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ORIGINAL: lucky2beyours91

Anyways, this argument is stupid and has nothing to do with the question i asked :/
Really, it's your opinion if you think it's ok or not but i am the one in the relationship and find it fine so i guess it is.

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He's had many submissives ....i am the youngest He has had. He does not accept many.

This statement contradicts itself.

i had to prove i was worthy, i had to do some stuff in order for Him to accept me as His submissive. i did it better than most 40 year olds He said that have wanted Him. 
The fact is i have the potential and i showed it that i did to become the goddness submissive He desires... if i am able to do so and have showed i am...why does my age matter? if i am ready? if W/we have a connection? If i truly feel my true feelings coming out when around Him.

Why would you want to have a connection with some dirty old man?  Honey, I just don't know what to tell you, seems to me you are hellbent on being with this guy no matter how bad it hurts.  He's had so many submissives, well where are they now?  What happened to them?  How do you know how old they were?  

His wife and Him are swingers, i know Her already have met her..He makes sure no one goes over His wife..and i respect Him a lot for that, for the respect He has for Her.
Not to mention she trains her own boys since she is a Domme. 

If she is a Domme, then why is she his slave?  This isn't consistent with your previous statements, but oh well, you're correct, I was unclear on this aspect of the situation. 

But, i really shouldn't be discussing this further,. it seems wrong to.
Just you don't really know the situation so it's kind of hard to judge you are making a lot of assumptions that really aren't true.

The fact that you're 19 and he's old enough to be your grandfather is not an assumption.   

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So i couldn't just get use to this? i think maybe i can is the thing? if i stop being so sensitive? Because He does give me a lot of attention and what i keep telling myself is that i don't need to be first..i am with Him for the experience because i am in college ....i am having the time of my life...having a D/s relationship at this age with someone so experienced is just icing on the cake. i have all my life to find that one person who will give me everything. But at my age, i can't and don't want to find that one person yet..i just want to learn and gain experience only.

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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

I thought his wife was his slave.  

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ORIGINAL: RCdc

You don't have to justify nor explain your relationship in detail lucky - just ignore people that make up their own scenarios and second guess other people and concentrate on the postive posts you have had.

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So i couldn't just get use to this? i think maybe i can is the thing? if i stop being so sensitive? Because He does give me a lot of attention and what i keep telling myself is that i don't need to be first..i am with Him for the experience because i am in college ....i am having the time of my life...having a D/s relationship at this age with someone so experienced is just icing on the cake. i have all my life to find that one person who will give me everything. But at my age, i can't and don't want to find that one person yet..i just want to learn and gain experience only.

Only you can answer that lucky.  If you are happy to try then I'd say go for it.  He sounds reasonable enough and hasn't misled you from what you have posted.  You seem to be viewing it as a learning curve anyway - I don't see you actions as naive or anything.  You seem pretty grounded - still going through college and not giving anything up and are doing this because it's fun.

It's good to be aware that not everyone is poly or has experience of it.  I would suggest that the people who have given good solid advice like DameCalla would be good to focus on.

Best wishes.

the.dark.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

WE don't NEED to know.

We have opinions silly girl!

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ORIGINAL: lucky2beyours91

-Just because He has had many throughout His lifetime doesn't mean He doesn't accept a lot..sorry He's older and has had a lot of experience? How the hell is that contradicting myself?

-His wife is not His slave...He has His wife, His slave, than me

do you see how you are pulling at strings here and you don't understand the situation? This is getting annoying:/ .

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ORIGINAL: lucky2beyours91

-Just because He has had many throughout His lifetime doesn't mean He doesn't accept a lot..sorry He's older and has had a lot of experience? How the hell is that contradicting myself?

-His wife is not His slave...He has His wife, His slave, than me

do you see how you are pulling at strings here and you don't understand the situation? This is getting annoying:/ .

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: lucky2beyours91

-Just because He has had many throughout His lifetime doesn't mean He doesn't accept a lot..sorry He's older and has had a lot of experience? How the hell is that contradicting myself?

-His wife is not His slave...He has His wife, His slave, than me

do you see how you are pulling at strings here and you don't understand the situation? This is getting annoying:/ .

Sometimes people are so intent on proving themselves to be right that they are unable to see the whole picture and therefore their reading comprehension goes to hell.

Btw: if you are becoming frustrated with a particular poster there is an easy fix. Beneath their photo/avatar on the left side there is a button that says Hide. Once you click on that you can't see them until someone quotes them.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I am the only one on the ENTIRE board who like you, and this is how you treat me.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I am the only one on the ENTIRE board who like you, and this is how you treat me.

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I am the only one on the ENTIRE board who like you, and this is how you treat me.

HEY!!! Watch it smart-ass. I happen to like..er...uh......whasshername.