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NeedToUseYou -> RE: On line dominant bullies. (4/15/2006 9:49:31 AM)
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I don't think it's a big issue at all. I've seen people argue, I've argued with people. I've had multiple people argue against me, I've joined the assault against people. I've had people e-mail me to tell me they agreed but didn't want to go against the masses, and people that write rationally on the message write crude e-mails like cowards(because no one can see the vulgarity then) I've had people nit-pick my posts because they didn't agree and think that's a argument. But whatever, the real purpose of the message boards isn't so much to be totally accepting of everyone, but moreso, to see who thinks in a compatible way. In that case it becomes clear who isn't compatible with who. And sometimes BDSM concepts cross over into everyday life concepts like supremacy, abuse, etc... In which case it's not about kink anymore but about core principles one holds. Making for heated debate. It's also really simple not to attract opposing views, just put it in the topic that you just want encouraging accepting views, and I bet that's all you'd get. But I personally view when someone posts a topic they want opinions. As everything on this board is just someones opinion, very little is provable. Their are also about a 100 different writing styles on here as well, so, knowing how dramatic a person is also goes along way in not taking offense. If I called someone a cunt on here they'd probably take offense, one of the popular posters up here would just get a snicker, because it's the way he/she writes.
I can say I've yet to be offended, I've come to the conclusion some people just are completely uncompatible with my way of thinking, while others I see as being compatible. That doesn't mean I don't think they should be here, it just means I don't agree with them. Either way take it for what it is a bunch of blowhards, all assembled in the same location at once, thinking there way is the right way. That way may be tolerance for all, which is a way to. But they generally don't tolerate the intolerant. LOL. No way out. Someones always going to be the odd man out.
Thanks.
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