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WhippedWolfpup -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/15/2006 7:26:51 PM)

if u were really gorean, u would understand. you master released you back to youre other master. u are a gorean slave then you have no choice so stop bitching.



truesub4u -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/15/2006 7:41:04 PM)

Hey Owned!.... Look... Another one of those!!!!!!..... welcome to forums WWP.... good luck.. I think you're going to need it... LOL



akisha -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/15/2006 7:53:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WhippedWolfpup

if u were really gorean, u would understand. you master released you back to youre other master. u are a gorean slave then you have no choice so stop bitching.


If He were a Gorean Master He would not degrade Himself by allowing another to do His duty. For that would show He was incapable and not a True Man. And in doing so He would lose face before those He respects, stands and fights with.

True, a kajira has no right to complain or question any decision that her Master makes in regards to her care or keeping  but.....

On Gor, there are procedures and ceremonies for everything. No Man of an Honourable House would EVER shame Himself by not taking care of His own property. Be it to punish, tell whom to serve and how, or to release. Seeing as our societey here on earth is highly against killing a kajira when they displease this is not one thing that is likely to happen often.

Plus, she was not given back to a former Master or given away  to anyone, just informed, via another person that her "Master" no longer wanted her. Also, had she been given to another Master, her current Master would have informed her directly.  For we all know in Gor,  slaves are frequently stolen from other houses, especially those with a reputation of producing high quality slaves. So why would a slave trust the word of anyone other then her own Master or His Second, or even the first girl of the House?  She would not, for that would be foolish. A well trained slave would know better then to trust any but those to whom she belongs.

If i were to say that your Master informed me that you are no longer desireable to Him and He wants you gone, would you accept my word on it or would you go directly to your Master, belly at His feet and beg for clarification and confirmation?



IronBear -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 4:14:25 AM)

You just knew I'd come in a completely agree with you didn't you akisha? Some things are just not done! It is not cricket y'know.



MstrFury -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 6:26:49 AM)

as with a lot of responses I've seen lately...there are so many so quick to name call..bash..degrade someone...if that's your thing...then so be it...but unless you've experienced every single life excerise...I would say...unless you have direct consort with the parties involved...a simple opinion would surfice...like the one by KoM...he doesn't know the facts...yet his reply was the one I lean to.....whatever you do...do it with Honor....



qedesh -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 7:47:52 AM)

Agreed.  Third party uncollaring is chickenshit.  Not quite as bad as total abandonment, which is what happened to me...but only because in my situation there's no resolution, no knowing what I did wrong or why.....he just stopped responding to my messages, blocked my emails, stopped calling.  And I'm left clueless as to what went wrong.  What kind of Master does these things? 



kajirared -> i wish to thank everyone for their support (4/16/2006 7:57:19 AM)

Greetings to all who come here
and thank you for knowledge and support, at this time it much needed and appericated. smiles upon you this day,
take care and be safe
kajira red



topcat -> RE: i wish to thank everyone for their support (4/16/2006 8:01:58 AM)

Dear KR-
 
Was this, by anychance, an LDR?
 
 I could see someone 'deputizing' someone local to uncollar their LDR slave, so as to allow them some support/comfort at that time. I think it would beat an over the phone/email approach.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence



ExistentialSteel -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 8:02:43 AM)

Littlesarbonn, LOL....you are throwing out some funny stuff this thread. To the OP, I don't mean to laugh at what happened to you either...it sucked.



ownedgirlie -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 8:48:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Hey Owned!.... Look... Another one of those!!!!!!..... welcome to forums WWP.... good luck.. I think you're going to need it... LOL


lol true.  That one isn't worth it.  Why waste a good apple?!

As for the OP, A Master unable to conduct his own work is not a Master.  Either that, or he is a Master with no balls.  i am sorry you were treated with such disregard.



akisha -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 9:19:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

You just knew I'd come in a completely agree with you didn't you akisha? Some things are just not done! It is not cricket y'know.


Thanks IB [:D]

*giggles* well i figure if someone is going to come in and start spouting off about Gor they should probably have a clue as to what they are talking about [:)]





IndigoDadesi -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 3:56:02 PM)

Well I can understand someone breaking up with you that way if you are in highschool.

Breaking up is always hard, but doing through a third party is just cowardly.



RiotGirl -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/16/2006 8:35:19 PM)

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I am curious though how is this different than a slave taking her own collar off


Because even if you take the collar off you still have to tell or confront the Master, or even "deal" with the reprecussions of doing so.  Which ever those might be.  i've done excatly that.  Taken the collar right off.  Didnt take away the effect that i had to deal/confront/or talk to him about.  Not in the least.  Even had to deal with the consequences of having it put right back on and then being lectured about how the decision to serve him was my last choice and i havent the choice to remove it if i want too and no matter, even if  our r/s is over and we're re married with 30 kids between us, i am still his slave until he says the magic words.  "You've been released you are not my slave"

<sigh> i wasnt even breaking up.  i was deciding i wanst into bdsm or a submissive anymore or maybe deciding to become a Domme lolz. 

it would of been different if i had mysteriously disappeared and then let a friend of mine explain where'd i go.  But then i suppose i'm taking it as.. a relationship were two ppl live together.

Not one where you can magically not answer phone calls or not reply to emails and the like of ldr.  Course him living an hour away (which to me was a ldr) wouldnt of worked either.  As he'd of come over and said "whats going on?"

much different to me.



AlderTheKitty -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/17/2006 12:19:48 PM)

even if you decide someone just isn't right at least give them the respect of telling them your self theyre is no greater insult then findinding out from someone else that someone doesn't want you this is for disscusions that have gone on for over  am month and don't think not telling them is apropreate cause your a domme how would you like it if you where intrested in a sub for afew months and suddenly they blow you off



Dustyn -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/17/2006 12:45:51 PM)

Now I have never uncollared someone third party, but I have broken up with someone third party.

Wasn't cowardice, I think, but more along the lines of I just wanted NO further contact with the person at all.  Period.  Telling them to sod off was more energy than I thought they were worth, and still do think that.

Everyone has a reason for what they do.  We just don't always like it.



Moloch -> RE: dont un-collar your slave third party (4/17/2006 12:58:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WhippedWolfpup

if u were really gorean, u would understand. you master released you back to youre other master. u are a gorean slave then you have no choice so stop bitching.


Only  a push over like you would use a Science-Fiction book as a flimsy excuse for acting like a coward.



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