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Turning my husband kinky - 9/20/2004 8:36:38 PM

amanda

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Hi all,

I've pretty much been a lurker around here since I'm so shy but I'd just thought I'd post some thoughts.

My husband and I are newbies to bdsm and kink in general. I've had kinky feelings for a long time but I haven't explored any of them until about a year ago when I got the confidence to tell my husband about some of my desires.

Well, his reaction was fairly predictable for a "vanilla" guy. He was surprised and very hesitant, and I think a little nervous about the whole thing.

But the more we talked the more open he became. It's been a very slow process but after a year he's starting to think of ideas for play on his own.

I'm topping from the bottom less and less now and he's becoming more and more creative

I doubt we'll ever be in the lifestyle 24/7, but bedroom bdsm suits us just fine.

I just thought I'd share that with time and patience and the right person, the vanilla to kink transformation can indeed happen.

We are both happy and enjoying our journey together.

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/20/2004 10:14:04 PM

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Welcome to the forums amanda. I also had to "turn my husband kinky" and we're both loving it now.

BTW i love your collar.

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/20/2004 11:28:05 PM

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After prouds comments I had to ckeck it out. Those collars are gorgeous! you are very skilled!

Welcome to collarme!

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/21/2004 5:11:13 AM

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Hi Amanda and welcome to the boards!

Yes your collars are gorgeous! And its good to hear things are working out well for you both. Congrats!

And as far as lurking, dont! Jump on in the water is fine!!!!!!!

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/21/2004 6:27:30 AM

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Welcome amanda:

I love the pink collar. Have you made many? You could sell them anywhere; provided you have the time. Sell them in the marketplace here on collarme. I am shy as well and my man is more shy, but we are in the same boat as you. We have opened our eyes to a wonderful new world. Good luck and hope to see you on the boards.

Sincerely,
ann

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/21/2004 8:31:00 AM

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Thanks very much everybody...for the welcome as well as the compliments

The collars are pretty much just a hobby for me but I do sell the occasional one so that I can buy more beads...LOL

Beads and bondage...not bad addictions eh? LOL

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/21/2004 4:29:37 PM

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Hi amanda!

We are happy to see you post your introduction. beth gets plenty of compliments on the "baby girl" collar you made for her. she'll be wearing it for the entire weekend up at Folsom.

Thanks Again!!!

Merc & beth

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RE: Turning my husband kinky - 9/22/2004 8:50:41 AM

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Thanks Merc & Beth

It was my absolute pleasure to make it for you. I liked the way it turned out so much I just may make one for myself...hehehehee.

Take care,
Amanda

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