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blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:19:37 PM

Magiere

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what to do when a Domme you meet once in person threatens your to send a copy of your profile to your boss if you dont ler her collar you. I have a friend who is very new to the lifestyle and made the mistake of putting his pics on his profile even though he knows it would cost him his job if they found out.

He is seriously scared and wont listen to my advice. She has threatened to cut off his nuts and grind them up and feed them to him if he see anyone else. He went to see her and spent a day with her and says she is an evil bitch.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:23:51 PM

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Easy. Delete the profile. Then play it off like its obsessive wackado who created the profile to cause issues.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:39:14 PM

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yeah, and get a nutsack, for the ground nuts.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:47:32 PM

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She has threatened to cut off his nuts and grind them up and feed them to him if he see anyone else.

Raw? Like as in Gonad Tartar?... My best suggestion - Lemon juice, and a little paprika.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:51:40 PM

Magiere

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you guys are so much help but I am not sure telling him to invest in the lemon juice and paprika will really help him out at this point.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:52:24 PM

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Ditto for delete the profile. And don't post any pics you don't want to be blackmailed with. Easy enough ain't it?

O, and don't give out personal info to someone you hardly know. There's a reason for that. Case in point as stated by the OP.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:54:48 PM

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Oh alright... I'm sorry, I really am.

Blackmail is a criminal offence. In the US it's a federal crime...

My advice to your friend is to tell the blackmailer that if they go ahead with their threats, there will be legal consequences, and then to break off contact.

If this person persists, then he needs to call the law.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:54:50 PM

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You say he won't listen to your advice

Then you ask what you should tell him

How is that going to work?

Maybe the friend should grow enough of a pair to ask himself

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 2:55:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Magiere

what to do when a Domme you meet once in person threatens your to send a copy of your profile to your boss if you dont ler her collar you. I have a friend who is very new to the lifestyle and made the mistake of putting his pics on his profile even though he knows it would cost him his job if they found out.

He is seriously scared and wont listen to my advice. She has threatened to cut off his nuts and grind them up and feed them to him if he see anyone else. He went to see her and spent a day with her and says she is an evil bitch.

Assuming blackmail is a *criminal* offence in your country and he actually knows where she lives, then the solution ain't rocket science.

First, friend checks his pants to ensure he does have a set of stones.

Second, he leaves the simpering sub persona at home and goes and sees her.

Then he points out to her that if she doesn't back the fuck off, he's gonna suck up his pride and take his newly discovered stones to the Police and spill everything.

"Evil" or not, those who indulge in criminality really don't want the cops a callin'....

Focus.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 3:04:44 PM

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What Focus said. The police LOVE solving real crimes, and internet harassment counts!

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 3:24:52 PM

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A letter from his lawyer threatening both criminal and civil suits should be enough to get her to stop.

But really, anybody can put up a profile. And photoshop images with one person's head on top of somebody else's body.

If I were in his shoes, I'd tell my boss that I had one date with a person who has turned out to be a stalker, who is creating terrible photoshopped images of me, and threatening me, and ask for his advice. Which puts the boss on your friend's side, and he won't believe the weirdo over someone who has been a good employee for years.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 3:55:59 PM

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Firstly, what you put on the internet for PUBLIC DISPLAY is PUBLIC DISPLAY.
There are consequences for things you do...LIVE WITH IT.It sounds like someone is looking for jack-off material...
"grind up your nuts?" PLEASE>>>>>>

There are laws against REAL blackmail.

I prefer the pretend kind.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 6:57:18 PM

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That's why you always use a picture of your facebook profile, so you can say "somebody stole my picture from my facebook profile".

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 7:05:57 PM

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Well, first off, I'd say you have stupid friends.

Met her once and now she's going to his job? Most folks that I know that have any kind of morality clause as a part of their employment contract are more intelligent than that. Actually, even being on this site, unless he has photos of him engaged in sexual or acts of BDSM, he's safe. He has to be actually DOING something for there to be an issue. Unless she's got video, it doesn't prove anything.

Tell your friend that his fantasy of blackmail is just that. This is nothing more than drama that is probably more exciting during orgasm.

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RE: blackmail - 7/5/2010 7:58:36 PM

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quote:

Firstly, what you put on the internet for PUBLIC DISPLAY is PUBLIC DISPLAY.
There are consequences for things you do...LIVE WITH IT

Indeed! And yet, there is that thrill of living on the edge, . . . . . until you step on your own shoelace, which may have happened in this case.

It is exciting because of the potential danger, but how many of us are really ready for the worst case outcome that is is turning us on, like so many testicles tartar' which I suspect that even for those who do masturbate to the reference might get sick if they thought about for more than about 15 seconds?

I'd rather keep the "if I'd thought about it for more than 15 seconds I'd have realized . . . " experiences at the level of" lying in a puddle of urine in soaked clothing, realizing that I did not have a change of clothes with me, and discovering that the once warm piss was getting very cold awakenings, and not the "omg this crazy person really might send pictures to my boss" variety.

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 12:35:47 AM

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I was threatened with blackmail once. I don't post pics on here, and I only ever send 'nilla head and shoulders shots to people via IM or email - the same pics as on my facebook page. This creep threatened to out me. I went to my boss, said I'd made friends with someone, went on a date and it didn't work out, and he was trying to blackmail me by making up all sorts of lies.

Result? Very sympathetic boss, particularly when I said I'd reported it to the police.

In this situation, pre-emptive strike is the only way. I only hope the photos are not too compromising. if they are, he has to say they were taken by a partner during some 'adventurous sex' and were not intended to be shared, and now this spurned partner is turning a bit of innocent fun into something dirty and shameful.

Hope your friend is a good actor!

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 12:42:45 AM

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quote:

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I was threatened with blackmail once. I don't post pics on here, and I only ever send 'nilla head and shoulders shots to people via IM or email - the same pics as on my facebook page. This creep threatened to out me. I went to my boss, said I'd made friends with someone, went on a date and it didn't work out, and he was trying to blackmail me by making up all sorts of lies.

Result? Very sympathetic boss, particularly when I said I'd reported it to the police.

In this situation, pre-emptive strike is the only way. I only hope the photos are not too compromising. if they are, he has to say they were taken by a partner during some 'adventurous sex' and were not intended to be shared, and now this spurned partner is turning a bit of innocent fun into something dirty and shameful.

Hope your friend is a good actor!

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 1:00:05 AM

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I like the lawyer letter best. It will cost a few bucks, but it has the advantage of no more contact with the domme. It also keeps the boss out of it and is proof to both police and employers that you acted responsibly when threatened with blackmail. Cutting contact with the person denies the domme want she wants: chances to smell the fear.

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 1:13:21 AM

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Another reason I don't put up naked or kinky pictures of myself, despite the grouchy "You ain't kinky if you ain't got kinky pictures!" type of messages I so often receive.

I agree with the other advice given here: delete the profile, alert the police, and contact your lawyer. The woman is a criminal if she's blackmailing people, and deserves to get smacked by the full force of the law. The cuffs won't be so fun when they're on her and come with jail time.

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RE: blackmail - 7/6/2010 8:03:55 PM

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So what if he deletes his profile? All she has to do is perform a print screen on his profile at any point before he deletes it and viola! One copy saved to her computer! So no, that is not really an option. My advice, go after her with a passion. Counter-stalk this bitch, send leather bride magazine to her work place in her name, have her parents utilities cut off, fill out a mail forwarding form and have it diverted to another country for the next 2 months. Hell, grab some road kill and smear it on her car bumper and then make an anonymous phone call using a pre-pay boost phone to the cops telling them you witnessed a hit and run and have the persons license plate. Keep an eye on the paper for unsolved crimes in the area, call her in as a person of interest. Especially if it is regarding a burglary and they will have to follow up on it. Shit, the list goes on and on about how you could make her so damn miserable she will beg you to leave her alone. Just deny everything and make counter accusations against this bitch for stalking you, harassing you, etc. etc.

THAT is what I would tell your friend.

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