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friendship.. - 6/30/2010 5:52:27 PM

loveydovey

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I am still new to cm so i may have picked the wrong spot to post this.. but um... ahh well spank me if i did.. I have found it difficult just to make a friend here out side of the men women and couples pursueing me for other things.. Why is it that hard to find someone be it Dom/Master sub/slave or switch to just chat with share laughter over things.. just generally all around friendship.. Is that like breaking a law or something here? yeah i have tried the chat rooms and would love to delve deeper into those with someone who knows what they are doing as i think i have given clueless a whole new meaning.. I'm just wondering if anyone has found this difficult and or needs a quirky friend..

xoxo
dovey

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 5:54:19 PM

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Keep posting here if you want to meet others for friendship on the internet...

And welcome to the boards....

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:06:14 PM

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Its hard to make friends here? HUH?!

Welcome to the boards, OP!

See how easy it is to make a good start?

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:07:34 PM

Jeffff

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I am thinking after you get to know folks here, you might not be in such a hurry to make friends with them....

but...WELCOME anyway!

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:08:18 PM

Toppingfrmbottom

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I am always up for quirky friends, if they can accept my quirks, like I am into ageplay, I regress for real, it's not a pretend role I play and I call my partner Daddy.

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ORIGINAL: loveydovey

I'm just wondering if anyone has found this difficult and or needs a quirky friend..

xoxo
dovey

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:10:23 PM

Jeffff

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Lovey?

Head down to off topic and post in the lurker thread.

CM pays me a bouns for every piece of fresh meet....... I mean new person who stops by!

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:20:07 PM

Jeffff

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Lovey?..... did I scare you?.....

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:22:56 PM

Rochsub2009

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The chatrooms on the other side are a waste of time. If you want to meet friends, start reading these boards. Then once you feel comfortable, start posting responses. You'll quickly come to find that you have lots of like-minded friends right here.

Welcome to the boards, friend.

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 6:30:59 PM

BonesFromAsh

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quote:

ORIGINAL: loveydovey

Why is it that hard to find someone be it Dom/Master sub/slave or switch to just chat with share laughter over things.. just generally all around friendship..

Well, you don't mention in your profile that you're looking for friends...just friends.

I've been fortunate to have made a couple of good friends here, but it didn't happen overnight. Kind of like offline. Post here...build up some sort of online presence so people get a feel for who you are and what you're about...and be patient. I'd also avoid the chatrooms if you want to avoid the cyber game-playing.

Oh, welcome....and be sure to head over to Jeffff's thread...if only to make him happy.

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 7:03:06 PM

AQuietSimpleMan

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I will answer your questions easily.

Read your own Profile.

NOTHING about it says I am only looking for friends. In fact the whole thing screams come check me out and see if you are good enough to get me.

The Picture of your Deep Throating the Wookie only further adds to the number of men who wish they could be your Wookie.

The Part of you being a Nympho that must orgasm 12 times a day and the Erotica in your Journal ALL will keep all the Horny Jack Asses coming.

Sorry Hunny, on this site when you have a nice set of Knockers and Two Holes between your legs for Coital Bliss you will receive MANY MANY MANY E-mails until you have been around long enough that the New Factor wears off... some people have been here a few years and it hasn't stopped yet.

I can tell you this... the More sexual you are in your Profile the more you will attract those who are only interested in introducing you to their dick.

Hell I only read half your profile and I wanna fuck you stupid.

Must be something in the air.

QSM

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 8:03:02 PM

sunshinemiss

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

The chatrooms on the other side are a waste of time. If you want to meet friends, start reading these boards. Then once you feel comfortable, start posting responses. You'll quickly come to find that you have lots of like-minded friends right here.

Welcome to the boards, friend.

I will agree that the boards are the better way, but I've met several people from the chat rooms as well. Over here, we do tend to get to know one another well. There's always a this or that going on - an event, a party, a dinner, etc.

Friendships take time.

best,
sunshine

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 8:04:53 PM

LadyHibiscus

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I've never actually been in the chat rooms. I made a lot of friends in Polls and Random Stupidity. They are very... random. Some have very long sticky tongues. Might be right up your alley!

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 8:05:13 PM

BentUnit

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

I will answer your questions easily.

Read your own Profile.

NOTHING about it says I am only looking for friends. In fact the whole thing screams come check me out and see if you are good enough to get me.

The Picture of your Deep Throating the Wookie only further adds to the number of men who wish they could be your Wookie.

The Part of you being a Nympho that must orgasm 12 times a day and the Erotica in your Journal ALL will keep all the Horny Jack Asses coming.

Sorry Hunny, on this site when you have a nice set of Knockers and Two Holes between your legs for Coital Bliss you will receive MANY MANY MANY E-mails until you have been around long enough that the New Factor wears off... some people have been here a few years and it hasn't stopped yet.

I can tell you this... the More sexual you are in your Profile the more you will attract those who are only interested in introducing you to their dick.

Hell I only read half your profile and I wanna fuck you stupid.

Must be something in the air.

QSM

LMAO....

But QSM, Darling.....

Tell us how you really feel.

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:05:24 PM

peppermint

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I must admit it, QSM has hit the nail on the head.

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:09:16 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Some have very long sticky tongues. Might be right up your alley!

TMI!!!!!

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:29:43 PM

LafayetteLady

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Yep, QSM did hit the nail on the head. It isn't simply that you don't say you are also looking for friends, it's that most men read the term "nympho" and think "she will fuck anyone." You see that your profile isn't working for ya, time to make a change.

Not that you asked (but since so many have mentioned it, you will ask), take all the sexual stuff out of your profile. Take all the erotica off your journal. Save it in a file and when you meet the right guy, you can share it with him.

The type of guy you say you are looking for is going to read your profile and pass you by.

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:56:12 PM

hardbodysub

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Time to re-watch "When Harry Met Sally".

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:57:09 PM

jujubeeMB

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Ok, but let's be honest. We're all impressed with the deep-throating, are we not?

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RE: friendship.. - 6/30/2010 10:58:14 PM

AQuietSimpleMan

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And BINGO was his Name-O

QSM

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RE: friendship.. - 7/1/2010 12:21:51 AM

FlamingRedhead

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Um...no...can't everyone do that? I mean...as long as it's not more than 6"....

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