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RE: Serving - 6/30/2010 5:27:13 AM

laurell3

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haha lally...where's your tent?

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RE: Serving - 6/30/2010 5:34:55 AM

lally2

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

haha lally...where's your tent?

packed!! - im just trying to find my pink leather thongs - i think he'd look really cute in those!! - ah! there they are - right im off - see ya!

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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!

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RE: Serving - 6/30/2010 5:38:26 AM

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when you go through customs, do NOT tell them you are on a stalking mission....

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RE: Serving - 7/10/2010 6:29:57 AM

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When owned by 2 MASTERS,each had very different ideas about what "Service" was to THEM. For one, it was submitting to BDSM, being loaned to other MASTERS, serving in a sexual capacity when so ordered.

To the other "service" was houscleaning, running errands, serving as bartender or waiter when they had business functions at their home. The MASTER who wanted a housekeeper treated me more "kindly" than the MASTER who wanted a sex toy. However, each seemed to get what THEY needed from the slave

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RE: Serving - 7/10/2010 9:24:23 AM

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Seriously, in many regards I feel that well rounded vanillas with slight kinks, would be of better overall service. compared to extremely limited slaves, that are the true Epitome of being "Worthless".

Whiplashsmile4,

In my opinion the most grievous error a submissive or slave can make is attaching their definition to terminology that is defined by the other party. I have concepts of service, but in truth service is precisely what my owner determines as such. If that entails sexual activities and is solely relegated to that, then that's what it is. I don't equate acts of submission as service, I see them in a different light. I believe those on this side of the kneel come loaded with preconceptions that must be quickly dispelled and often find themselves disheartened when the ideas they've conjured in their mind fail to unfold in the dynamic.

My entire person and everything that I do can be an act of service where he's concerned. But service in and itself are things he will specify and institute as directives, protocols, and limitations for my station. One of the common misconceptions in that grouping is anticipatory service. Some dominants find that appealing and others are vehemently opposed to such. The best thing an individual can do is to maintain an open mind, be adaptable, willing to learn, and accepting of the fact that he determines how the girl will serve him, not the other way around.

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RE: Serving - 7/10/2010 9:42:41 AM

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So what's the problem Whiplash? Fundamentally, what you're seeing is that other people define "slave" in the context of "sex slave". There are also plenty of "masters" which define it the same way. I assume these sorts of people find each other and have a lot of fun.

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