Ligeia72
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but the two other guys her hubby had agreed to ended up as flakes and didnt show. this is just one of the dangers of sub-frenzy getting out of control. Two flakes in a row. Poor judgment? Not using common sense, perhaps? or inexperience - she said she's been fantasing this for years, writing it down and dealing with it best she could. eventually she builds up her nerve and tells her hubby all about her dark secrets (not easy) - and watdoyaknow - he gives her the green light and off she goes, in a frenzy yes, and under her husbands watchful eye she makes two poor judgements due entirely to inexperience (few of us got it right the first time), hubby goes overseas and she's left with the green light on years of wanting this, the flood gates are opened up and she's buggered up by a couple of time wasters. Lally...the OP is not a hormonal teenager, She is a grown woman who needs to get her libido under control. i agree, im just saying, i dont think she's done anything that wrong to deserve the sort of attacks she's been getting Maybe I'm looking at this a little simply, but I haven't so much seen attacks as I have been seeing people's concern. I personally don't think the OP's situation/state is a healthy one, and could have possible risks/ramifications in the long term, both to her, and those around her. I see the advice that's being given here as being more analogous to someone being trapped in a burning building, you don't sit down and commiserate with them about the fact that they're on fire, you try and get them the hell out of there. Just my opinion of course.
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