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tears4him -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:22:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveladyj This might be a little off what you are discussing, but what bothers me, are those that open a thread, and then list from the search pages where a topic has been discussed before. The membership here comes and goes, questions are going to be asked again and again. And you'll get new and different responses because you have new and different people. I tell you, I"m afraid to pose a question for fear of having it said, oh, that's been discussed before, go here, read responses that are months old. I seem to have missed a quote here. I responded to OnyxGoddess on accident. Though I see both of this going on. Slaveladyj, I see what you were refering to more often than the so called bullying. I think if you have a question, just simply ask it. And if someone rants about it be discussed before, just either ignore it, or reply with a thank you and then ignore it. But never be affraid to ask, when you need to know. I'm sure others will agree with this too. As you said, members come and go. New ideas come in the door with new members. If others are tired of reading the same questions, no one makes them respond to them. <Tears>

RiotGirl -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:27:42 PM)
Dominant bullies are fun cos you can put them in their place. And i just have an absurd kink with upsurping authority. i get this odd pleasure with being a snot and as some call it "disobediant" i enjoyed that kink for about 10 years = ) Upsurping my parents, the schools, the government, anyone who "tried" to be authoritive. So they're fun. That being said. There are many Dominants on this board i respect and hold in high regard that i wouldnt act that way and if at times i find myself acting that way i try to back step abit. Which is maybe what others are doing? They find themselves acting in a way they wish not to act with certian ppl so they're back stepping. Just a thought

kyraofMists -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:43:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveladyj This might be a little off what you are discussing, but what bothers me, are those that open a thread, and then list from the search pages where a topic has been discussed before. The membership here comes and goes, questions are going to be asked again and again. And you'll get new and different responses because you have new and different people. I tell you, I"m afraid to pose a question for fear of having it said, oh, that's been discussed before, go here, read responses that are months old. At first, I thought this was odd, but then I changed my perspective about it. The way that I look at it now is not that they are saying, "Why is this being asked again??" but "Here are some good responses that someone else got when they asked something similar." You get the newer people answering and responding to the new thread started and then you can read older threads that may or may not provide more perspectives. It's just a way to increase the amount of information being given. Now I tend to be thankful the links are given rather than assuming the person giving them is negatively motivated. I remember being pleased and excited once when a link to a thread I started months ago was given. I remember thinking that there were some really good thoughts and opinions expressed by others in the thread that may have value to people who are newer to the boards. It is all a matter of perspective. Knight's kyra

MstrFury -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:56:17 PM)
Kyra....will you and Knight please stay out of my head.....that was going to be my response...now what am I left to say except...welcome to the boards Tears....enjoy the bumpy ride ahead...and no we're not all bullies...some of us really do think about what is asked or said before responding...and most hope to give their opinion without disrespect to yours...

tears4him -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:56:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Dominant bullies are fun cos you can put them in their place. And i just have an absurd kink with upsurping authority. i get this odd pleasure with being a snot and as some call it "disobediant" i enjoyed that kink for about 10 years = ) Upsurping my parents, the schools, the government, anyone who "tried" to be authoritive. So they're fun. That being said. There are many Dominants on this board i respect and hold in high regard that i wouldnt act that way and if at times i find myself acting that way i try to back step abit. Which is maybe what others are doing? They find themselves acting in a way they wish not to act with certian ppl so they're back stepping. Just a thought True warned me about you there riot. LOL I'm prepared to be tickled pink by reading more of your responses on the board. I've read some and see how you are so I can relate to your post. As I'm sure you'll see, you and I are not far off on being alot alike. I see quite a few dominants on here that I can understand others having great respect for . <Tears>

tears4him -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 3:58:02 PM)
Mstrfury, thank you. I am sure i'll be meeting some great people on here. Like I said, I know not all are like that. It was just something I had taken notice to of others. <Tears>

cloudboy -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 4:06:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sensualips I have been involved with various online message board communities, based on various topics, for the last decade. In my experience collarchat rates as one of the most civil and generally respectful. If people have strong opinions or get pissy or whatever -- I think it is just human nature and the law of averages, not about being dominant. Yes, this Message Board is like a Catholic Schoolyard with detentions, probations, warnings, watchful eyes, and GOD forbid, EXPULSIONS.

truesub4u -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 4:07:03 PM)
Riot I swear I didn't say anythingggggggggggggggggggg............... [:D][:D][:D]

PlayfulOne -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 4:17:06 PM)
Shrugs, Don't understand why you would let some dummy on the other end of a wire get you so stirred up. I alwyas just ignore em and move on. Throws and apple at True, just beacuse K

kyraofMists -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 4:21:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrFury Kyra....will you and Knight please stay out of my head.....that was going to be my response... I wonder if this is a marketable skill... the ability to read a dominant's minds g Thank you for the compliments today and yesterday. We have enjoyed reading your thoughts and opinions as well. kyra

MstrFury -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 4:43:49 PM)
I always speak my mind...so calling them as I see them...not just a compliment...just a fact... Fury

saltygoodness27 -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 5:26:12 PM)
Look back at the recent "bratty sub" thread if you'd like to see examples of subs being belittling and claiming that because they say it, that is the way it must be. It's a human failing not a Dom failing.

RiotGirl -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 7:47:52 PM)
quote: True warned me about you there riot. LOL I'm prepared to be tickled pink by reading more of your responses on the board. I've read some and see how you are so I can relate to your post. As I'm sure you'll see, you and I are not far off on being alot alike. I see quite a few dominants on here that I can understand others having great respect for . heh. You know ppl get warned about me all the time i dun why.. =) LOL whats got to be warned.. i'm not a monster under the bed, nor in the closet, but if you pretend to be and jump out at some one.. good lord the absolute shock that registers through them is hilarious. <cracks up> You know i had a friend who was holding an angry gecko and there was about three other ppl standing warely, but fascinated at it.. leaning in.. <grinzz> they were timid, and so totally unsure if it was a bad thing or not.. Even the one holding it was abit "ginger" i'd say <cracks up> And i swear as i thought it i couldnt stop myself. i jumped and hollared and then about died laughing as they all freaked out. They all jumped about a mile.. backwards of course.. oh god it was so funny.. it cracks me up now. = ) <pouts> and i only gave them what they were expecting, atleast close too, cept it wasnt an angry gecko flying through the air trying to rip off a nose or ear or anything. i sweaaaaar, scouts honor i was just trying to be considerate. It was what they were hoping for wasnt it?

RiotGirl -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 7:53:09 PM)
quote: Riot I swear I didn't say anythingggggggggggggggggggg............... uh huh.. sureeeeeee. Be ware the next time you hold a gecko or snake or something you're unsure of, i wont me so considerate = ) <cracks up> Wouldnt it of been much more funny, if i had smacked the bottom of the hand, literally sending the gecko flying and it landing on some one? <cracks up> .... <sigh> sometimes i'm so wicked i dont know what to do with myself. so what'd ya say what'd ya say what'd ya say what'd you SAY? Tell me (repeat 6 times) Pls (repeat 8 times) LOL As for how i am, i've no clue, i just am. As for being alot like.. thats neato.. not maybe ppl are. = ) i look forward to reading you're posts Tears and getting to know you. i'll keep an eye on you m'lady. (arg i am in a silly mood)

BitaTruble -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:05:03 PM)
Cute pics, Riot!

truesub4u -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:07:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne Shrugs, Don't understand why you would let some dummy on the other end of a wire get you so stirred up. I alwyas just ignore em and move on. Throws and apple at True, just beacuse K Notices it's not a grannysmith and throws it back at Mr Kyle... lmao Mr Kyle, she didn't let no one get her riled...... she was taking notice to a few threads in the ask Master andask sub/slave threads. I've gotten to talk to tears in IMs and today we made it to the phone. She's pretty kewlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll...... told her she's needs to work on her profile some andjust ignore the other ones [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] Oh and yes... I gave her the good stuff on you.... your lil one...... MHOO..... Misstress...... Cin...... Owned....... Riot.......MrDiscipline..... amayos......IronBear..... and a few others.... ROFLMAO..............oh and Bita too...[;)] huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssssssssssssss Edited to add.. OMG... 2 more post and I hit 2000.... eeeeeeeeek

ownedgirlie -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:13:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u Oh and yes... I gave her the good stuff on you.... your lil one...... MHOO..... Misstress...... Cin...... Owned....... Riot.......MrDiscipline..... amayos......IronBear..... and a few others.... ROFLMAO..............oh and Bita too...[;)] huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssssssssssssss Our own little Jackie Collins....lol. ~ rolls True a granny smith and says "Fetch!" just for fun, cuz i'm in THAT kinda mood! [:D]

truesub4u -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:17:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Our own little Jackie Collins....lol. ~ rolls True a granny smith and says "Fetch!" just for fun, cuz i'm in THAT kinda mood! [:D] Owned.... like I said to cin earlier... i'll say to you too... [sm=moon.gif][sm=moon.gif].... LMAO

ownedgirlie -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:19:45 PM)
True, careful where you expose that...might get a treat.... [sm=bust.gif]

truesub4u -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/14/2006 8:32:12 PM)
Tears, sorry for hijacking thread.... but I gotta... just for a sec here... Owned... you tease... I love you too.... and to bond with you.. I give you my 200th post... you sweet thing you... [sm=banana.gif][sm=banana.gif]... not punt intented with the banana's there....[;)]

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