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Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 6:58:48 AM

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Do most Mistresses prefer to use chastity to train and control Their submissive partner(s)? If so, to what extent (i.e., how often and for how long) is this typically used, and what are the positives and negatives that are typically experienced?

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 6:59:39 AM

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"Chastise" means "punish".

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 7:07:02 AM

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Actually it means to tell someone off. In any case it's not the word you are looking for, OP *shoves a cookie in Stevie's mouth and chastises him*

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 7:36:53 AM

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according to dictionary.com all of you are right.

chas·tise–verb (used with object), -tised, -tis·ing.

1. to discipline, esp. by corporal punishment. 2. to criticize severely. 3. Archaic . to restrain; chasten. 4. Archaic . to refine; purify.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 8:05:04 AM

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Lol, thanks, LC:
love that chastise also means 'restrain'

Yes, chastity concentrates a man's mind and Service wonderfully, and both positive reinforcement and chastisement are easily both sides of the same CBT device.

I think everyone should lock'n'load their man in a chastity device for a couple of days, then tie him to your bed, and do THINGS to him while he's still in lockdown, and here's the kicker: have your solo orgasm, untie him but leave him in the device for a couple of more days. he won't forget to pick up your dry-cleaning again, and after you give him another task, pat his packed package and twirl that little key snuggled between your breasts.

Conversely, when he's been good, it makes his orgasm more, yes, explosive, if it's physically impossible for him to have his usual thoughtless morning shower wank for a week or so. And also very, very grateful, so again, ensure he gives you your orgasms, then release him, in both senses.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 8:16:55 AM

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Some do, some don't

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 9:29:44 AM

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I have no use for chastity enforced by a device. As long as I can use that unit when I want to, I could care less if he enjoys it other times.

BECAUSE WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:11:06 AM

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If I have to lock up his cock to get him to behave, why not just chop it off? I mean it must be very painful to have a cock leading a life and behavior.

It would be for me anyway. I don't want a man led by his cock and if chastity is needed to control him (a cock), all I am getting is a cock and there is no control because it determines what I must do. Who's in charge? Me or the cock?

Will I play with a chastity device? You bet! Will I use it for punishment? Basically, no. Good behavior shouldn't involve a cock. It is a mind and heart that should prompt good adult behavior. Chastity for me is playtime. I will correct certain things in other ways.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:36:07 AM

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And again I come back to the whole ED issue. If you can't get it up---and an alarming number of men cannot---then who needs some expensive bit of plastic?

Because those men who can't get it up? Still pursue us domly types.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:42:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

If I have to lock up his cock to get him to behave, why not just chop it off?

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Thanks, Lockit! You're always so helpful!

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:43:25 AM

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But now the castration guy will find her and start writing!!

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:47:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Who's in charge? Me or the cock?

Interesting question. Arguably, it's rather like the legislative and the executive branches of a democratic government. The cock led the man to you in the first place (just as the legislature creates the laws), but then cedes execution of those laws to you, the femdom.

Yep, I'm still marking politics exam scripts.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:52:23 AM

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You poor thing. Some coffee, perhaps?

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 11:59:59 AM

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Tea, Earl Grey, hot. Make it so, Mr Worf!

Nah.

Gimme a goddamn caw-fee!

< Message edited by PeonForHer -- 6/19/2010 12:01:57 PM >

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 12:05:47 PM

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Coming right up!

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 2:20:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming
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And the Best Usage of Smileys Award goes to...the lovely DD!

OP: a very wise anteater once said something to the effect that people in general do not have enough orgasms, and that he considers it counterproductive to restrict them further.

On this (and ONLY this) I'm with the Floofypootle school of thought.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 2:38:41 PM

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I'm not currently in the chastity camp. I agree with Lockit on the premise. While a device can be fun, I don't really need it. The last male that I had to deal with that couldn't leave his hands off of his own penis was the one I raised to adulthood, and I can assure you that every woman on this board who is a parent knows around what age they go through that phase.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 2:53:53 PM

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We currently have no use for Our slave's cock. We're het, the slave is gay... there's no sex. It's not about that for Us.

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RE: Do Mistresses Prefer to Chastise Their Slave(s)\? - 6/19/2010 3:13:39 PM

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