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RE: Aftercare for Dominants (and Tops/etc.) - 7/7/2010 8:34:13 AM

sunshinemiss

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I asked about this. He said, "I don't *need* anything. I like to take care of you afterward because you need it, and I *want* to take care of you."

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RE: Aftercare for Dominants (and Tops/etc.) - 7/7/2010 12:12:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I asked about this. He said, "I don't *need* anything. I like to take care of you afterward because you need it, and I *want* to take care of you."

Whereas I need to take care of you (you being generic in this case) so if what you need is for me to leave you the fuck alone after I'm going to have problems.

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RE: Aftercare for Dominants (and Tops/etc.) - 7/7/2010 8:22:44 PM

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I like getting backrubs post play because the close intimate contact allows each of us to surface slowly.
We talk, we laugh, we nuzzle, we relish each other. It's a happyhappy.

i like giving full-body massages, if my Partner likes one that is.

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RE: Aftercare for Dominants (and Tops/etc.) - 7/7/2010 11:10:07 PM

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I need to hug and cuddle my bottom a bit right afterwards. Usually I'm outrageously hot and sweating, but I do need the contact. As has been said before, if you don't want me to touch you afterwards, that's problematic for me. Then I want to sit down and get off the bad foot, very likely get out of my shoes, and just come down a bit and giggle at nothing for a while. One of the things one of my boys does for me after we play is after he sucks down his bottle of water he will sit down behind me and start brushing my hair out so that I can knot it up on my head again, and as I use my hair in play that is a very nice sort of calming but sensual and useful thing for him to do, and the hair is hiplength, so he's not right up against me doing this. With him, sometimes we go pretty much straight to the floor and fuck, because the play is very foreplay.

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RE: Aftercare for Dominants (and Tops/etc.) - 7/8/2010 12:14:24 AM

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Aftercare? You mean you stop? If I stop it's to eat, sleep or go shopping.

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