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wednesdayschild -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:13:43 AM)
Okay, clearly I made a mistake in asking total strangers for their opinions about myself and my Master and my current situation, given that you all don't know much of anything about either of us, our personalities, our relationship, or our dynamic. Lesson learned. I'll keep my fucking mouth shut from now on.

LadyPact -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:14:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Plasticine It doesn't sound well. Have you considered that you may not be thinking completely clearly about this? Have you considered that maybe he IS pushing you to do this and acting like he isn't? I'm not trying to make you paranoid at all, I'm just saying. I consider myself really quite adept at things like "life coaching through sadism" and there is absolutely no reason to tear someone down to build them up again. You gradually push them into their fears, you don't debase them. That is the red flag to me. Bull. The red flag to Me would be that the OP discussed a situation, only partially being honest and open about it. She was the one who didn't think it through before agreeing to it. The devil is in the details of the follow up post. One, I might add, doesn't reflect the original. quote: ORIGINAL: wednesdayschild The latest reaction I had -- prior to this original post -- was "Yes, let's do this" ... so he put an up an ad and set up an e-mail account for me. Then I freaked out. And if I had just expressed what I was feeling instead of running to the message boards and spewing all over the place, then this thread would not even exist. -- the previous breakdown in communication had led him to believe that this was something that I really wanted, and had led me to believe that this was something that I had to do in order to prove myself. Now, at what point in this little scenario was the man supposed to be a mind reader? Here he had a girl, who specifically told him the idea turned her on, so he started putting things in motion. No action was taken prior to that. Just talk. Then, once the guy starts setting this up, that is when the OP flips because she comes to the conclusion that her mouth has written checks that her ass can't cash. She comes here to relay the drama and he looks like the bad guy. For emphasis, I'll say it twice. Bull. In the process, she made this guy look like a fool and an abuser. If My boy pulled a stunt like this, I'd be mad as hell.

Plasticine -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:19:05 AM)
I agree with you. But it would be completely possible for him to ALSO be scummy. "His" reasoning she presented for the exercise is flawed, especially when she indicates that this is a relatively new relation.

divi -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:19:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wednesdayschild Okay, clearly I made a mistake in asking total strangers for their opinions about myself and my Master and my current situation, given that you all don't know much of anything about either of us, our personalities, our relationship, or our dynamic. Lesson learned. I'll keep my fucking mouth shut from now on. so much for not stewing

osf -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:25:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wednesdayschild Okay, clearly I made a mistake in asking total strangers for their opinions about myself and my Master and my current situation, given that you all don't know much of anything about either of us, our personalities, our relationship, or our dynamic. Lesson learned. I'll keep my fucking mouth shut from now on. are you calling me totally strange?

PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:27:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wednesdayschild Okay, clearly I made a mistake in asking total strangers for their opinions about myself and my Master and my current situation, given that you all don't know much of anything about either of us, our personalities, our relationship, or our dynamic. Lesson learned. I'll keep my fucking mouth shut from now on. Let's wait and see how long that promise will last [:)] but yes, when you present your relationship how you did, and are "desperate" for advice, then that's what you will get...no point to try to blame us for doing so when it was you who asked in the first place [sm=Groaner.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:37:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Plasticine I agree with you. But it would be completely possible for him to ALSO be scummy. "His" reasoning she presented for the exercise is flawed, especially when she indicates that this is a relatively new relation. It could be a case of both. At the same time, I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm innocent of turning a phrase in the heat of the moment that's playing on the excitement of someone wanting to enjoy the kink of humiliation. Taken out of context, with a bit of drama added, I'm sure I could look pretty bad, too. All I'd need would be for someone to fuel it with their own emotions to create that particular slant.

Plasticine -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 6:43:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Plasticine I agree with you. But it would be completely possible for him to ALSO be scummy. "His" reasoning she presented for the exercise is flawed, especially when she indicates that this is a relatively new relation. It could be a case of both. At the same time, I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm innocent of turning a phrase in the heat of the moment that's playing on the excitement of someone wanting to enjoy the kink of humiliation. Taken out of context, with a bit of drama added, I'm sure I could look pretty bad, too. All I'd need would be for someone to fuel it with their own emotions to create that particular slant. You make a very valid and sobering point. However, and at the risk of being cliche, it does take two to tango and you attract what you are. If she is an emotionally spun volatile personality... odds are she doesn't draw in the most level headed fellows.

domiguy -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 7:16:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Plasticine I agree with you. But it would be completely possible for him to ALSO be scummy. "His" reasoning she presented for the exercise is flawed, especially when she indicates that this is a relatively new relation. It could be a case of both. At the same time, I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm innocent of turning a phrase in the heat of the moment that's playing on the excitement of someone wanting to enjoy the kink of humiliation. Taken out of context, with a bit of drama added, I'm sure I could look pretty bad, too. All I'd need would be for someone to fuel it with their own emotions to create that particular slant. Huge difference between "turning a phrase" and putting something highly questionable into action. LadyPact and I are in the middle of some hard core anal. While I'm riding her like a rented mule I say it would be hot to watch her fuck a manatee. She purrrrrrs, "Oh God, Domi, you know how I love manatee play. I'd love to blow a sea cow." The next day she comes home to find a gallon of lube on her porch and a manatee in the kiddie pool in her living room. She is beside herself. Just after her arrival a group of FBI agents accompanied by some Florida game wardens kick down her door because the Florida manatee is protected under the federal endangered species act and it is also against the law to kill, injure,harass or blow a manatee. Part of being a sane person is knowing what and what not to place into action.

crazyml -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 7:23:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Huge difference between "turning a phrase" and putting something highly questionable into action. LadyPact and I are in the middle of some hard core anal. While I'm riding her like a rented mule I say it would be hot to watch you fuck a manatee. She purrrrrrs, "Oh God, Domi, you know how I love manatee play. I'd love to blow a sea cow." The next day she comes home to find a gallon of lube on her porch and a manatee in the kiddie pool in her living room. She is beside herself. Just after her arrival a group of FBI agents accompanied by some Florida game wardens kick down her door because the Florida manatee is protected under the federal endangered species act and it is also against the law to kill, injure,harass or blow a manatee. Part of being a sane person is knowing what and what not to place into action. Quoted for truth and beauty.

Andalusite -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 7:25:07 AM)
Prostitution or being shared for sex would be a dealbreaker for me in the relationship. It's not a limit, per se, since I wouldn't say that he could keep doing whatever he wanted except that, I just wouldn't feel safe or comfortable with him at all. With that said, you can avoid the legal implications (though not the safety issues) by having him pimp you out for monopoly money or poker chips without any cash attached to them. I know someone who discussed dressing up in a hooker outfit and heels, and visiting a "red light district." With her Dominant standing a few feet away, turning down Johns when they offered money unless he told her otherwise (which he didn't plan to, just the little "what if..." working overtime in her head). That would still be risky, though, even though it's not illegal as long as she doesn't go through with it and accept any money.

OsideGirl -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 7:28:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wednesdayschild given that you all don't know much of anything about either of us, our personalities, our relationship, or our dynamic. And clearly from this thread, neither did you......

LadyPact -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 8:09:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Huge difference between "turning a phrase" and putting something highly questionable into action. LadyPact and I are in the middle of some hard core anal. While I'm riding her like a rented mule I say it would be hot to watch her fuck a manatee. She purrrrrrs, "Oh God, Domi, you know how I love manatee play. I'd love to blow a sea cow." The next day she comes home to find a gallon of lube on her porch and a manatee in the kiddie pool in her living room. She is beside herself. Just after her arrival a group of FBI agents accompanied by some Florida game wardens kick down her door because the Florida manatee is protected under the federal endangered species act and it is also against the law to kill, injure,harass or blow a manatee. Part of being a sane person is knowing what and what not to place into action. You've got a real thing for wildlife. Come on, Domi. You can admit it. You're a card carrying member of PITA, aren't you? (Should I go into the part where I say it really is possible to have a boy ride a strap on while he's on top? Probably not. Wouldn't want to hijack this thing.) I think the setting up of an email account is way shy of bringing something home to splash about in the wading pool. It might have made a set up for a good mind fuck though.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 8:13:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy LadyPact and I are in the middle of some hard core anal. While I'm riding her like a rented mule I say it would be hot to watch her fuck a manatee. She purrrrrrs, "Oh God, Domi, you know how I love manatee play. I'd love to blow a sea cow." See, I know this would never happen. Your game's not tight enough. [:D] realizes even before hitting send exactly where that phrase will get me but courageously posts it anyway

LadyPact -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 8:18:13 AM)
Yeah, it's easy to be brave in Kentucky.

PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 8:24:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Plasticine I agree with you. But it would be completely possible for him to ALSO be scummy. "His" reasoning she presented for the exercise is flawed, especially when she indicates that this is a relatively new relation. It could be a case of both. At the same time, I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm innocent of turning a phrase in the heat of the moment that's playing on the excitement of someone wanting to enjoy the kink of humiliation. Taken out of context, with a bit of drama added, I'm sure I could look pretty bad, too. All I'd need would be for someone to fuel it with their own emotions to create that particular slant. Huge difference between "turning a phrase" and putting something highly questionable into action. LadyPact and I are in the middle of some hard core anal. While I'm riding her like a rented mule somehow it would be much hotter to imagening her sorting you out [8\|]

xxblushesxx -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 8:29:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yeah, it's easy to be brave in Kentucky. Not really. You should see some of my neighbors!! [sm=afraid.gif][sm=couch.gif]

IronBear -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 12:53:48 PM)
I tend to agree that prostitution to a stranger is not the very best thing to be doing. I forget about the law here because it depends where you are and in some places and in some states here In Australia it is legal. Having said this, I had the time when a lass I had, in effect prostituted her self with a mate of mine because he had asked if he could have her and would be happy to place a substantial donation in a tin I keep for fines incurred by breaches of protocol and which is religiously donated to my local Guide Dogs Association.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Prostitution (6/24/2010 1:26:35 PM)
I have not read any replies yet, but here is my thought. You are the only one that will always be around to take care of you. Losing him may suck and hurt, but losing your self will suck and hurt longer. My break up with my manly domly dude came after him asking me to do something, and me waffling back and forth, I will, I can't, I want to, Please do not ask me again to do that, so on and so forth. When I finally realized there was no way in hell I would ever do that, I told him, and I broke it off in that same conversation. I will never know if he would have ended the relationship then, because I did it my self. I was disappointed in me that I did not say the first time I will never be able to do that. I gave me a few days to cry over it, then I just chose to remember all I learned about my self from the relationship. The most important thing I learned was I know me, and I know what I will never do, and no matter how much I crave someone in the future, I will always be honest with them, and myself about those things. If you lose him over something that you feel this strongly about, it just was not meant to be........ ETA after reading the thread....I can't decide if I wish I would have read it first and saved my fonts, or if I feel like a fucking genius in my wisdom after reading it. Oh and Domi made me blow a lil spit outta my mouth laughing. I swear I aint a spitter normally!

JOHN2289 -> RE: Prostitution (1/2/2011 8:07:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andalusite With that said, you can avoid the legal implications (though not the safety issues) by having him pimp you out for monopoly money or poker chips without any cash attached to them. ========================================== I started just such a service recently for women who want the fantasy without the dangers. It's on my profile. I vet the 'clients' and take care of the 'fantasy hooker'. Seems to work ok.

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