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RE: arrrgh!! - 4/16/2006 9:20:30 AM

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i don't think Master and i have ever even mentioned this motto. i either trust him or i don't. If i do, i don't need a motto. If i don't, i shouldn't be his.

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RE: SSC? - 4/16/2006 9:52:27 AM

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I don't practice SSC.
It's too relative.
It's too subjective.
It's too broadly defined.
It's improperly defined ("sane" is a legal term, not a psychological one).
It's someone else's mantra and has no bearing on my life or my relationships.

I see it kind of like the boy scout motto. It's great for the particular group who practices it, but really doesn't relate to me at all.

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RE: SSC? - 4/16/2006 10:00:01 AM

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I prefer RACK, or risk aware consensual kink.

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RE: arrrgh!! - 4/16/2006 10:54:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

SSC thread

OH GOD MAKE IT GO AWAY!!!

(here is a link that will educate many about this acronym)

http://sensuoussadie.com/interviews/davidsteininterview.htm

yes i have read the other thread, wich was on ssc in general. i hadnt meant for this to become a great debate on the topic, rather if it could be applied to a slave who had submitted, if someone who claims to pratice this had the opinion that they truely submit.

ah oh well.

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RE: SSC? - 4/16/2006 10:58:08 AM

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My interpretation of your question is that you are asking about the concept of consent within an M/s relationship, so I am going to answer it based on that.

How it works in my relationship is that when I started a relationship with him I consented to allow him to do is will. That consent was given for many reasons and we both took the time to make sure that I was as informed as possible on what I was consenting to. I also make the choice to consent every time I am told to do something or anytime he wants to do something to me. At anytime I can say no and then that will in effect end the M/s relationship. Once I remove his consent to do whatever he wants, then I have ended the relationship.

For us, consent was given explicitly and clearly once when I asked to be his and it is given implicitly each time I don’t say no.

Hope that this answers the question you were asking...

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RE: arrrgh!! - 4/16/2006 12:28:06 PM

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Well . . . guess I'm going to stick out like a sore thumb because I don't apply SSC to myself and my scenes; instead, I go by RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
The reason I changed my perception is this: nothing I do is really 'safe' when I think about it. And face it, half of it isnt sane! <lol>. . . and consensual is common sense unless its abuse.
With RACK- I'm aware of the risks involved in what I do, it's consensual, and of course it's kinky!

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RE: SSC? - 4/16/2006 3:15:28 PM

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Safe, Sane and Consensual is indeed a byword for most in the lifestyle. The way i see it relates to the M/M/s dynamic we have in our home is that in accepting the collar i consented to their every desire that once, instead of every time as is usual for casual play. As to the safe and sane part, i take that as a given. My Master and Mistress own me, they love me, and of course i trust them implicitly to keep me safe.

If you break your toys, how will you play with them the next day?

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