y/you all a big fat THANKYOU!! (yes, and thankyou Dad for that old "ears open mouth shut" philosophy  . Bugger it if i'm not turning into my parents more and more each day..... lol  )
And apologies to IronBear, i guess You are no longer the only Queenslandeeerrrrrrrrrrr around here
Much love to Y/you all!!
-lilred.
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so i guess it's about time i started to participate... - 
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sorry!! um, put another shrimp on the barbie??? 
oh shit... 
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