JstAnotherSub -> RE: Happy Meals under fire (6/23/2010 11:54:04 AM)
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The entitlement mindset is taking over for sure. I have to really reach down deeply to remain professional when I have to explain to a parent that it does not matter that they were free in another state or county, they still have to fill out paperwork for this county, and they will have to repay any charges accrued before they are approved. Picture hands on hips and a smartassed we never payed before and we aint payin you. There are charge limits in place, and once reached, we are supposed to not feed the child breakfast at all, and give them a peanut butter or a cold cheese sandwich with a milk for lunch. I refuse to punish a kid for having a first rate dickhead for a parent, and luckily my principal feels the same way and he always makes sure I have funds to pay off tthe charges, either from more well to do parents, from our partners in education or out of his pocket. I had a 2nd grader come in about 9:30 one morning. I happened to be in the office when his mom came in, in her pajamas, to sign him in. I asked him if he had breakfast yet and he said no. I went to tell him to go to my office and wait and I would get him some cereal and a piece of fruit at least, and his mom, no kidding, started to yell at ME, telling me that he would not eat breakfast because IT WAS HIS JOB TO GET UP AND GET READY FOR SCHOOL AND THEN TO WAKE HER UP TO BRING HIM. A second grader, a mom that I know does not work, and that was ehr outlook. I smiled and walked out, waited til he went to class, then I knocked on the classroom door and asked him to follow me and he went and ate breakfast in my office. Had that mom come to me and bitched about me defying her, I would have told her I was sorry, but I had concerns. I would have then told her I would not do it again, but I would refer the school social worker to check into her home because of my concerns. I would bet the farm she would immediately tell me oh its ok hon, you do what you want to about feeding him. The kids are going to be fucked up for their entire life. I just try to do what I can to show them I care, and I work hard to not go to jail for knocking the hell out of some of the ignorant parents I deal with. Seems the less prepared you are for parenthood, the easier you can spit babies out every year..... Again, I say, from my point of view, it is not Mcdonalds or school lunches causing problems, it is home life.
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