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BentUnit -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 5:53:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: BentUnit

<---is a snarky arsehole all the time.  


Yeah when you're not flirting like a randy polecat


You say that like it's a bad thing.




crazyml -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 5:55:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit

<---is a snarky arsehole all the time.  


Yeah when you're not flirting like a randy polecat


You say that like it's a bad thing.



I can only apologise to you Ms Unit for having given that impression.

It is a wonderful thing; I adore polecats, the randy ones especially.


[Edited to change a comma for a semicolon.. and oh yes it was worth it]




domiguy -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 5:58:53 PM)

My advice never translates well to someone that uses such a small type size or lives in the netherlands....

Speaking of Nether lands I recall it being a Dan Fogelberg album.

I know from growing up in Wisconsin that he was quite popular when I was but a domiboy....This was of course before he died.

Now I ain't saying I ever listened to no fagotty Dan Fogelberg album but if I ever did I might think that this was one of his better works.

I hope this helps the op.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 6:11:38 PM)

Moral Ponderance of the day
Is being mean a bad thing when it's in best interest of somebody else?


I'M A BIG BAD MEANY

OKAY girl, here's the new rules for you. No More Online RolePlay Chatting or Phone Sexing these fantasies out. You are a spoiled rotten little Princess that needs to get a HOBBY to refocus your mind upon. Selfish Little Girls should not be allowed to freely play with whoever they want. You not deserve 1/2 the privilages your partner has given you. You are a Greedy Selfish Little Princess and somebody needs to revoke your privilages, force to you to do something more constructive with your mind. You're hearby grounded from watching anymore porn, or reading erotic text. NO More Online Role Playing or Phone Sexing these fantasies out. You're Shut OFF!!

Now go stand in a corner for an hour and think long and hard about how selfish you are. You have one week (within the next 7 days) to discover or find a constructive Hobby. If you can't do this, you are to seek out professional help for whatever "Sexual Addiction" issues you are having a hard time coping with.

If you don't like these new rules and insist upon having things your way, don't come complaining about it later when you have to face the consequences for your own selfish bratty girl undisciplined actions. You need to tone down your almost out of control sex drive.

How do you LIKE ME NOW? IF you are pissed off at me, GOOD! If you feeling like stomping your feet, calling me an Asshole and slamming the door behind you like the spoiled little princess that you are, GOOD! It still won't change the fact you need to do what you need to do.

(Hey, I'm trying to work a little Dominant attitude here, so sue me, I"M A BIG BAD MEANY).





crazyml -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 6:15:56 PM)

quality!

And, hats off for the formatting too!




Jeffff -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 6:25:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

My advice never translates well to someone that uses such a small type size or lives in the netherlands....

Speaking of Nether lands I recall it being a Dan Fogelberg album.

I know from growing up in Wisconsin that he was quite popular when I was but a domiboy....This was of course before he died.

Now I ain't saying I ever listened to no fagotty Dan Fogelberg album but if I ever did I might think that this was one of his better works.

I hope this helps the op.



Fag




peppermint -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 10:22:41 PM)

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I am not fucking around.


I never said you were fucking around.  I said you were fucking up your life.  I was referring to you having secrets from your husband.  Personally I don't care who and how many sexual partners you have.  I never mentioned sex, just lying. 




SailingBum -> RE: Kinda tense (6/30/2010 11:07:44 PM)

Yep the OP is thinking the grass is greener .... Im here to say it's not!!!

Nuff said BadOne




lally2 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 12:49:46 AM)

ok - i agree the third person was a wrong move, but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show.  so she was down two players and no outlet.

so yes, wrong move but if he is in the services she cant exactly phone him up about this and no loving wife is going to hastle her husband on active service over something like this, well i wouldnt.

.... and i still think she was just coming here to vent and let off steam.

i think everyones advice is good advice btw, i just dont see where she's gone so terribly wrong.

if the 3rd guy she found fell into the category her husband outlined as acceptable then all she did was replace one of the two flakes who didnt show up.

just saying - and for the record OP, i would have waited for my husband to get home before i did anything outside of the agreed parameters, but its youre marriage and you know youre husband, we dont, obviously




lollielovin -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 1:08:17 AM)

why?





lally2 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 1:22:37 AM)

why what?




sirsholly -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 2:49:38 AM)

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but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show.
this is just one of the dangers of sub-frenzy getting out of control. Two flakes in a row. Poor judgment? Not using common sense, perhaps?

Lally...the OP is not a hormonal teenager, She is a grown woman who needs to get her libido under control.




lally2 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 3:51:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show.
this is just one of the dangers of sub-frenzy getting out of control. Two flakes in a row. Poor judgment? Not using common sense, perhaps?

or inexperience - she said she's been fantasing this for years, writing it down and dealing with it best she could.  eventually she builds up her nerve and tells her hubby all about her dark secrets (not easy) - and watdoyaknow - he gives her the green light and off she goes, in a frenzy yes, and under her husbands watchful eye she makes two poor judgements due entirely to inexperience (few of us got it right the first time), hubby goes overseas and she's left with the green light on years of wanting this, the flood gates are opened up and she's buggered up by a couple of time wasters.

Lally...the OP is not a hormonal teenager, She is a grown woman who needs to get her libido under control.

i agree, im just saying, i dont think she's done anything that wrong to deserve the sort of attacks she's been getting





Ligeia72 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 4:09:12 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show.
this is just one of the dangers of sub-frenzy getting out of control. Two flakes in a row. Poor judgment? Not using common sense, perhaps?

or inexperience - she said she's been fantasing this for years, writing it down and dealing with it best she could.  eventually she builds up her nerve and tells her hubby all about her dark secrets (not easy) - and watdoyaknow - he gives her the green light and off she goes, in a frenzy yes, and under her husbands watchful eye she makes two poor judgements due entirely to inexperience (few of us got it right the first time), hubby goes overseas and she's left with the green light on years of wanting this, the flood gates are opened up and she's buggered up by a couple of time wasters.

Lally...the OP is not a hormonal teenager, She is a grown woman who needs to get her libido under control.

i agree, im just saying, i dont think she's done anything that wrong to deserve the sort of attacks she's been getting




Maybe I'm looking at this a little simply, but I haven't so much seen attacks as I have been seeing people's concern. I personally don't think the OP's situation/state is a healthy one, and could have possible risks/ramifications in the long term, both to her, and those around her. I see the advice that's being given here as being more analogous to someone being trapped in a burning building, you don't sit down and commiserate with them about the fact that they're on fire, you try and get them the hell out of there.

Just my opinion of course.




LadyPact -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 5:01:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lally2

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show.
this is just one of the dangers of sub-frenzy getting out of control. Two flakes in a row. Poor judgment? Not using common sense, perhaps?

or inexperience - she said she's been fantasing this for years, writing it down and dealing with it best she could.  eventually she builds up her nerve and tells her hubby all about her dark secrets (not easy) - and watdoyaknow - he gives her the green light and off she goes, in a frenzy yes, and under her husbands watchful eye she makes two poor judgements due entirely to inexperience (few of us got it right the first time), hubby goes overseas and she's left with the green light on years of wanting this, the flood gates are opened up and she's buggered up by a couple of time wasters.

Lally...the OP is not a hormonal teenager, She is a grown woman who needs to get her libido under control.

i agree, im just saying, i dont think she's done anything that wrong to deserve the sort of attacks she's been getting



I honestly don't think I attacked her, lally.  I sincerely felt that I gave her good advice.  If she doesn't stick to whatever parameters he's given her, it's going to make it more difficult later.

I realize it might be a leap to assume her other half is in the military, but if he is, it isn't like she can't send emails to keep him up to date on her activities.  Internet contact is a lot better than people think it is.  She can send copies of emails that are being exchanged or instant messenger conversations so hubby can at least get a vibe of who she is talking to or planning on meeting.  All she has to do is let the people she's having the exchanges with is that she's married and does this so her husband can see what's going on.  It might even help when he gets home so they can explore together.




lally2 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 6:12:26 AM)

ok, attacks was the wrong word, sorry)) and the advice she's been given is solid advice.

she asked for advice on how to deal with where she's at right now and she got it.  ive re read the thread and its mostly from people telling her that she needs to rein back and remember her marriage - which is sound.

and no LP you didnt attack her atall, i didnt intend to suggest that you had.

i suppose i just saw a woman on her own with a whole load of buggaboo going on and no hubby and no outlet and genuinely worried about where her buggaboos were taking her.

but having read it all back i think she did get the best advice in the end, even if a couple of people got a bit hasty on the 'cheating' front - i dont believe she has, i just think she's scared that she might.

ignore me in future - best policy [&:]




laurell3 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 6:22:42 AM)

It doesn't matter if anyone attacked her or not, she came here for permission, she didn't get it, she had a tantrum, she's gone.

It's nice that you guys all really do want to help, but you cannot help someone that doesn't want it and clearly she is not looking for anything other than validation.




Jeffff -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 7:47:34 AM)

In order to get validation, you have to eat at the restaurant or stay in the hotel.

At least that is my experience

ymmv

ycktcyc





ranja -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 12:51:15 PM)

oh whiplash
hot and to the point, just lovely




divi -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 1:05:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Moral Ponderance of the day
Is being mean a bad thing when it's in best interest of somebody else?


I'M A BIG BAD MEANY

OKAY girl, here's the new rules for you. No More Online RolePlay Chatting or Phone Sexing these fantasies out. You are a spoiled rotten little Princess that needs to get a HOBBY to refocus your mind upon. Selfish Little Girls should not be allowed to freely play with whoever they want. You not deserve 1/2 the privilages your partner has given you. You are a Greedy Selfish Little Princess and somebody needs to revoke your privilages, force to you to do something more constructive with your mind. You're hearby grounded from watching anymore porn, or reading erotic text. NO More Online Role Playing or Phone Sexing these fantasies out. You're Shut OFF!!

Now go stand in a corner for an hour and think long and hard about how selfish you are. You have one week (within the next 7 days) to discover or find a constructive Hobby. If you can't do this, you are to seek out professional help for whatever "Sexual Addiction" issues you are having a hard time coping with.

If you don't like these new rules and insist upon having things your way, don't come complaining about it later when you have to face the consequences for your own selfish bratty girl undisciplined actions. You need to tone down your almost out of control sex drive.

How do you LIKE ME NOW? IF you are pissed off at me, GOOD! If you feeling like stomping your feet, calling me an Asshole and slamming the door behind you like the spoiled little princess that you are, GOOD! It still won't change the fact you need to do what you need to do.

(Hey, I'm trying to work a little Dominant attitude here, so sue me, I"M A BIG BAD MEANY).



wow whiplash you almost sound as dumb as the OP.. are you both from the same trailer park ?




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