CaringandReal
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I think those who come here showing respect and with a desire to learn get treated nicely. Its only those trolling for a reaction or complaining about something that gets people in a dither.
Not true, I direct you to just about any and every punishment thread in the last year.
The Idea that someone wants to Punish someone usually gets nasty comments from those who disagree with Punishment Dynamics.
The girl who was involved in a relationship with a Man 35 years older than her was respectful and asked an honest question and she was told her master was basically a pedophile for doing so.
Lusciouslips you have been around long enough, I can't believe that you would say such a thing.
I can't believe that you don't see it, so I guess I would rather ask do you not see anything disrespectful about the above examples I gave?
QSM
I believe it. (the blindness and seeing whatever one wants to see.) I saw a thread last night in which some fellow asked a specific question, and ten people answered a completely different question than what he asked about and nobody, not even the thread starter who seemed thrilled with the attention he was getting from the regular posters, happened to notice this fact. I was going to answer his actual question, but then something my former master used to say (well, actually, he'd sing it) all the time came to me "There's no hope, there's no hope, there's JUST NO HOPE!" ;) So I slowly disentangled my fingers from the keyboard and edged out of yet another never-never-land thread.
You know what's interesting about those punishment threads is that not only are many posters anti-punishment, but when a new poster reports that his submissive is disobeying, the instant chours is (sing along with me, folks!) "Kick Her To the Curb!" What's shocking is that the chorus starts singing for the most minor of infractions or normal submissive newbie mistakes--as if the posters themselves haven't ever made such mistakes (or aren't currently committing greater ones and getting away with it scott free). As you concluded above, I think certain individuals must be pretty damn miserable in their own relationships: no one else except that sort tries so very hard to break up others' relationships.
So. No working with your submissive, no disciplining her, no teaching the right way, no seeing that this is a training failure on your part and you need to get smarter, more skilled, better at discipling and control, no trying to preserve what you may have spent a long time building, just crash the relationship to pieces, dump her on the street if she is the tinest bit disobedient. Who in this instant-grati world can be bothered to discipline and train these days? Especially when you can just go dash over to Subs-R-Us next door (aka the personals), having learned nothing from your experience except that people cry when they're kicked (No! really?), and pick up your next human commodity.
Sheesh, I don't even throw out my dustbuster when it "misbehaves." I try to clean its filter. :/
Good thread. It's sad to have to say this, but you nailed this forum.
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