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OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla part... - 7/5/2010 10:40:58 PM   
submissivemale22


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Status: offline 		or you can masturbate to whatever submissive ideation appeals to you the most. which are you taking?

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/5/2010 10:55:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd masturbate. My master allowed me to have sex in the past and it's just not the same. It's a total let down. I can't be myself and can't teach someone to dominate me. I'd rather save the time and think of Master cuffing me and fucking me in the ass and making me wait to cum until he allows me to. In the end I'm being me, I'm more turned on, less distracted and I know I'll cum hard.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/5/2010 11:35:42 PM   
hopelesslyInvo


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Status: offline 		if those are the only two things i can do, then i easily chose...

nothing.

since that isn't an option, improvisation is required to counter my stubbornness.  if the hot girl/woman ever wants to move on with her life she is left with the options to either force a sexual confrontation, or to coerce me into doing what she says. 

if a 3rd party tries to intervene and force me to make a decision, they would likely include verbal and physical forms of abuse to try and persuade me, otherwise we move into things like forced substance abuse from any type of drug they administer and possibly sensory deprivation, though i'd obviously not need to fear for my life as killing me would prevent me from taking one of the two given options thus debunking the entire thing. 

coupled by the fact that i'm being forced to make one of these two decisions against my will, and in a form of bondage by the fact that i'm detained until one of these two outcomes are reached, not to mention that in any manner with which we reach one of these outcomes i will have been humiliated; possibly been involved in exhibitionism, voyeurism, chastity, tease and denial, as well as restraints...

all in all, i'd call that another victory for bdsm~

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/5/2010 11:40:02 PM   
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I am very firm in the belief of poly fidelity.  I'm also not prone to masturbate.

Sexual urges don't drive Me.  I would think you would have learned this by now.


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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/5/2010 11:51:16 PM   
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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 12:05:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		For me it would be both, but the question would be 'in which order'...

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 12:57:36 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Geez, but you are a pissy little kid, aren't you?

If you don't want everyone to post responses why don't you just send emails to the people you wish to hear from?

As for your question, while I enjoy BDSM sex, and I enjoy good looking men, neither are my motivation for sex. Does that mean I would masturbate? Nope. It means that there isn't a logical point to your question, so there is not a reason to answer.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:00:46 AM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		Given that:

A. Thanks to the internet, I could go to any number of hook-up sites and have Mr. Hot Vanilla any night.

&

B. The fact that I don't.

My answer is easy to deduce. However, what goes on between me and me is private.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:05:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Does that mean I would masturbate? Nope. It means that there isn't a logical point to your question, so there is not a reason to answer.


Thank you for your contribution to this thread.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:08:55 AM   
Silkers


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Status: offline 		Yep sounds rather pissy to me as well.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:13:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22

those of you with a tendency to try to over-think the room (or with the inability to grasp the dichotomous nature of an either/or question) are encouraged to take their discussion elsewhere. The function of the exercise is pretty transparent.



You don't learn do you?


I don't label myself as "vanilla" or kinky. I am both and neither.

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 7/6/2010 1:14:54 AM >

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:37:55 AM   
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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 1:54:38 AM   
angelikaJ


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I am sorry for the earlier departure.

I am curious, why are you so interested in the hypotheticals of other people on such subjects.

I tried to look up your posts but of the 212 you've made I can only view 80.

I deduce you have (a) pattern(s) of being disruptive in some form or fashion...?

In this particular amusement for you, as I am owned only one option applies: the latter.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 2:12:09 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		i have a vivid imagination... it is perfectly possible for me to have real sex and fantasize about all sorts of stuff at the same time...

it is unlikely that i would climax with a stranger though 

so if i were allowed i'd want both, first the vanilla stranger, and then wank off on it

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 3:30:50 AM   
littlewonder


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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 4:29:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale22

or you can masturbate to whatever submissive ideation appeals to you the most. which are you taking?




Masturbate, for sure. Though from the way you phrased the question it sounds like you're talking about sex for the fun of it rather than in a relationship, so I'd also rather masturbate than having sex with "a hot bdsm partner" who I wasn't in a relationship with. In fact I'd rather masturbate to a vanilla fantasy than have casual sex.

I tried the "sex for fun" thing a few times, it never worked. I'd much rather get lost in my head and have an amazing orgasm than try to relate to someone on a purely sexual level. It's awkward and never fun.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 4:42:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
or you can masturbate to whatever submissive ideation appeals to you the most. which are you taking?


Neither.

the.dark.

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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 4:47:48 AM   
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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 4:59:17 AM   
DarkSteven


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When the heck did collarme get a freaking quiz show?


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RE: OK, new hypo: you can have sex with a hot vanilla ... - 7/6/2010 5:43:16 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Most of the sex we have is vanilla. There usually isn't time for a full scene. Especially during the summer with kids at home.

But neither, because I don't have sex outside of a committed relationship and masturbation isn't something that really works for me.


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