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Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 2:11:54 PM   
sunnybeachguy


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Status: offline 		How unfortunate .. I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often.  What can I do to help?. More tongue. kissing. licking. nipple play, mood music??.  Better wine?  Slow hand?.  I want to improve my technique.  Please ladies tell me what rings the bells for you.
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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 2:16:08 PM   
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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 2:17:09 PM   
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Besides, his motives are good.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 2:20:51 PM   
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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 2:27:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Yeah... too easy... no sport here.

Besides, his motives are good.




You know, sometimes you just have to put the keyboard down and walk away.... this is one of those times.... even though I am usually of the opinion that if someone opens every door in their house, they are justa askin' me to walk in

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 3:00:32 PM   
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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 3:30:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		uuumm...why not ask her what turns her on and makes her cum????

Seems like the first place to start imo.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 3:39:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do agree with that approach.  Communication is the key, of course.  I am thinking a lot ladies in my age group still enjoy sex just fine and a orgasm isn`t alway necessary to me pleased.. I am doing more research on this subject in other web sites.  Life is good.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 3:49:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Okay, I'm going to play nicely here.

First, you're not going to get much help in what you ask for because we're too used to unknown posters posing questions like this in hopes of getting what is called "wank fodder".  In other words, they are only seeking something to titillate their libido... not really wanting help with a problem.

However, I'm going to assume you are seriously seeking answers to your question so I'll direct you a post I made several years ago under my old screenname. 

What men wish women would tell them.. and WHEN to tell them...

It is not a direct answer to your question, but may give you a place to start.  Aside from that, I'd suggest seeking out help by picking up some books on improving your technique.

Second, please be aware that there's a bit of a backhanded insult in your question that may offend some women in your age group.  Please do not generalize.  Not everyone is the same.

Best of luck.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 3:50:43 PM   
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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 4:00:21 PM   
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This is not meant as an insult but it could be that when the women were younger, they tended to fake it more and now that they are older, they don't bother with that.

So, yeah... ask them.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 4:09:01 PM   
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It is not a direct answer to your question, but may give you a place to start.  Aside from that, I'd suggest seeking out help by picking up some books on improving your technique.


I'm sorry, I tried not to go here, I can't help myself

http://tv.popcrunch.com/snl-grady-wilsons-fifty-and-freaky-kenan-thompson-video/

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 4:12:07 PM   
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I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often.


Who told you that?  Being multiorgasmic is not only for the young.  However, having a fun partner is a definite plus. 

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 4:22:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really do appreciate the honest and sincere input here. Thanks.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 4:50:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunnybeachguy

I really do appreciate the honest and sincere input here. Thanks.


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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 5:13:45 PM   
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Seriously, this should be obvious, but notice what gets her hot.  Pinch her nipples, spank her rump, slap her pussy, talk dirty to her, tongue her, pull her hair, finger her, make her suck you.  Whatever gets her going, intensify.  If none of that gets her hot, then you just don't turn her on.


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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 5:17:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		You can start by not generalizing.

Then, go ask your sub what arouses her..and do it.


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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 5:39:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunnybeachguy

How unfortunate .. I am finding out that subs in my age group just don`t cum all that often.  What can I do to help?. More tongue. kissing. licking. nipple play, mood music??.  Better wine?  Slow hand?.  I want to improve my technique.  Please ladies tell me what rings the bells for you.



Discover the fountain of youth? If you are dating women in their 50's, menopause can have a physiological impact on sexuality. You cannot fix that with better wine. It's not about you, her body has changed. Don't focus on orgasm. Women can enjoy sex immensely without it.

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 5:44:35 PM   
sunnybeachguy


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Status: offline 		I truly appreciate your reply Laurell.. You are a wise women.  I am sure you don`t need me to tell you that. Smiles to you. Vince

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RE: Older subs don`t Cum.. - 6/21/2010 6:06:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

It is not a direct answer to your question, but may give you a place to start.  Aside from that, I'd suggest seeking out help by picking up some books on improving your technique.


I'm sorry, I tried not to go here, I can't help myself

http://tv.popcrunch.com/snl-grady-wilsons-fifty-and-freaky-kenan-thompson-video/


 


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