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kiwisub12 -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/24/2010 12:33:54 AM)

Loosing someone - no matter how it happens - is never easy, and may i say - Right back at you!!
In some ways, it's easier to loose someone to death than because a relationship failed. You get more sympathy and people don't expect you to be "right" by the next day. (ok, ,maybe i'm exadurating but not too much).
Either way, its a loss of your future dreams and hopes and that hurts -    so, hugs back at ya! [:D]




WestBaySlave -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/24/2010 10:34:13 PM)

My first thought when I read this post was "When this song no longer feels relevant."

There is no set time table. When you feel ready, you'll know - you'll be looking for something new to add to your life, rather than something replace what you had before.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/24/2010 10:42:50 PM)

If you name your vibrator, paint a face on it, and sit across from it at the table during dinner, it is probably time to venture out.




swt14uca -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 4:43:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

If you name your vibrator, paint a face on it, and sit across from it at the table during dinner, it is probably time to venture out.



OK! you got me to smile and laugh! i will keep that in mind![:)]




swt14uca -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 4:46:16 PM)

Again, thanks to A/all that have taken the time and thoughts to respond. i have received a lot of great advice from A/all of Y/you and will more than likely refer to it often!




SirsJewel -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 5:02:18 PM)

i am so very sorry for your loss. i think i agree with most here,when He isn't the reason you wake,wanting,yearning him,then you can be available to a new Him that comes along. Best of wishes for your happiness,both of you~ jewels




RealSub58 -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 5:06:15 PM)

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When you are comfortable with being alone...and aren't looking for someone to help you take all the pain away.


you know Cynthia, this is excellent advice for LDR as well.
This is excellent for anyone looking..... sometimes there is "pain" in looking for someone.

I have always been comfy in my own skin being alone, but in pain?  It is hard cause you want someone to share the torn and shattered and broken parts.

I think this is when you really know who your friends are.  The seperator between the acquaintance and friend.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 5:23:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: swt14uca


quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

If you name your vibrator, paint a face on it, and sit across from it at the table during dinner, it is probably time to venture out.



OK! you got me to smile and laugh! i will keep that in mind![:)]
 

I think it is a good sign that you can laugh at that, and not take it serious. 

All the best wishes!




bestheadyet -> RE: how do you know. . . . (6/25/2010 5:31:19 PM)

i about fell over laughing.....me and old BOB.....lol he lacked a face but he used to be such a good friend.






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