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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

It is definite compatibility. I think a lot of times people forget how much dominants do for us. My life has been made better, fuller, and more joyous when I am with someone who has inspired me to submit.

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ORIGINAL: loverly

in my opinion ... If our primary need was to SERVE and PLEASE and that is where we got all our pleasure from.. then we could just be "serving" whom ever and have our needs met... In MY case.. yes.. i wish to make Him happier than He ever thought He could be by pretty much whatever means that would be within the set hard limits.

However it is the Inspiration HE ( as opposed to they) fills me up with that ignights and drives me to wish to do this For Him. The inspiration , for me, is Him loving me more than himself .. the same as i will do for Him. As i happily serve Him with my all .... He in turn will wish only for my total happiness as well.. Total Communication.. Total Trust .. Total Committment to this by TWO people doing it for One Another is what it is about ....for me.

Also for me He is a person the same as i am .. and it is a relationship like any other..A Man and a woman.... just that it is with Two ppl who are openminded and wish to explore more than just conventional things in life together with whatever dynamic is a perfect fit for Both Together.

just sayin... [:)]

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

There is for me.  My entire life is not wrapped up in a man or being submissive, there are a lot of other things going on.  My wants and needs are paramount to the how I view the success of a relationship.  I can not selflessly give with nothing in return.  I also could not be with someone who had that expectation of me.