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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:13:48 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

Awwwww Jeffff is proclaiming his love to Domi......

Laurell3 is gunna be PISSED!!!!

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Quite the contrary, if Jeff wants to do boys, I am ALL FOR IT!

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:17:26 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:17:44 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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Status: offline 		AWWWWW Laurell3,s would be okay with Jeffff tagin Domi.

Now I'm Creeped out.

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:20:42 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If I could do boys........ DG and I would be living in BLISS!



I could watch though right? right? right? right? right?

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:21:55 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:22:18 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

AWWWWW Laurell3,s would be okay with Jeffff tagin Domi.

Now I'm Creeped out.

QSM



Yeah well sadly it's not going to happen. Apparently this you do every odd thing my sadistic imagination can come up with thing is one-sided....I shoulda read the submissive's handbook...

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:22:32 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:23:28 PM   
laurell3


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What would we need you for?


Help you figure out what to do with the meat flavored condom?

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 3:24:00 PM   
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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 4:10:47 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: loveydovey

I never said you were a "catty bitch" and coming after me for someone else making that indication is strictly just wrong..


You're right you didn't. As you post more regularly on the forums you will learn that one or two statements in a post may be in reply to a different post. You are obviously aware that it was something implied elsewhere in the thread. Just so you know if I were "coming after you," it would not likely be that subtle.

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as you state there is a time and a place for everything, you do realize that what i wrote in my profile is in a bdsm adult personals website??? Not a job interview? For clarification its not my love of erotica but my love of writing erotica..



There is a section on the message boards where you can post what you write did you know that? There are quite a few people who enjoy writing erotica, including several who are published as well. And not "self published" either.

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Actually if you read my post again i did not state why i am not making friends.. That is what YOU read into it.. If i was not grown up to accept what people said about my profile and to understand accept that i opened myself up to critique in a public domain then i would not have made the small changes in my profile or taken it down for a little bit of time. I never did ask point blank for your critique or opinion.


Nope you didn't point blank ask for my or anyone else's critique or opinion. I'm certainly not the only one who gave you a critique or an opinion either or who read into your post that you were having trouble making a "friend" on this site.

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I have found it difficult just to make a friend here out side of the men women and couples pursueing me for other things.. Why is it that hard to find someone be it Dom/Master sub/slave or switch to just chat with share laughter over things.. just generally all around friendship..


Look familiar? Several people have given you some opinions on why that might be. You choose to ignore that and continue on your merry way, supporting that your way is ok because it is an Adult site. It isn't Second Life, it isn't Adult Friend finder. It is a community of people who are some way or another involved in BDSM, but also have normal lives, morals and values, and they are typically applied to our opinions.

So it isn't, as someone else said, that the women are catty bitches who are too competitive to be your friend. Maybe it is simply that we read your posts and your profile (still) and make the assumption, wrong or right, based on what you wrote that all you are interested in is getting laid and having 12 orgasms a day. Perhaps it is simply that people are seeking friends who have other interests and more depth than what it is you are presenting. Because I'm sure there is more to you than that, but that is all you put out there.

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 4:41:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan


The Picture of your Deep Throating the Wookie only further adds to the number of men who wish they could be your Wookie.





QSM making me snort is just mean!

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 4:44:29 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: laurell3


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If I could do boys........ DG and I would be living in BLISS!



I could watch though right? right? right? right? right?


Of course. We need a keen set of eyes to hail the pizza guy!

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:01:28 PM   
sunshinemiss


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If you read my origional post it was not asking why am "i" having problems making friends most of you read it as stating that.. what i said is i was wondering if any one else is and if they would like a quirky friend..


Fair enough.

Let's see the answer for me would be NO. I do not have any problems making friends. Here on CM, my friends are the ones I talk about work, hobbies, day to day foibles, share experiences, concerns and fears with, the people that I discuss our favorite types of tea and coffee with, we talk about children (theirs since I don't have any), travel (since I do a lot of it), and the people we flirt with.

On occasion we talk about sex. It's about 5% of the conversation.

I don't really want to go outside of that particular target range of 5ish% of my life being about sex. I rather like balance. Your journal entry, your profile, and your OP (with the spank me line) suggest you are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy over my personal comfort zone.

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yeah i have tried the chat rooms and would love to delve deeper into those with someone who knows what they are doing as i think i have given clueless a whole new meaning


I used to spend a lot of time in the chat rooms. They are generally speaking for cyber sex. The one and only one that wasn't has since left and gone to another site. I don't like cyber sex and am not interested in it.

Whether you like it or not, the people that you are asking about friendship are not going to just say Yes I have a similar problem, no I don't. We are an opinionated bunch. When

GREAT BIG NEON LIGHTS

jump at us, we tell someone to

TONE IT DOWN


My grandma used to tell me that to have a good friend you have to *be* a good friend. I wouldn't trust a woman like you around my man for a heartbeat. I would think that you and your sexual nature would say "screw the friendship, fuck the man". That is the image you put off, whether right or wrong. I don't need that in my life, thank you very much.


*eta: That, by the way, is not about competition. Any man who wanted me wouldn't want a woman like you. And by the same token, any man who wanted you, simply wouldn't want me. I don't want the sum total of my friendship with someone to be "oh how do I get in his pants", "oh isn't he hot", "oh wow I gotta get laid". That gets boring really quickly.
But hey, good luck in finding your friends,
Sunshine

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 7/2/2010 5:05:40 PM >

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:24:48 PM   
Firebirdseeking


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Status: offline 		You put a post up here asking for feedback. You got it. You are free to take the feedback or leave it, its your choice.

I agree that the primary content of your profile is sexual. If that is what you put out there, that is what people will respond to. If your content is mostly sexual, who do you think you will attract??

And you provided a great deal of sexual information. TMI, IMHO.

Also, I dont know why ANYONE would post a nude pic of themselves on the internet. It strikes me as very unsafe behavior, IMHO.

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:33:01 PM   
DaddysInkedSlut


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Status: offline 		I have to ask how is posting a nude picture on the net unsafe? Perhaps this sounds a bit naive but the same risks could be said for posting any pictures on the net. We have no control over how people use them or manipulate them. I have some semi nude pics in my profile and sexual pics in my profile. It is what my Daddy told me to put, for the simple fact we aren't looking for anything but play partners so of course we would focus on the sexual aspects.

That is how I read the OPs profile before she pulled it like she was looking for casual friendship and play.

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:34:39 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:41:47 PM   
mstrjx


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Jeff

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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:43:43 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

AWWWWW Laurell3,s would be okay with Jeffff tagin Domi.

Now I'm Creeped out.

QSM

I'd be ok with Jefff taging Domi.

Just sayin.


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:45:57 PM   
DaddysInkedSlut


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RE: friendship.. - 7/2/2010 5:46:57 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I believe I can speak for both of us when I say...... thank you all for your support!

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