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RE: Help! - 7/10/2010 6:26:51 AM

divi

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

*this is not meant to be harsh*
(maybe just a little)

I expected the OP to be 18 and new to relationships. Imagine my surprise when I saw that she was in her fifties.
Seriously...by this time in your life you should have much better filtering and common sense skills.
You allowed a complete stranger to take full advantage of you. There is no one to blame except yourself.
If you have any sort of intelligence then you won't let this happen again.

Yes Aileen such the bitch you are lol... but honestly smarten up chick !!!

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RE: Help! - 7/10/2010 7:23:45 AM

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My login details I gave in good faith so what the hell ...... let him see what I am writing and responses I have. He might learn a thing or two then!

So you haven't changed your password yet?

Ummm. He can read the forums without a password. But with a password, he can pretend to be you and post...

He might even make you look like an idiot or something!

January

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RE: Help! - 7/10/2010 3:01:27 PM

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If you haven't already, change your password. If you can't, then write support and explain what happened and ask them to delete the account. Then start over with a new one. Don't just run away because of this jerk.

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RE: Help! - 7/11/2010 12:15:54 PM

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Dear sister,
I'm so sorry your first experience with a Dom was one like this. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon in this lifestyle. There are more "wannabes" than real genuine folks. But, don't dispair! You've made alot of progress just coming to the realization of who you are in this lifestyle. It's also very fortunate for you that he directed you to this site. Despite some bad apples (which you'll find no matter where you go) I do know there are some real, quality, sincere people here to help you pick up where he left off. My best advice to you is to remember this; you are a submissive even if you don't have a Dominant to currently submit to. You don't need a Dom to continue to learn and grow in the knowledge of what your submissiveness means to you and how you want to express it. Read everything you can. Keep what applies to you and leave the rest behind, but, don't ever quit learning whether you have a Dom in your life or not. You're journey has just begun. Feel free to message me with any questions or concerns you may have. If I don't know the answers, I'll be glad to help you find them. I wish you the best as you begin your journey.

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RE: Help! - 7/11/2010 2:48:27 PM

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One more thing OP, there is no union that decides the difference between a sub and a slave. The difference is solely in the viewer's perspective. Which means your view, although quite possibly diametrically opposed than mine, would be equally valid for you. But you don't get to label anyone else.

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