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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 7/8/2010 4:11:42 PM

OttersSwim

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BDSM relationships are built on trust, honesty, responsibility, and safety between the parties.

Your post...and your profile indicate little understanding of those tenants and makes it difficult for people dedicated to this lifestyle and those tenants to take you seriously.

People's posts are often held up as a mirror to reflect to them that what they are engaged in may well be very wrong and perhaps it is time to pause what they are doing for a hard look at each of those ideals and a comparison to their actions, any innocents involved, and their integrity.

What we see about ourselves isn't always pretty...hopefully you will take something productive out of this experience.

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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 7/8/2010 4:13:57 PM

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No, bashing you would have went something more like this:

I actually don't believe one word of this fantasy drivel that you typed up to get attention. CM isn't exactly Penthouse Forum Letters and there's probably as much truth in what you wrote here as anything they ever published. The thing is, you just don't run into many middle aged, overweight, married men who have the good fortune of meeting a woman online who is willing to suck him off within the first hour of ever meeting him face to face. So, at best, you're lying.

If it is true, it makes absolutely no sense for you to come here and ask your question, because you could have just as well asked the woman who was willing to risk her health why she did what she did. If you're so much on the up and up, you also could have asked your wife, and in fact should have asked your wife because she has every right to know if you are putting her at risk through your practices. Even if you have her permission to play, which I doubt includes sexual acts without condoms, I'll bet you don't have permission to risk bringing home STDs. So, at worst, you're a selfish prick who doesn't care about bringing home a disease to his wife.

There's not one shred of integrity about this thread no matter which is the case. However, like most males who need to be "discrete" in their practices, I'm glad you wrote it up. It allows any woman who interacts with you on this site in the future to pull it up by using the 'forum posts' feature to see just what kind of a guy you are if you should contact them.

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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 7/9/2010 7:27:02 AM

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Ya know what...

My guess is this guys who's wife had a medical problem and doesn't wanna fuck so that justifies his cheating....his brother is the guy who has the car accidents on his way to appointments with Dommes!

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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 8/12/2010 5:35:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dex64

The question is, why would a domme demand that you don't cum then do everything in her power to make it happen and get mad because you didn't listen?

Because she's FUCKING CRAZY !!! Stay away from this woman, people like this are poisonous

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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 8/12/2010 10:02:57 PM

MistressLavinia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Maybe she wanted to play Russian roulette in her hopes that you are disease free.

Quite the lucky person you turned out to be. A Domme brought you to orgasm and all she took for herself were a few strikes with the paddle. You should sell the story to someone who produces porn.

I wholeheartedly agree, and think this was the finest answer. Especially the Russian Roulette!

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RE: Why do Dommes tell you not to have an orgasm, then.... - 8/13/2010 4:14:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

99% safer sex practices don't exist with a guy who doesn't use a condom when he cheats on his wife.

Just sayin'

boi

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At some point, since bringing this to our attention, the OPs profile has disappeared.

As for the OP, it does not sound like a very safe sex practice to me and it sounds like the OP is an attention-seeker. He could have asked the Domme in question why She did what She did. Who would know better than Her?

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