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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Kinda tense (7/1/2010 3:26:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: divi
wow whiplash you almost sound as dumb as the OP.. are you both from the same trailer park ?
divi, seriously that was a new kind of post for me to write. None the less, her mind is extremely obsessed. She needs to refocus. she's on the edge of doing things. She's too caught up in it to the point she's SELF ABSORBED in her own Fantasies (selfish).
Her partner has been giving her some latitude to explore things (permission) within parameters (limits). If anything this more less is re-enforcing her frenzy or growing addiction. Hence, she needs to be shut off and find something else to do with her mind. it's pretty clear she is having an internal battle over self control on this matter. Everything that I read, that somebody putting their foot down with her is not so out of order (in my opinion).
I don't care if it's sex, drugs, drinking or gambling... when something reaches the levels that they are obessed with it and are contemplating doing it, knowing the consequences of harm they are gonna cause.
If the same situation was presented and the focus was upon Gambling, it would be best for somebody to stop visiting gambling sites, watching Gambling videos and shit like that. It's just more shit to keep the mind in the tailspin.
Seriously it does not matter how anybody says basicially same things to her. It does not change the fact she needs to get control of it before it takes control of her.
I sincerely feel, that some people do need to spend quiet time in a corner reflecting upon their own actions. Just because somebody is an Adult does not mean they have out grown the benifits of "corner time". ;P There are a lot of grown adults that very much feeding their gratifications without regards to how it impacts upon other people or themselves. Self defeating behaviors. Kind of stuff where people know that what they are doing ain't a good move, but still end up doing it anyways.
Personally I think, this girl needs to get her Clit under control, and the only way to do it is through "the mind". She needs to stop looking at porn, reading about this shit so much, chatting and etc. She needs to take a good step back from it all. "TIME OUT" to get her senses back to a better level.
Her sitting there with her mind off in fantasy land, while she diddles herself with her hand, looking at porn, thinking about BDSM fantasies and such, ain't the solution. She's become too caught up in it and needs to take a complete break and find something else to do, to refocus her mind.
You don't encourage people that have Gambling addictions to go down to the store and buy lottery tickets. You don't encourage people that have drinking problems to go socialize out at bars. If anything you discourage that shit as much as you humanly can, even if you seem have to be... well... rather mean or mean sounding about it.
Regardless if you think I sounded Dumb about it, it's still the smart thing to do.
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